Arshi FF/ Saffron Fields #11//Ch. 32 Pg. 115/ Thread 12 link Pg. 1

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Bavari

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Posted: 10 years ago

#331

Beautiful Chapter Jenny. True it's Bleeding Love indeed, if not realized and treated in time will lead to the demise of a friendship which was there before this mess and even after it makes it's appearance surreptitiously. Like Arnav I was also screaming about her pride and self respect. If she can read Arnav's hidden apology why can't she accept that he wants to move on his life and away from the farce of marriage. By holding on the past and marriage by delusional beliefs she missing on the chance of finding love which is meant for her from someone else. Why counciling and professional help fail to see herself in that angle. Bcos she sees what she wants see and believe what she wants to believe. She really needs to change herself and accept the reality. But I am curious to know her past with Arnav to understand this kind of obsession.

Loved Arnav Khushi texts and transparency between them about his interactions with Lavanya and assuring their love for each other and finding solace. Felt bad for Khushi that her decisions of her life creating a distance between her and her parents. Finally Anderson Cooper makes changes in his phone book. So now will he be seeing her as Anita Gupta not as Khushi's younger sister. Loved Khushi Anita conversation as always. Thx for the PM.

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canapoem

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Posted: 10 years ago

#332

Originally posted by: IPK007

My comparing the two has triggered so much of conversation.😆

Coming to why I compared it, the similarity which I found in both was how some couples click and some dont.

Here Arnav never fell in love with Lavanya. The truth about Aarav's paternity came to the limelight only when he was three, but the marriage was already falling apart before that. Arnav always compromised in the marriage but did not fall in love with his wife.

Similarly Khushi never fell in love with Aman, even though Aman would have been the perfect guy for her.

Arnav and Khushi instantly found connection with each other even before knowing each other well.

That was my only point when I compared it to KANK. I never once thought about the adultery stuff and that they were very much married etc and I did not compare it with this story on those points too.

I hope now I am more clear to everyone why I made the comparison.

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pixiegirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

#333

Originally posted by: Chokri_ASR

I absolutely agree with you Jenny, what they portrayed in KANK was pure adultery in my eyes. While I understand they were drifting away from their spouses but it was not over. They were still bound by marriage living together, along with sleeping with one another... bottom line they were still in the relationship as a married couple. Either you try to work on the marriage that is drifting apart if you are still committed to one another or find a way out. Cheating on your spouse while the relationship is active, is considered adultery.

Arnav here has moved on even filing for divorce, he has no feelings for La. She is not letting him free, since she believes she is in love with.

Two very different situations...

High Five! You two! Till date I have never understood how KJo ever made that movie & expected his audience to lump all that crap... He may have taken leave of his senses to pass off pure & simple unadulterated adultery as a classy thing, but he forgot his audience still have a head on their shoulders...

I for one, was never a big fan of SRK, but since that movie, I not only hate KJo but also SRK, & RM... I felt so bad so bad for both AB & Preeti & the little boy you have no idea... Geez! that was one yucky movie to leave a bad taste in the mouth...

Luckily for me, I have not seen Dostana so, I still like AB... 😆

I agree, in this story, Arnav was not only separated from La close to a year but also was emotionally divorced from her... And the biggest thing in his favor is he has filed for a divorce which he is fighting to win...

And it is not as if he met Khushi while he was still living with La... He met Khushi much later & still tried to keep his distance from her initially, knowing his marital status and all that & was going to disclose his marital status to Khushi thus giving her the privilege of choosing whether or not to pursue a relationship with him if only Khushi hadn't jumped the gun prematurely & all his well-meaning intentions flew out of the door... 😆

So, I absolve Arnav of all duplicity in this story... Heck, he even made Khushi tell her parents about them... As I said in my comment earlier, the man is honest to a fault. Love him bas! ❤️

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IPK007

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Posted: 10 years ago

#334

Originally posted by: canapoem
I understood where you saw the similarity..:) Love is an enigma...Two people who have a lot n common can't bring themselves to love one another while two completely opposite people develop this inexplicable connection...And I'm not even talking about physical attraction...The mention of KANK just triggered me to speak against it...because I remember not only was it a vile movie, it had gotten good reviews too from all the pseuds... 😆
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shezahumaira

