Aitbaar(Trust)(AK FF)Pt-29-31, Pg-74, 05-14-2014 - Page 25

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Posted: 12 years ago
Awe loved it...super sweet update
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Surely Kripa is at loss here and thinks she needs time apart from Angad even if they are married...But according to her she thinks that if she and Angad get involved physically, it will be a no return point which might lead to another complications like children etc, which might put them both in chains, if in future, Angad really feels that they are incompatible and wants a partner who matches him...She is not certain about herself, nor does she has trust in herself, neither for a change she is thinking to take necessary steps to cross those differences for now, because she is not certain she ever can...! So, you see, she has no self confidence and no trust in herself or Angad's words...For now, she thinks that if they keep away, then if Angad wants to seperate, then atleast she won't be losing his friendship...Which is silly, still logical from where she stands from her point of view, which is hers alone...Every person has their own visions and Kripa has this in her mind and is trying to do her best to try to understand their relationship, if it would survive or die before it starts, because of their differences...!


how come their equation would remain the same if they get separated .. if today Angad is doing all this for Kripa coz she is his wife, his responsibilty.. they are not friends, have nothing in common so why would he care abt this so called friendship at that time.. they won't get seperated happily and if it happens; how would it be possible to continue the friendship in those circumstances, this is a silly thought of kripa

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Annu..

Surely Kripa is at loss here and thinks she needs time apart from Angad even if they are married...But according to her she thinks that if she and Angad get involved physically, it will be a no return point which might lead to another complications like children etc, which might put them both in chains, if in future, Angad really feels that they are incompatible and wants a partner who matches him...She is not certain about herself, nor does she has trust in herself, neither for a change she is thinking to take necessary steps to cross those differences for now, because she is not certain she ever can...! So, you see, she has no self confidence and no trust in herself or Angad's words...For now, she thinks that if they keep away, then if Angad wants to seperate, then atleast she won't be losing his friendship...Which is silly, still logical from where she stands from her point of view, which is hers alone...Every person has their own visions and Kripa has this in her mind and is trying to do her best to try to understand their relationship, if it would survive or die before it starts, because of their differences...!


how come their equation would remain the same if they get separated .. if today Angad is doing all this for Kripa coz she is his wife, his responsibilty.. they are not friends, have nothing in common so why would he care abt this so called friendship at that time.. they won't get seperated happily and if it happens; how would it be possible to continue the friendship in those circumstances, this is a silly thought of kripa

Annu, Many people have this idea in their heads that physical relationship with a partner complicates things...They don't realize that marriage is itself complicate relationship...The don't realize the complications they will be facing, and they don't realize that it is not just physical bond, that comes along with marriage, but also a emotional bond, which needs to be taken into consideration...People don't realize the depth at which a person gets involved in marriage, unless they experience it...They fall apart emotionally, if the other is not present in their lives and that doesn't have anything to do with physical relationships...But people think only physical bond is important in marriage, which is not...A bond can be formed even stronger even on the basis of emotional relationships, where we care for one another and be there for eachother and become dependent on others for our emotional needs...It is not just her idea...It is general thinking, where people think that people marry because they are attracted to eachother...! There are people like Angad, who do arranged marriage, and get bonded emotionally, before they go forward with physical relationship... So, you see she is not silly, but ignorant and a little imature and she will soon realize that...! She feels it will be easier this way, though she realizes that it will not be as easy as she thinks, but still easier, but we know it never is...!
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Posted: 12 years ago
ohh.. my pea sized brain is not able to understand this Kripa..

its almost 2:30 am at my end.. but will reply back to u kal..

kya character likha Aapne Vamita.. 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
hi annu jee hi vamita jee hello both of u dear...?
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Posted: 12 years ago
maine suna hai yeh angad kripa wala bhut achha ata hai ...?
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: vamita

Annu, Many people have this idea in their heads that physical relationship with a partner complicates things...They don't realize that marriage is itself complicate relationship...The don't realize the complications they will be facing, and they don't realize that it is not just physical bond, that comes along with marriage, but also a emotional bond, which needs to be taken into consideration...People don't realize the depth at which a person gets involved in marriage, unless they experience it...They fall apart emotionally, if the other is not present in their lives and that doesn't have anything to do with physical relationships...But people think only physical bond is important in marriage, which is not...A bond can be formed even stronger even on the basis of emotional relationships, where we care for one another and be there for eachother and become dependent on others for our emotional needs...It is not just her idea...It is general thinking, where people think that people marry because they are attracted to eachother...! There are people like Angad, who do arranged marriage, and get bonded emotionally, before they go forward with physical relationship... So, you see she is not silly, but ignorant and a little imature and she will soon realize that...! She feels it will be easier this way, though she realizes that it will not be as easy as she thinks, but still easier, but we know it never is...!


Vamita, u made me confused here.. I feel like u are telling me again that why Kripa is not ready to get close to Angad and how important it is to build an emotional bond with ur partner before forming physical relationship with him/her.. although I believe that in arranged marriages both things happen together and as time goes by they realize the importance of emotional bond.. but here in my above comment, I was talking abt their friendship.. u already said that she has a doubt that Angad might choose someone else over her if he thinks that they are incompatible to each other.. my point is why at that time Angad would want to continue his friendship with her.. generally speaking, after getting divorced it becomes so difficult to continue a relationship with ur ex.. so how can Kripa be so sure abt it..

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Posted: 12 years ago
Pls try to update soon.I am eagerly waiting for next update.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aroramaina

Pls try to update soon.I am eagerly waiting for next update.


take ur time Vamita.. no rush! 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago

Update soon karo na di.

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