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ishruhi

@ishruhi

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#721

hershey didnt said much nivi...told me to pray for her and her family...that pblm is not getting worse but its still there...she didnt came online after that day...but she sounded so sad which is so unusual about her here...i m waiting for that dimple girl's post saying "now everything is fine."

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Srividya

@moonwearer

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#722

Originally posted by: VeeIyer
NISHA...PUTTI
Why would you want to change your personality of helping others out ?? Yes..there are ungrateful people around us who think it is their right and prerogative to take advantage of you...
But that should not be a deterrent and change you...STAY THE WAY YOU ARE !!! Never stop reaching out...not to the same ungrateful ones, but others 😃

I knit and crochet stuff thru the year. Obviously with Pune not being so cold, I give away as I finish any piece...I made 2 baby blankets for my friend's grandkids who had come from Toronto sometime back.

The DIL had such a viper's tongue and said why would you bother to make such stuff ( as I gave it to her ) ...we get a lot in Toronto...and this is when I have a queue of people constantly asking me to make layettes and stuff.
For once I had the presence of mind to tell her " give it away on charity...I do that all the time" 😊 And I decided that day, that the minute the stuff leaves my hand, I stop having any expectation. Even if she throws it in the dustbin, Iam not going to feel bad 😃.

I wont make anything for her for sure, but am not going to change, nor stop reaching out, because this is me and Iam happy the way Iam !!
The world is what it is, but if we are happy the way we are, we make no changes or compromises 😊

What says ???

Agree totally with your perspective Vani. We have control only over our thoughts actions and beliefs. If someone spurns our affection and care just smile and move on. There are so many lives you are touching Nisha. You do it because you have it in you to be a Giver unmindful of the adjustments you make to reach out. If they cannot receive it with grace, just stop including them. You cannot become them. You dont have to do a thing to prove you. You are doing it out of genuine compassion...i remember Vani posting how you would have delivered food and looked after her if you lived nearby...That is the identity of Nisha...if someone fails to see it it is the vision that needs correction...🤗

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Vibhuti

@SparkleV

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#723

"There are two types of waiting. There's the the waiting you do for something you know is coming, sooner or later"like waiting for the 6:28 train, or the school bus, or a party where a certain handsome boy might be. And then there's the waiting for something you don't know is coming. You don't even know what it is exactly, but you're hoping for it. You're imagining it and living your life for it. That's the kind of waiting that makes a fist in your heart."

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ishruhi

@ishruhi

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#724

why vibhu so silent??office work is so exhausting????

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VeeIyer

@VeeIyer

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

#725

Originally posted by: srividyamouli

So succintly put SV...you have a great way with words !! DITTO DITTO to Bold !!

Putti...the above is for you too !!

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Vibhuti

@SparkleV

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#726

Originally posted by: ishruhi
why vibhu so silent??office work is so exhausting????

i'll join back next week..
Am doing internship which is compulsory..

am silent because i hv nothing to say 😃

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blue5sky

@blue5sky

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#727

Hello everyone!

How was /is your day guys? 😊

Edited by blue5sky - 10 years ago

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ishruhi

@ishruhi

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#728

shev,heirs too is school drama...coffee prince is not...i liked that one..
some films a like are my little bride,first love( and one more is there,i forgot.will tell u later)

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Hsp.canada

@Hsp.canada

Inactive

Posted: 10 years ago

#729

Originally posted by: VeeIyer
NISHA...PUTTI
Why would you want to change your personality of helping others out ?? Yes..there are ungrateful people around us who think it is their right and prerogative to take advantage of you...
But that should not be a deterrent and change you...STAY THE WAY YOU ARE !!!
Never stop reaching out...for every 1 ungrateful person, there will be 100 who will genuinely appreciate your help !!

I knit and crochet stuff thru the year. Obviously with Pune not being so cold, I give away as I finish any piece...I made 2 baby blankets for my friend's grandkids who had come from Toronto sometime back.

The DIL had such a viper's tongue and said why would you bother to make such stuff ( as I gave it to her ) ...we get a lot in Toronto...and this is when I have people constantly asking me to make layettes and stuff.
For once I had the presence of mind to tell her " give it away on charity...I do that all the time" 😊 And I decided that day, that the minute the stuff leaves my hand, I stop having any expectation. Even if she throws it in the dustbin, Iam not going to feel bad 😃.

I wont make anything for her for sure, but am not going to change, nor stop reaching out, because this is me and Iam happy the way Iam !!
The world is what it is, but if we are happy the way we are, we make no changes or compromises 😊

What says ???

So agree with you Vani!
I read a folk tale many years ago, about two monks. They had to cross the river, it was flowing at a high current. And there was a woman standing too and she also wanted to cross the river. So one monk offered her help. He held her hand and crossed the river. After crossing, the monks went on their way, the other monk asked how could you touch a woman? What u did is against our doctrines. The monk looked at him and said that I helped her cross the river and I left her right there, u are still thinking about the woman, so who is at fault? I was very young, I understood but was not able to apply in my life. This got reinforced when I saw my Tayaji making a donation. I asked him how come u are not registering it. He said that if u give with your right hand, your left should not be aware of it..As then it's a conscious decision and not a donations or help. I have applied two things in my life, not to have expectations that includes my husband also...baki saab to door ki baat hai. I may rant that he does not help, (That's my job as a wife😆) and the other is if I can't do good for someone then I have no right to do or say bad.

Following these two things have kept me in balance.