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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">PRETTY MUCH. I rarely have a "plot" when I start to type.

I begin to type and as I type each word the the next idea slips out of my mind, flows out my finger tips and arranges itself as words 😆 ALL I knew was, a tall quiet man with a tragic family event, and normal girl next door Delhi Iyer girl (I have known 100s so had solid research on this, including myself😉). Can such a union even work?

I was so sick of Ishita Bhalla and her rapist loving nature (I mean its sounds SO bizarre even to type, leave alone watch such a horror) I wanted to make II almost UNCONCERNED about people in her sasural. I was frustrated she never went to work, delivered babies, performed, brain transplants but never went to work😡
I was disgusted with the male lead's alcoholism and bipolar rants, and inability to dump his kids.
The kids? ARGHHH!! The most annoying kids Bollywood has ever produced.

Bottom line, I knew what I hated, more than what I loved😆
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That's so true isn't it knowing what we hate even if we don't know what we love.
But to spin it like this is not just aversion but serious talent.cos 2 out of 10000 people or more rarely have it to turn it around and channel the hate... So aversion doesn't do full justice .
It will all work out for you , it should otherwise it would be injustice meted to your inborn talent


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Posted: 9 years ago
The seial I loved most and now love to hate...
I never hated any actors n characters so much... 😡
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Kjolovesbabies



Aap so Jaao, khatarnaak ideas mat do, nahi toh II ka water 8 weeks me break ho jayega


N u reminded me of one my teachers back at school she used to pronounce my name as kazal, n me being a back bencher, it sounded to me like Tarzan 😆 😆


For me there is no M anymore...

If they see her again, most probably she would be with someone...It has been too long for her to be single...So I am guessing she will introduce her boyfriend to both R&B and II...and the dude will shake hands without any issues...such was their relationship...

This is not bollywood, for the other person to still have feelings and become a vamp...
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: swathi1990



For me there is no M anymore...

If they see her again, most probably she would be with someone...It has been too long for her to be single...So I am guessing she will introduce her boyfriend to both R&B and II...and the dude will shake hands without any issues...such was their relationship...

This is not bollywood, for the other person to still have feelings and become a vamp...



I don't think II would care for she has a bf or even a gf, all II needs is the mention of her to be affected coz that girl had a past with her hubby, of course now II is least concerned with what she does but even the mention of blondes puts her off the line
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: swathi1990



For me there is no M anymore...

If they see her again, most probably she would be with someone...It has been too long for her to be single...So I am guessing she will introduce her boyfriend to both R&B and II...and the dude will shake hands without any issues...such was their relationship...

This is not bollywood, for the other person to still have feelings and become a vamp...



II will get bit relaxed if M introduces her new boyfriend to the couple...

Nisha
Bhallas kya kar rahe hai weekend ko 😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
Swathi
EXACTLY

In the real world 99.99% of "Ended relationships" are uneventful, especially if the relationship lasted 5 years, and it was between two educated "normal" human beings, who willingly were in it.

Bollywood writes soaps and movies only of deviant individuals.
Heroines are always virgins, because they love their husbands only they will willing marrying their rapist (ghar ki izzat ke liye) dentists perform heart transplants and every ex wife harbors dark fantasies about screwing the ex husband, and 5 year olds talk like deranged 80 year olds.

If R&B or M had a personality disorder it would have made its appearance by now. Neither have it.


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Posted: 9 years ago
Once upon a time 😕 I loved YHM. And NOW I hate nothing n no one more than the show & its characters 😡 and trust Me Nisha, if it was not sosy I wouldn't have so easily ditched the show 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Swathi
EXACTLY

In the real world 99.99% of "Ended relationships" are uneventful, especially if the relationship lasted 5 years, and it was between two educated "normal" human beings, who willingly were in it.

Bollywood writes soaps and movies only of deviant individuals.
Heroines are always virgins, because they love their husbands only they will willing marrying their rapist (ghar ki izzat ke liye) dentists perform heart transplants and every ex wife harbors dark fantasies about screwing the ex husband, and 5 year olds talk like deranged 80 year olds.

If R&B or M had a personality disorder it would have made its appearance by now. Neither have it.



Very very true Nish...I totally believe in that...that is the reason I dont care for M or subbu...they both are ended chapters who have their own lives in which they have both joys and sorrows...neither of them are actively thinking abt their exes...it is all in the past...
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Posted: 9 years ago
Swathi
Also Marliese doesnt have to show up half naked to claim R&B.
II has enough disillusionment regarding his past life without M's appearance ... enough so as to screw herself up ably and completely.


II married a man way out of her league. Its a fact.

Marliese getting married and tying a rakhi to R&B would be too phillumi

The fact that she existed in R&B's life is clear and real. II needs to learn to deal with it, or swallow it or accept it or appreciate it (he was lonely so he had a GF; he has greater libido than the average man so its hard for him to live without sex; he faced the most tremendous tragedy of his young 25 year life, M was his "warm body" at night)

II HAS to rationalize it somehow

Marliese showing up "malayum kazhuthuma" (with the wedding garland and shaadi ka joda ) wud be too pathetic and tame
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Swathi
Also Marliese doesnt have to show up half naked to claim R&B.
II has enough disillusionment regarding his past life without M's appearance ... enough so as to screw herself up ably and completely.


II married a man way out of her league. Its a fact.

Marliese getting married and tying a rakhi to R&B would be too phillumi

The fact that she existed in R&B's life is clear and real. II needs to learn to deal with it, or swallow it or accept it or appreciate it (he was lonely so he had a GF; he has greater libido than the average man so its hard for him to live without sex; he faced the most tremendous tragedy of his young 25 year life, M was his "warm body" at night)

II HAS to rationalize it somehow

Marliese showing up "malayum kazhuthuma" (with the wedding garland and shaadi ka joda ) wud be too pathetic and tame


Nish...


Nooo...I didnt mean that...It would be obsurd to think marliese would do any such thing...becos I dont think marliese even thinks abt R&B anymore...I just said that they have their own lives and doesnt think about their exes even to the range of what II thinks...Basically M is only in II's head...she is tormenting herself over his past...

otherwise, neither of their exes has any role in their current lives...
Edited by swathi1990 - 9 years ago

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