Software Symphony 21 Plan & Pilfer on 17 - Page 94

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Hersh

I understand your POV fully, yes, most girls I see these days like yourself, DO NOT follow their parents/ financial jurisprudence 😆 advice to a T. II has been crafted as a tribute to the 100s of young girls I have met from WIPRO and TCS and IBM India and HCL India in the last 10 ish years

They display startling spark and courage, they are bold, they are ambitious, they are fearless👏

I have mentioned on these topics before I am their agony aunt😆 I find I dont have to give them advice on "How to take care of their parents after marriage"

Most are doing WAY WAY more than I ever will, in this lifetime😭 I am ashamed to admit I didnt do enough... not all are from wealthy families, not all are from poor familes, they ALL UNFORMLY over extend themselves when it comes to family

I should have made that clear when I drew II's portrait my bad I didnt

Also II charged her card for summer camp WELL BEFORE the pizza over draft event😃

ok abhi ek aur baar padha:

"This is as good as Vik's venture... proposed" he said mildly

So Manny now knows about Viks venture and is ok with it..

wow i was thinking she would be mad at vik for asking R&B, she is calling R&b enabler then what about Vik😡

Ok!! I think I didnt express it well in my posts - original n subsequent ones!
1. When I said II is interfering, I meant she didnt ask the parents before enrolling either shravu or Nandu, given that such a serious matter has occured n she heard that Bala doesnt want Shravu hanging with Nandu atleadt for the time being. Gussey mei bhi bola Bala ne, toh bhi II should have made a customary call before enrolling. Shravu bachcha hai, he got treats n milkshake, what does a kid's mind think? If I were the kid, I would think papa mere dushman hai, chitthi is the only one who thinks am right! She got me good stuff! N I see Shravu stating that tge next day ki chitthi kyu nahi dilati ipad n that taking is not wrong, since its only Bala who is scolding, shravu's innocent mind might interpret it as dad being wrong in desciplining him! He wont understand that it was the act that was cause of punishment!
2. II ke faltu expenses are my concern! To take loans where needed, I have no problem about. She was dead against taking R&B ke 50000. Got herself sick. But what did she learn from that? 5 days later, she buys expensive jewelry for her mom n akka. If she never wants R&B or anyone to point fingers at her about being in the Red again, she needs to spend judiciously! Mothers day hai! She wants to guft something! All of this is nice! But she could have gifted something less expensive n still Amma would have loved her! Price tag doesnt buy love! So amma wouldnt care ki II didnt get jewelry!
I agree II would borrow both for Sam n Vandu in a geartbeat if she had no money.. But to borrow n buy jewelry n other such non-imp stuff.. Thats my problem specially when she keeps rubbing it in to R&B ki out of money wife is a shame n also that she hates taking any financial rescuing from R&B

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

ok abhi ek aur baar padha:
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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">"This is as good as Vik's venture... proposed" he said mildly</font></font>

So Manny now knows about Viks venture and is ok with it..

wow i was thinking she would be mad at vik for asking R&B

Manny knows about Vik's venture but not know that he asked money from R&B.

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Pehli baat.. Main Guwahati mein hoon. Yahan radio channels pe bade besure gaane play ho rahe hain

Doosri baat nahi.. Main smart nahi bani hoon.. Aajkal kisi se bhi poocho yehi do gaane suggest kiye jaa rahe hain

If u have bandwidth, listen to coke studio laadki
N arijit's hamari adhuri kahani

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Hersh

I understand your POV fully, yes, most girls I see these days like yourself, DO NOT follow their parents/ financial jurisprudence😆advice to a T. II has been crafted as a tribute to the 100s of young girls I have met from WIPRO and TCS and IBM India and HCL India in the last 10 ish years

They display startling spark and courage, they are bold, they are ambitious, they are fearless👏

I have mentioned on these topics before I am their agony aunt😆I find I dont have to give them advice on "How to take care of their parents after marriage"

Most are doing WAY WAY more than I ever will, in this lifetime😭I am ashamed to admit I didnt do enough... not all are from wealthy families, not all are from poor familes, they ALL UNFORMLY over extend themselves when it comes to family

I should have made that clear when I drew II's portrait my bad I didnt

Also II charged her card for summer camp WELL BEFORE the pizza over draft event😃

Am sorry nisha!! Am hamming away about that 4000 ka expense before I even read ki wo 4000 was prior to the account being red n chori kaand! :( mere shabd mujhe wapas kar do!

Shru

Originally posted by: harshita27

Am sorry nisha!! Am hamming away about that 4000 ka expense before I even read ki wo 4000 was prior to the account being red n chori kaand! :( mere shabd mujhe wapas kar do!

Originally posted by: harshita27

Ok!! I think I didnt express it well in my posts - original n subsequent ones!
1. When I said II is interfering, I meant she didnt ask the parents before enrolling either shravu or Nandu, given that such a serious matter has occured n she heard that Bala doesnt want Shravu hanging with Nandu atleadt for the time being. Gussey mei bhi bola Bala ne, toh bhi II should have made a customary call before enrolling. Shravu bachcha hai, he got treats n milkshake, what does a kid's mind think? If I were the kid, I would think papa mere dushman hai, chitthi is the only one who thinks am right! She got me good stuff! N I see Shravu stating that tge next day ki chitthi kyu nahi dilati ipad n that taking is not wrong, since its only Bala who is scolding, shravu's innocent mind might interpret it as dad being wrong in desciplining him! He wont understand that it was the act that was cause of punishment!
2. II ke faltu expenses are my concern! To take loans where needed, I have no problem about. She was dead against taking R&B ke 50000. Got herself sick. But what did she learn from that? 5 days later, she buys expensive jewelry for her mom n akka. If she never wants R&B or anyone to point fingers at her about being in the Red again, she needs to spend judiciously! Mothers day hai! She wants to guft something! All of this is nice! But she could have gifted something less expensive n still Amma would have loved her! Price tag doesnt buy love! So amma wouldnt care ki II didnt get jewelry!
I agree II would borrow both for Sam n Vandu in a geartbeat if she had no money.. But to borrow n buy jewelry n other such non-imp stuff.. Thats my problem specially when she keeps rubbing it in to R&B ki out of money wife is a shame n also that she hates taking any financial rescuing from R&B

hershey jo bhi kaha theek kaha all i am saying is II's behavior is more normal than you think..
regarding aunts aur grandparents hoten hai bigadne ke liye my inlaws are visiting i can scream at my kids only to later hear u know kids are like that , pavam what do they know from them 😡 they dont interupt nor remember what they did as parents
ek example doon my daughter is spoilt rotten by my friend and so one day at 5 when she asked and i said no she packed her bag and started walking all alone to my friends house who lives 3 miles way .. u have no idea how scary that is .. if a cop had caught her hum toh gaye we could have lost her that day , do i blame my friend no ..mere haal bura luckily she came back i was watching her , she came back because he forgot her teddy..😆
kithna drama kids will always say i will get this uncle to buy it or ask grandpa to buy it then middle school happens and we tell them nobody buys ,u want to leave great actually stay in foster care in dirty houses and they then get it 😆😆

hershey,i should thank nisha as she didnt showed ranjan much in the previous few posts...thank god you are now concentratting to II and feeling bad for your rnb bcoz of his wifes deeds!ranjan is in safe zone now!!! 🤣