Aitbaar(Trust)(AK FF)Pt-29-31, Pg-74, 05-14-2014 - Page 4

it seems even after all these years kripa still does not feel part of the family and misses her parents. i liked the way u showed how angad is trying to take kripa out of her shell but their is always something that stops him getting any were. Kripa's charachter is really sweet but i hope she slowly starts socializing more and voicing her opinions.

cant wait 2 read the next part.

Will Angad succeed in making Kripa angry??

Just hope Kirpa will open up a bit soon.

Continue soon!!

Good argument to talk about dear...You know in India, especially bombay, there are people who live in a one bedroom flat, never show off and increase their big fat bank balance...I had a friend, whose dad owns a famous saree shop in dadar...The shop is very popular and total of two storey with lots and lots of varieties and they run a very very successful business...But they lived in a one room kitchen house al their life...Can you believe it...? His daughter used to travel by bus, with me and I was like what the heck...? You earn almost 8-10 lakhs per month, and sending your daughter by bus, staying in a chawl, no less...!His wife is a nurse in Bombay hospital and their expenses are no more than 10,000 a month, for all 4 of them...! But if you really see the bank balance, they are capable of taking a flat in Juhu area and still have a big fat bank balance...! It is wierd to see this, but that is the situation...! It is not just them, but 100's of others, who seem like a middle class family, but earn like no one can imagine...I have a cousin, who has been living in bank quaters and thought that they won't be able to afford flat in today's rate, and bam...She took a flat worth 2 crores...I was like shocked...! Today, Indians earn a lot compared to abroad...Many can easily afford university expenses...! So, dont think that a middle class looking guy, doesn't have a good balance...Most of the time, people just don't let it show...You should see the gold people have in India...! You will be just shocked that atleast each average family in India has 100-200 gms of gold...This I am talking about average people...Who work as servants in peoples house...Not even middle class...So, you can imagine...India has become one of the costliest country now a days and many people are going abroad to learn instead...To be a doctor the average cost is 30 to 40 lakhs...! And people are giving it...Not rich, but middle clas...! So, you see, Dilip might be a middle class in people's eyes, that doesn't mean he has enough balance to afford good education for his kids, not to mention persuade their dreams...!

Kripa has been staying with Khanna's for 7 long years...! Have you ever seen some kids, who are taken by relatives and friends...Normally people like Dilip and Avantika tend to be extra careful to make the kids feel at home, not realizing that even extra love, can make them feel akward, making them acknowledge that they are someone else kids, and not the part of the family...There are people, who hate to take care of others kids, people who be extra loving so they don't feel outsider, people who act normally...Here if you see, Dilip and Avantika, never scolded her or let her do what she wants unlike Aliyah, Angad or Kartik...They tried to be extra cautious of her feelings, in turn making her feel as a outsider without knowledge...! They loved her in their own way, still were not able to see what she needed most...That is human psycolgy...Neither kripa is sweet here, nor she is too good...She is doing this because that is the way she feels...An outsider, though everyone loves her more than she could have imagined...But she somewhere feels that they are doing it because they feel sorry for her...She keeps quite and doesn't argue because she doesn't feel as a part of family...She tries to work her way, so they don't feel that she is a burden...She doesn't argue, because she feels it is not right...So you see, how a human mind works...It is different in different person...And this is one fact, which I came accross...! Feeling the need to do it...! She is not too good to be true, but she is having a huge problem, which Angad is trying to crack up...!

And as for kamvali bai, people don't prefer them many times, because they are many a times not available, or are too demanding on time and further do the work very badly...Humare ghar mein kaamvali sirf jhadu pocha karne ati thi...We had a machine and did our laundry and then cleaned the dishes ourself after eating...! My mom used to hate kaam vali bai washing dishes, as they don't even scrub properly or sometimes keep the detergent in the vessel...That is how it works in many households, as it is difficult to get a good kaamwali in Bombay now a days...😆...

Angad has been watching Kripa since childhood and also sees something his own parents are not able to see...May be they see it, but don't feel that they should push it too much...! And so are keeping quite...! Sometimes, some people have this tendency to see through people and know what they are lacking and Angad is trying to see how she has confined herself to the family...As the story progresses, you will see, how Angad will try to crack this tuff cookie...!😆