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Reading the last update I can say with Manya being around its obvious she'll unintentionally (with intention actually) involve M in their conversations! N II will get back into her "insecure mode" 😭

Its very easy for me to spin a hero into M's life and wipe out all fears in II's mind, I can have Ritu get into a car wreck, I can destroy chachu's family in a plane crash or make Chachi take sanyaas, I can have Savvy show up from a Buddhist monastery in Hong Kong

And make R&B talkative and social

It completely guts the backbone of the story

We all have to deal with unpleasant things in life, it tells us a lot about who we are as a individual. We dont get the dream job when we want it, it doesnt come with a 30% raise, it does come with zero commute

Yes we marry faithful men and have average kids but we HAVE TO learn to acknowledge, process and deal with unpleasant things
While we will never be asked to marry our rapist, we can get hit with some really painful life events.

We cannot change completely, we do things differently to secretly run away from it

We don't know why M n RnB broke up..
But I hate Subbu the most... He n his mother gave shit reasons to reject II... 😡

Ayyo I am so much eager to see Suubu n his mother come across our couple and Cutie Nivi...

Originally posted by: munira053

Reading the last update I can say with Manya being around its obvious she'll unintentionally (with intention actually) involve M in their conversations! N II will get back into her "insecure mode" 😭

I just wrote a response to ur worry actually, right before this post

We cannot get rid of unpleasant people, events or actions in life
We HAVE TO SUCK IT UP and learn to deal with it
Akka lives with her in laws 24*7 and cant quit her job, Amma is Periappa's nurse for 40 years now.
We all get handed a certain set of cards from the deck, some have many Aces some have none... but we all have to play

You cant ask "out" u know...
BTW I am part of a work Powerball pool I borrowed $10 from $2 each from 5 people (I HAVE NO CASH😡 only cards) and yet someone from Michigan won😡
Darn it!!!

I will play the next time the pool goes over $50 M😆
I cant be the only one on site that shows up to work "day after" can I😆

Originally posted by: putti77

We don't know why M n RnB broke up..
But I hate Subbu the most... He n his mother gave shit reasons to reject II... 😡

Ayyo I am so much eager to see Suubu n his mother come across our couple and Cutie Nivi...

Originally posted by: munira053

Reading the last update I can say with Manya being around its obvious she'll unintentionally (with intention actually) involve M in their conversations! N II will get back into her "insecure mode" 😭

We know during couple's courtship Manny blurted out about M (That time she was not knowing about II n dude courtship )and II was wrecked...
I doubt if she intentionally brings M into their conversations at least by knowing II is pregnant.. It would be unintentional the way Dude blurted about his choice of women..

Originally posted by: putti77

We don't know why M n RnB broke up..
But I hate Subbu the most... He n his mother gave shit reasons to reject II... 😡

Ayyo I am so much eager to see Suubu n his mother come across our couple and Cutie Nivi...

Yes Swathi has a great point, very valid
In India such things DO matter, nobody knows what causes a good pregnancy to end in cerebral palsy or what causes autisim or severe mental illness

There is a lot of stigma associated with it

Subbu's Mom was a complete bitch about it.

Putti:We all think we know the ones we love the best, oh heck, we assume just because we have worked with someone for 8 or 10 years "we KNOW them". We find such people doing something ludicrous or unscrupulous or unethical someday and walk home in a daze... wondering HOW COULD I HAVE NOT SEEN IT


Manya thought she knew R&B the best, she was SURE he would never marry and flit from woman to woman
He didnt

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Yes Swathi has a great point, very valid
In India such things DO matter, nobody knows what causes a good pregnancy to end in cerebral palsy or what causes autisim or severe mental illness

There is a lot of stigma associated with it

Subbu's Mom was a complete bitch about it.

Putti:We all think we know the ones we love the best, oh heck, we assume just because we have worked with someone for 8 or 10 years "we KNOW them". We find such people doing something ludicrous or unscrupulous or unethical someday and walk home in a daze... wondering HOW COULD I HAVE NOT SEEN IT


Manya thought she knew R&B the best, she was SURE he would never marry and flit from woman to woman
He didnt

It happens with me Nisha... Since mom is a survivor of breast cancer and my Periyamma is vicitim of it, I get to hear such things. Whenever I take mom for yearly check up doctor warns me that after 30 I should go for regular check up..

Originally posted by: swathi1990

and even if subbu comes across the couple, u would think that he will be jealous and burn ???? may be becos she has a better status or money now...but not becos she is happy with someone else and has a kid with him or he missed the chance of being the husband of II...lets become practical...there is no love left there...he is probably happy with his wife and kid in that space...

Again a very valid point

Based on my experience of observing men what you say is 10/10
Men rarely ponder and whine and pine, psychopaths do I know,🤢 but not normal men
He married who his "Amma picked" next, made her pregnant within three months and bought a new apartment in Hamilton Court and bought himself a Ciaz and is all set

His Amma, will surely feel a twinge of rage or jealousy or anger when she discovers "things havent gone HER way" women tend to hold severe grudges
II never harmed them, but Subbu's Amma wanted her prediction of retarded kids to come true, especially after the fact that she picked Neeraja for Subbu

If II has a retarded kid she can go to Subbu and say "Naan sonnen paar" (I told u so).
She cannot have that joy if II's kid turns out to be normal😡

She wont secretly plot to make II's kid have a head injury and become reatrded etc, only Kekta does things like that, but Subbu's Mom will definitely be irritated when ever she sees II

We want our suspicions and predictions to come true, when it doesnt it bothers us, some more than the others