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Posted: 10 years ago

#335

i feel the pain through which lavanya is going she is so ina big mess along with arnav ,arnav is so helpless

khushi is really strong that though she is distanced by her mother still not losing hope

i hope that lavanya may understand and handle the situation with maturity

anita and aman finally something brewing up !!!!!!!

i totally loved the update

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kondhili

@kondhili

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Posted: 10 years ago

#336

There's a reason why i have always liked Anita...she is simply the best.

But will khushi's b'day turn out to be a happy day🤔 Now that is the real question???

Looking forward to the update jen

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pixiegirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

#337

Originally posted by: canapoem

My comparing the two has triggered so much of conversation.😆

Coming to why I compared it, the similarity which I found in both was how some couples click and some dont.

Here Arnav never fell in love with Lavanya. The truth about Aarav's paternity came to the limelight only when he was three, but the marriage was already falling apart before that. Arnav always compromised in the marriage but did not fall in love with his wife.

Similarly Khushi never fell in love with Aman, even though Aman would have been the perfect guy for her.

Arnav and Khushi instantly found connection with each other even before knowing each other well.

That was my only point when I compared it to KANK. I never once thought about the adultery stuff and that they were very much married etc and I did not compare it with this story on those points too.

I hope now I am more clear to everyone why I made the comparison.

Kavi, my comment to Jenny & Jigs was purely based on the distaste for the movie not on any comparisons you might have made...

It is quite understandable to draw comparisons between KANK though... I'll tell you why... And this is just for discussion purposes...

The reason this story reminds you & some of us about KANK is b/c of La... As in KANK, Arnav is also a married guy like SRK & like Preeti who loved her husband, La also loves Arnav, even if it is in her convoluted way. For me, that's the biggest similarity... And just b/c La is married to him & loves him, in spite of everything she might have done wrong she sort of comes across as the victim here and is making people generate some, if not a lot of, sympathy for her...

She is after all his legally wedded wife & who loves him on top of that, and that has a very honorable status in society, giving her all the rights over him... And to top it all, Arnav had desired her at one point, bought her a huge rock as an anniversary gift... Definitely makes her very likable, b/c she meets the criteria for a loving & at one point, a desired if not loved wife... That to me, is where the similarity ends with KANK.

But the more likable she is getting, it is becoming harder to remember that La did not only kind of force Arnav to marry her, simply b/c she convinced herself that the child was his knowing very well Arnav's disinterest in her, but that she also fought with Arnav constantly & blamed Arnav for not loving Aarav b/c he was not his son & later blamed only Arnav for Aarav's death, completely ignoring the fact that even she herself was equally negligent of Aarav's safety. And since we haven't read their past completely we really don't know how else she fought with Arnav so we have this tendency to remember only that she loved Arnav & he had desired her at one point in time...

So, I can completely understand the angle from which this can be interpreted... It is becoming hard for me too to keep everything in perspective b/c of La now... 😆

Edited by pixiegirl - 10 years ago

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sman

@sman

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Posted: 10 years ago

#338

Originally posted by: canapoem

Mine was also same reason Kavi :-)

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sman

@sman

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Posted: 10 years ago

#339

Luckily for me, I have not seen Dostana so, I still like AB... 😆

Geeta .. please do see atleast first 10 mins of Dostana..it is available in youtube.. you are missing something ;-)

after Jigs wonderful update last Friday, I was rewinding and watching Dostana ;-)

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pixiegirl

@pixiegirl

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Posted: 10 years ago

#340

Originally posted by: sman

Luckily for me, I have not seen Dostana so, I still like AB... 😆

Geeta .. please do see atleast first 10 mins of Dostana..it is available in youtube.. you are missing something ;-)

after Jigs wonderful update last Friday, I was rewinding and watching Dostana ;-)

Okay Shaila, will do... 😊 Will search up a site ;)

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