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Posted: 9 years ago
#81
Exactly deepali.rock. Sri Vishvanatha Iyer does what he pleases when his daughter is at home and speaks what he pleases...waiting for Amma to find out what transpired.
Edited by moonwearer - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Exactly deepali.rock. Sri Vishvanatha Iyer does what he pleases when his daughter is at home and speaks what he pleases...waiting for Amma to find out what transpired.

Sometimes I just fail to understand Mr. Iyer.
Whatsoever relationship you have with your son in law..but why is he meddling in his daughter's married life?
What she should be doing..what her hubby should be doing etc etc.

Every parent eventually wishes for their daughter to remain in a happy and comforting relationship in their marital life especially so when she has started her own family.

Doesn't Mr. Iyer realize that he may pose trouble for his Kozankhondai and her marital bliss? Isn't there a decorum that you follow with son-in-law OF the house?

There are many households out their which torture the girl and what not and even parents ate helpless.. II is lucky that she's with such good ppl who treat her like a princess and whose all whims and fancies are catered too..
Shouldn't Mr. Iyer be just happy for his daughter for all these things?
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Posted: 9 years ago
#83
hey just saw there was no index made in the first page! and noticed i had commented on the first page!
hence have made an index!
have a look if u missed any update

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Posted: 9 years ago
#84
For all the differences Mr.iyer and dude have ... They have two commonalities . One, both of them do exactly as they please. Two they are extremely possessive about their favorite daughters.
And hence both of them feel justified. Dude gives his wife a hard time cos his Angel Nivi was troubled and Appa gives dude a hard time because his kozhandai was troubled. That they both are POS is the only thing that seem to be justified thing to say at the moment

Dude left it a little late for the white flag. The daughter shares her agony with her mother. The concerned mother shares it with her husband and it's sone pe suhaga for the FIL.
The decorum ... The respect that's ought to be there has never been shown because it's not been there in the first place. So it's not going to change over night.

I suppose when dude does things exactly as he pleases , leaves it a little late, then I'm thinking he too has to be prepared for things coming flying his way 😉 but I won't say that appa's wrath is justified as I'm well aware that mr.iyer is settling scores here more as if it's his time in the sun.

I'm in agreement with shruthi... This was only expected from Appa ... Justified or not it's another thing for debate.


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Posted: 9 years ago
#85
I wish it was Amma who picked up the call . Coming from her it wouldn't be this irritating as the one from Appa.
If II did a blunder and got lectured by Amma, Ranjan , Sam and dude...
A similar lecture from tan, Ranjan and Amma here couldn't be that bad for dude given the situation and his POS behavior.
It was not what was said to him blunt but it was who said it that's got us squashing .Nouf definitely did have a valid point last night when all of us were going hammer and tongs for Mr.Iyer.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What's really sad is Ranjan's state of agony... The lights in II's galaxy is blinding II.
The ideal person who should have been accompanying II is Ranjan bhalla who's the most happy for her.
She's got a lot of patching with her current float up to be done after she crash lands to earth. The high you fly the harder you fall.

I hope she goes through with the song though and for all the crap that's transpiring... She atleast has this song to her credit . Dude needs to crash land to earth too.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: VeeIyer

Worried from Warsaw !!!!!


I know ladies, the heading is no patch on Nisha's but the concern is sooo there !!

The dude is behaving like an ass and seems to need major reassuring from II that he is the sun in her universe...
Right now she is floating in her own galaxy and when she does come to know all this is the dude's doing, she is going to crash and that is something that gets me chewing my nails !!
The fall out can be scary ..give up the contract, get more insecure, cold war with new ammunition from both sides...

The not calling Ranjan , hopefully there is no problem around the corner there..

And appa being appa is a given. But he is going to "pulikudichofy " when he comes to know it is his dreaded SIL who is responsible for the call from chennai...

This entire scenario seems like a set up for a huge change in the equation at various levels. And Nisha must be smiling as she reads all of us flapping around !!

look at me to start off with😆



Vani appa is not going to pullikoduchify 😆 rather he's going to 'pammify and padungify'with EGG yolk and white messed on his dead "PAN" face and dude's going to relish eating this omelette from Mr. Iyers's PAN. Oh this is so funny and I'm cracking up 😆 😆 . I can imagine vadivel's voice over for Prakash raj ' vechuttanda Aappu'.i
All chennai 'mode' now.

Hey Nisha ... Can you make this funny when it happens. It's going to be howlarious.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#88
The music resonated through every cell in her body
The indifference she projected to the exacting teachers around
Slipped by and the years of saadhana coming to her aid
She breezed through the recording
Awe in the eyes of others pride in the eyes of Appa puzzle in the eyes of the baby dreams in the eyes of the star of the moment
unstoppable the doting father and daughter celebrated the limelight

Slights he bore stoically blame he winced at and worked at redeeming her lot
Slips and wrong calls hardened the difference to a cold war
Work demands on both a baby to attend and more lead to blame games and rising tempers
Work related travel drew them further apart
A father hell bent on fuelling the differences and spewing accusations
An intentional denial of the right to speak and suppression of facts
An identity now altered but inadvertently established
he nurses in solitude an exclusion
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Posted: 9 years ago
#89
There is this ghazal sung by Ghulam Ali which fits Rb to the hilt.

apni dhun mein rehta hoon
main bhi tere jaisa hoon
O pichchli rut ke saathi
ab ke baras mein tanha hoon

I guess strong emotions such as the ones (mainly negative) being felt by RB will make him realize a thing or two about himself. II is radium/sodium light those dull red ones (not even tube light, because tubelight thodi der mein jal hi jaati hai these other ones for days are dim and then suddently light up). at one level its nice to see her all excitable and euphoric but on the other hand, she is unable to balance her new life with this one.
I feel and have always felt that at many levels like appa even now she is resisting accepting the fact that she is married into a family so different from hers. while one understands that its impossible to give up who are EVER and shouldnt because thats your identitiy, but sincerely understanding and assimilating in your new life/tradiitons will not ony make your family happy but willl enrich your life as well. II at a subconscious level behanes as if her rishta i sonly with RB, baki sab are simply add ons. she keeps going back to appa, amma and akka and appa completely encourages this making things even more volatile . on the other hand RB too is a floater. He is so disconnected with his own family that he is unable to gve her an anchor, making things even worse.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#90
II has a big problem , over stretches to still remain connected with her parents and sister but the agony here is she has not even crossed a qtr of the bridge in making the connect with the family she has to assimilate in to.

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