Originally posted by: canapoem
Jenny, another masterpiece update from you.
Dont mix bad words with your bad mood. You'll have many opportunities to change a mood, but you'll never get the opportunity to replace the words you spoke.
Manya spewed venom at Khushi earlier and might regret it now after Arnav told her the truth, but the damage has already been done. Just because we have mouths we just throw away words which most of us do in a fit or rage or anger or helplessness but unfortunately we always have to face the consequences of our actions later on. Just Manya saying sorry will really not bring back the agony, pain and guilt Khushi is undergoing and will probably feel for her entire life.
Khushi did enter this relationship with her eyes open, yes. But what she did not expect was the obsession Lavanya had for Arnav. Even when she encouraged Arnav to have a talk with her to end things amicably, she never imagined the extent La would go to get Arnav. She probably thought La was someone normal like Aman who would understand that things have ended and would move on slowly in life.
But the guilt that you are responsible for someone's death or attempt to die is very great. I guess it is this guilt that has really shook her up. Technically La is still Arnav's wife and the truth that Lavanya would even die for her husband's love is something which is making Khushi think that maybe she did come inbetween them afterall. And to add to it, her parents are also pointing at the same thing and blaming their daughter for breaking a marriage. What can someone who is so empathetic like Khushi do???
Coming to Arnav, today again my heart pained for him. First he had to deal with an irrational Manya and try to put some sense into her and then the big shocking truth dawns on him that Khushi knows the entire truth. And he immediately realises that Khushi is withdrawing herself from him. His text message really brought tears in my eyes.
Coming to Lavanya, first I am and I am sure all the readers are glad that she is out of danger and that she is going to live.
Why did La become like this obsessed lover type?? Going back to her childhood and her adolescence will probably answer this question. Probably she always craved for love and never found it. Her father and sister were maybe busy with their careers to see La not growing up normally. And then she falls in love with Arnav who rejects her. Ofcourse opportunity does fall in her lap and she sleeps with him. If Aarav was Arnav's biological son, then probably they would have had a good marriage with La's guilt not coming inbetween them and she not turning into a nagging wife. But unfortunately for her, Aarav was not Arnav's son and he came to know the truth eventually.
Now once Arnav moved out of her life, I think somewhere La's dad and her sister did a big big mistake of not looking at the reasons for her failed marriage. They washed away their responsibilities by putting the blame on Arnav saying he was a jerk to leave his wife at this juncture and did nothing to help La beyond just pitying her. I wish that they had paid attention to her sorrows, then probably things would not have gone out of hand today.
Some might say that Arnav had to inform La's father and sister about the reasons for their failed marriage. But we cannot forget the fact here that he himself was a big mess after Aarav's death and after ending his ties with Lavanya. He had found his refuge in alcohol and sleeping pills. Even he did not find any compassion from his mother whose only concern was that her son work things out with her daugher-in-law. Fortunately for him, he found his reason to live in the form of Khushi. Khushi pulled him out of the abyss of darkness he was in and he embraced life back again.
So when he himself was such a mess for many months, how can we expect him to think of Lavanya's misery and the solutions for that.
Jen, I dont know what makes Khushi go away. But one thing I am sure is that Arnav should not involve himself too much in Lavanya's treatment. The more she sees him, the more she starts getting hopes that maybe Arnav would want to come back to her. Once she is awake and fine, let him talk to her once and try to tell her in nice words that life has to go on and that she must become brave and he has to just get out of her life. From there its Manya, her dad's and Lavanya's responsibilities to rebuild their lives again.
Wow I have been typing and typing my views from such a long time. 😆
Finally last but not the least Anita and Aman's story.
How does a girl tell a guy who was her sister's almost ex that she is interested in him??? I must appreciate Anita for her attempts at conveying this message to Aman. Hope Aman understood what she was trying to say.
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