Originally posted by: muskaan_cute19
hey keyama sumthing was jut eating up my mind so jus tot of posting it here nd ask every1 hope u dont mind really want every 1 to answer this
I wanted to ask as today is Women day so
would u accept SAMEERA in ur life as knowing her DARK TRUTH nt exactly urs bt in ur loved 1z
like i dont kno every1 here that too in particular age as this is 4 every1
As if u are mother sister or any relation u may take as a Women will u accept sam
in ur sons brother or any other reletions life
My question is WILL YOU ACCEPT HER?
Like as a mother will u accept her in ur sonz life as she cant give u heir will u still b able to accept her as ur daughter in law will u b really?
is avantika justified at her place of insecurity?
I hope people got my point nd i really du hope u answer it with ur loyalty nd nt just diplomacy think well nd du answer to this question dont thnk by ur brainz du thnk by ur heart i shall also answer to this qustion after i get sum answers
will b eagerly waiting 4 ur answers
wat u tnk abt it
its just a radom Q came to my mind its nt to hurt anybodyz feeling
if u feel so du answer
bt will b curious to kno ??
Yes, I think I'll accept her.
Being A woman myself, I think there are many shades to a woman.
She is a daughter, a wife, a sister, a mother, but most importantly, she is a human being.
Why are women expected to play these cliched roles and only give out? A woman has feelings and emotions of her own, and she needs to be respected for who she is.
So what if a woman can't concieve, that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with her. She just has a problem.
And being unable to give birth does not make her incapable of being a good mother. I mean, there are so many orphaned children who need parents. Adoption is always a good idea.
But I think our society is still not completely ready to open up to such ideas. Not everyone is able to open mindedly greet such issues.
What must be kept in mind is that women like Sam in this story have already been scarred for life, and we need to sooth their pain and help them. Not remind them of their loss.
Also, if I'm a mother in law, then why should I see my future daughter in law as a bearer of responsibilities, or a source of grand children, if I'm getting her married to my son, then I'm having an addition to my family, not a free of cost servant. I'm welcoming another child to my home, so what if she has a flaw, we none of us are perfect, and if she's amiable, then why not work past this fact and probably go for adoption.
JUST MY POV
PLZ THIS IS NOT TO HURT ANYONE'S FEELINGS
THIS ANSWER IS FOR A WOMAN WHO IN GENERAL CAN'T CONCEIVE, I DON'T FAVOUR CONSUMMATING AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE, IT IS IRRISPONSIBLE AND SHOWS WEAKNESS OF CHARACTER, PLUS SAM SHUD NOT BE DEPENDENT ON MAAN'S FAMILY, WHAT HAPPENED TO HER WAS DUE TO HER OWN FAUL, SHE SHUD TAKE RESPONSIBILITY OF HER ACTIONS AND NOT BE A BURDEN ON OTHERS.
and btw HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY TO ALL!!!!😳
Edited by mirnalini - 14 years ago
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