-truly magical- maaneet ff THREAD 16 - Page 82

Originally posted by: deejagi

Hi Prithvi, True to the feelings, Daadi loves Maan very much and her only intentions arer his happiness. If not for that she would not have waited so long as 7 and half years to announce his engagement to sammera. Now also she announced that only after realizing Geet has a kid. How do we expect daadi to dream about Maneet's secret marriage when none of them were open enough to tell daadi about the same. Only possibility of daadi knowing was either from Rano or from Arjun but even they stayed dumb. Daadi knew how much they loved each other and she even asked him to expedite his marriage but dumbo thought it was with NT and refused. It was everything to do with his ego and status hype otherwise he could have given a add with an apology to regain Geet. When he didn't do anything to retrive her back and now after seeing her in Delhi with the kid, and still he didn't do any step to talk to her and their relationship, what should a granny do. Should she go to a married lady with a kid and ask her to come to her grandson by leaving back her husband & kid. NO right? don't you remember that Daadi was scared when Sameera announced her proposal and had asked Maan about that? Now if Sameera has waited for him for 7 and half years, granny thought she would be the next best option for her grandson as he has lost his first best. So Daadi earn my sympathy here.

Jaya

Originally posted by: PrithviSanyo1

@muski I differ again Dadi is at fault, ok let assume dadi want to see her gandson happy but is real she know what is his really happiness
A BIG NO. dadi don't know what is maan happiness

Ok let me think and know dadi wants maan's happiness but can't she see or noticed how maan become angry, sad and hurt after hearing his marriage with any one except geet.

Can't she see or noticed how maan hurt, sad and angry after hearing geet moved on in her life but still knowingly or unknowingly dadi reopened those wounds of maan regularly.

Y she can't close her mouth for some time. At least let him stay in peace just for one day but what we can expect from a khurana.

Maan needs time, yes she give him time but that time geet is not with him now after geet return ,now maan need understand the situation , maan also want to understand the situation.

When maan seen last few days geet closely and may be he will rethink , sply after that kiss from geet, but dadi spoiled it by seeding wrong thing in his head.

Even, I remembered before also dadi , first seeded the thing geet moved on.

Yes maan at fault also. But maan is vulnerable condition after this separation and always confused souls. But dadi make him more confused.

Can she understand if she will do something forcefully then everything will fails and spl maan will do something or happen something worse.

Even dev can see maan is happy and want to see his bro happy and want to give him time but dadi being dadi , after dev told her she stop either way she want to continue .

Sameera , sameera, jaise sameera ka bhoot sar pe sawar ho gayi hain dadi ka.

Some time something have to released on time . Don't force everything. Yes dadi wants to see him happy but still don't know what is his really happiness.

She doesn't know her own grandson and his happiness.

For me may be indirectly but dadi don't know maan's happiness.
u r happy with dev but don't think dev understand maan well than dadi.

Originally posted by: PrithviSanyo1

Hi Prithvi, True to the feelings, Daadi loves Maan very much and her only intentions arer his happiness. If not for that she would not have waited so long as 7 and half years to announce his engagement to sammera. Now also she announced that only after realizing Geet has a kid. How do we expect daadi to dream about Maneet's secret marriage when none of them were open enough to tell daadi about the same. Only possibility of daadi knowing was either from Rano or from Arjun but even they stayed dumb. Daadi knew how much they loved each other and she even asked him to expedite his marriage but dumbo thought it was with NT and refused. It was everything to do with his ego and status hype otherwise he could have given a add with an apology to regain Geet. When he didn't do anything to retrive her back and now after seeing her in Delhi with the kid, and still he didn't do any step to talk to her and their relationship, what should a granny do. Should she go to a married lady with a kid and ask her to come to her grandson by leaving back her husband & kid. NO right? don't you remember that Daadi was scared when Sameera announced her proposal and had asked Maan about that? Now if Sameera has waited for him for 7 and half years, granny thought she would be the next best option for her grandson as he has lost his first best. So Daadi earn my sympathy here.

Jaya

Originally posted by: PrithviSanyo1

I agree that dadi is love maan and wants her happiness but still some how she is responsible may be indirectly.

But , dadi see maan is happy and she is very aware that maan will angry, hurt, sad hurt after hear about his marriage proposal with sameera or hearing abt geet moved on.
she know maan still loves geet more than anything then what is the need of talking on his birthday that geet moved on or not
ok dadi don't know anything we know it's all maan's fault but dadi know that whenever she told him about marraige how he react , then give him time na.
maan needs time to understand things, but whenver he try to do something that time dadi appear with her proposal
may be dadi is not aware but still indirectly she is at fault.
I remembered before dadi could say maan never think that geet is moved on it's dadi who first told him that geet moved on , may be she don't know but still it'll better if she close her mouth.


