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i was so looking forward to them meeting...but i understand this was as important...
though i still think khushi is being a bit high handed, into understanding Arnav...even her act of throwing away the shikara...somehow i will had there been a role reversal, arnav wudnt have thrown the shikara away...
anyways, m glad that Navin is trying to see her POV n i was so sure from the start that sujata won't understand them ever...somehow she came across as a 'i am the only right one' person...who wudnt even listen to god, if he attempts to explain it to her...and m so glad that finally khushi accepted that...
did anita withheld her move to india, deliberately...to make arnav hurt some more ? if she did, then thats bad move...cause i atleast expected anita to understand arnav n be more neutral...i agree she will feel more for khushi cause she has seen khushi hurting...but how come everyone, n i mean each n everyone including khushi, trivializes what happened with arnav for so long...
i mean he was tricked into marriage, n lived in a sham of a marriage for quite a few years...i think that is a huge huge thing... to marry a woman you dont love is still ok...but to realize later that u were tricked into it...and then continuously lied to ...and even now, no-one understands him completely...even the woman he loves, have prioritized everyone over him...its really sad that no-one is there for him...
yes he did hurt khushi by ignoring her n then that meet in the lounge...and i realized how hurt she mustve been, after reading her emails...but still my sympathy lies more with arnav, then khushi...i still feel she didnt need to break up with him to convince her parents...those words that she used, she does regret those...but she said them cause she thought that way...had she not thought bt it...she wudve worded things differently...
but bottom line being, i will never understand her need to take a break...seriously, if her father wasnt well, she shudve seeked arnav n his strength more...she cudve told him, that lets keep this issue at the back for the moment, let my father feel better, then we can discuss it with him...but she wanted to push him away to show her parents that see, i am trying to move on...this is what i understood from her conversation with navin n later with arnav...maybe i am wrong in taking it this way...
anyways...i dont want arnav to grovel for her forgiveness...is that possible...if anything, they shud both realize that both have been wrong...she in pushing him away, n him in hurting her to feel at peace...
and please if anita is gonna behave like khushi's watch dog, then its better if she stays away...as if khushi's parents werent enough, she also started her high handed ness...poking her nose, in something that shudve been entirely arnav-khushi's decision
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btw, Khushi heard Arnav denying LA a second chance in the apartment, right ? so did she hear the whole thing...
cause if she did, then shame on you khushi, after hearing his heart-felt admission about how much he loves you, you still went ahead to break his heart, for your sorry excuse of a mother...if its true then you, khushi, lost some more of my respect...and sympathy ofcourse (which i already have a little less for you, as compared to Arnav)
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m sorry, Jenny, i know my comment sounds very very rude...but i am really angry at the fact that none of them are understanding the magnitude of the trick that LA played on Arnav...for me it was a big deal...had Arav been alive, Arnav wudve wasted his life, with that horrible pathetic woman, just to give Arav a family...and yes, he loved her at one point of time, but i think after knowing the fact that Arav wasnt his son, he wudve been shattered but still forced to play husband-husband to that pathetic woman
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