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Posted: 11 years ago
#31
Just saw the auth note
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: samaz95

Okay so I'll be a little harsh here and say it..

I believe that all 3 of the girls are being pretty pretty immature!
He broke her heart, I get that..
But like it's been five years now, that's a huge amount of time to move on.
I get why maybe Arnav and Khushi can't move on but Payal and Ana's reactions and behaviors are a bit to over the top for me..Gaaahh!
Arnav and Khushi were not two toddlers getting into a relationship all those years back, they made a choice and followed it through.I get it that one of them reverted back on the promises but you know what that's life...
Ana and payal and all those people who think they have a say in Arnav and Khushi's relationship are wrong, very wrong.
Khushi never asked them to fight her battles!
EVER!!

And it's sad how a near death experience made Ana realize her fault; if not for the accident had she planned on ignoring and misbehaving for the rest of her life?
It was a bit too over dramatic.

I know that you and many won't agree with me but at the end it was just a breakup between two people.They all just stretched it too much:S

I strongly believe in moving on.
Clearly Ana and Payal have not been able to do that.
They're still stuck where they were 5 years ago.
I am just feeling really frustrated...!
Sorry.

But they should all grow up and move on instead of making the other person feel bad.
They all have their own set of mistakes; so instead of trying to punish Arnav they should try improving themselves.


Please don't worry about sounding harsh. You gave your point of view, which I really welcome.

As you said ...a girl and a guy meeting, falling in love and breaking up is nothing out of the ordinary.

Arnav Khushi breaking up in DND is slightly different only because

1. Khushi was Anya's acnchor in school when she went to boarding as a ten year old, who had lost her mother in a horrid way. They were sisters (doesn't mean that Anya had to choose between Arnav kHushi. It is just her personality)

2. Payal is an orphan and Khushi and Anya were her only family till she got married...(what would your relationship be with someone who broke your sister and in the process you lost that sister)

3. Devyani always knew What Khushi meant to Anya plus every time Khushi came to visit Raizada's Devyani spoke to Garima and took responsibility for her as Garima is a protective mother...

4. Anya watched Arnav dump Khushi without rhyme or reason...and felt responsible because Anya was responsible for Arnav Khusi meeting...

Having said all this...Anya is not right in her reactions and Payal too took it to a certain extreme.Which is what was addressed in this chapter.

However, categorising Arnav Khushi breaking up as something between just the guy and the girl would be too simplistic.

Hope that helped.


Edited by AquaSandhya - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Congratulation šŸ‘šŸ„³
It's really long time for Wednesday to comešŸ˜•.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34

I love the way u portray ur characters. strong .
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Posted: 11 years ago
#35
congrads on the new thread..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36
Congratulations on the new thread!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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what an awesome journey this is being... thanks for making us a part of this...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: AquaSandhya

Hello My Dearests,

Let me do a little jig as we move ahead to thread #9.

Okay, I did my little dance number; now let me congratulate you too. Remember? This is a joint-effort thing. We do this together. So yeah! ... Congratulations to us!!!

I'm here to write a story with characters that are as good/great/best as they come at times and flawed at others. This is probably because I don't believe it is possible to cast people into black and white slots. Instead we are spread across the spectrum of grays. To me, that defines human behaviour where no one is innately good or innately bad. Our nature and nurture combined with circumstances that we face define our behaviour and reactions to situations.

I feel fortunate to have many readers with such varied reactions to each character and their actions. It's been a wonderful experience for me to write this story with my babies...my characters. And I sincerely hope it's been the same for you too.

Cheers

Sandhya


I was pouring my heart out in the previous thread and came here to let you know about my outpourings and then read this. Now don't you dare think that I read this before I unreserved. I just came from writing that I love all your flawed characters as they remind me of me and people around me and here you are explaining the same in far far better words. 😃


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Posted: 11 years ago
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congrats on new thread..!!!!! i m loving this story ,,!!!!!!
lovely update..!!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Congrats, dear !!!

Here's wishing you many more spectacular threads 😊

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