Can she understand if she will do something forcefully then everything will fails and spl maan will do something or happen something worse.
Can't she see or noticed how maan hurt, sad and angry after hearing geet moved on in her life but still knowingly or unknowingly dadi reopened those wounds of maan regularly.
she hell bound to make maan's marriage with sameera.
Dadi is changed after annie come to their life,(I don't blame annie,I just told before that dadi is thinking logically but no, after that her only wish and thinking limited to her family )

and sameera after maan reject and humiliate her openly still she is running after maan. it's completely chipku

Originally posted by: 7thHeaven

di . . . i agree she doesnt know what his happiness is . . . but the fact is, apart from Geet no one knows Maan, he never lets anyone . . . think abt it she has seen her grandson suffer for seven yrs and now he was smiling but she also knows Geet is married and has a kid so naturally if she sees maan happy she will assume maan wants to move on . . . yes dev understood maan better than dadi did . . . two reason . . . age and he himself is a male and siblings understand each other better i m telling this as my sis understands me better than my parents and she is younger to me . . . i still believe if anyone is to b blamed for the seperation it is Maan . . . lets say for argument sake dadi did put the seed in his mind abt ,moving on but muskan di has already told the reasons why maan belived geet moved on, it was because he thinks MK is 4 yrs old, Then that GK confusion where does dadi come in . . . the moment dadi finds out MK is maan's daughter i can bet she will b on cloud nine . . . sometimes even in my sisters case she gets upset abt things and at times mom is unable to make out the reason but i can because she opens up only with me . . . its not required dadi will always know what is his happiness . . .

Originally posted by: PrithviSanyo1

look muskan I 'm really tired and don't want to comment further anything about this.
but I have to now
problem is no one want to understand what is I'm trying to say like
1.I never support maan for his wrong deed. it's me who told here punish maan and make him understand the importance of geet
2.I never against dadi but I again her some wish.
3.yes dadi wants her happiness but can't she noticed every time she told him abt marriage or to move on or geet moved how he react.
4.some times, chup rehene mein kuch thing accha hota hain.
5.it's maan's birthday and dadi should know how muhc will effect maan if any one told suddenly abt his marriage .ok let assuem dadi guess maan moved one but after maan replied she ready fight till then dev interrupts her .
6.yes dev understand him well.
7.geet know and understand maan well then tell me where is maan fault if any one don't want to understand him. if dadi fails to know abut her grand son then it's maan fault or dadi's.yes maan is short of word and very much introvert types but it's geet who try to understand him and she succeed . kya maan ua rkisine dadi ko mana kya tha mat samajho maan ko.
8. assumption when dadi assume something then it's fine and very good thing when maan assume something then it's sin
9.maan guess wrong mk's age but tell me two things before maan met mk dadi already put seed on maan's head. second how could maan knwo geet pregnant that time. his heart want to believe that mk is his and their princess but brain not. he is fighting ,
for maaneet circumstances r bad and luck is not favor so they r still suffering adding some time directly or indirectly some people constant interfering between them and their relationship.

Originally posted by: 7thHeaven

ok . . . i give it 2 u here . . . dadi is responsible indirectly but wasnt his relation with geet supposed to b strong enough not to let anything affect it .. . had dadi been hell bent on getting maan married to sammera she would have announced their engagement in the party it slef. . . why did she wait for 7 yrs . . .yeah . . . sammera is chipku this aspect we are on the same page but in dadi's case all she saw was that sam waited for maan for 7 yrs . . . that's it . . . she is his grand mother she has full rights to tell him what she feels . . . which normal person would think that geet would wait for maan for 7 yrs .. . only one person can and that is maan himself or geet's mother as only these two know the depth of maaneet relation . . . she saw him happy after knowing geet is married naturally she will assume he wants to move on . . .

Originally posted by: PrithviSanyo1

I told earlier also I'm tired and no mood to argue any more cause it's my fault to comment about it
again and again I told one thing dadi is indirectly responsible for this.
who told dadi to announce their engagement to the news..ok she wants maan's happiness but what is real happiness of maan.
let's think what will dadi do if maan deny like today she angry y , she just stop there and think for some time or give soem time to adjust.
let's assume dadi don't know about maaneet relation ship but she know how much maan loves geet if not then sorry to say she don't know her grand son.
next if she wants to see maan happy and moved on then ok, but that 7yrs geet is not there and now get return and this time geet is there and if as per dadi's wish or assumption geet moved on then it's hurt maan , and this dadi know thne y she told this geet moved on his birthday , it's not hurting maan , even after maan told her, she is ready fight with him till dev stop her.
if he is happy that doesn't mean he moved on or something again assumption but I told if dadi assume something then it's fine but if maan assume something then it's sin.
she sameera waited for him so,if any one will waited for maan then she will tell maan go sacrifice ur life and love for that girl aur mahan baan jao.

I just want to say dadi ko kuch things slowly lena chaiye after geet return .
yes hse wants maan's happiness but frankly say dadi don't know or understand maan and his condition. in fact he never want to understand it.
may be age gap, may be that's y dev understand his bro well.
still dadi should take things slowly.
if maan again refused to marry or engaged with any girl choose by dadi what will she do(LET assume dadi dont know maaneet's marriage) ,

Originally posted by: 7thHeaven

ok di i understand your point but i am firm on my stance . . . yes dadi has a bad habbit of nagging and interfering but Maaneet relationship should be strong enough not to let people interfere . . . when that arjun thing happened . .. geet never let him come bet her reltion with maan but maan lets things come bet them . .. if dadi misunderstood geet wasnt maan supposed to cleaer the MU but did he . . . no . . . he simply remained ignorant . . . and di i am not trying to offend your views trust me . . .