Originally posted by: Water.
@ Pixie,
I completely agree with the fact that a person has no other moment in their lives beside the present moment. I mean present is all a person has...past is gone and future is unpredictible.
All that you say is true, she is married, he loves her a lot and is always there to support her..but like I was saying before...if some of those negative thought patterns have been embedded in you for a really long time..it takes a lot of courage, determination and self-reflection work to actually change y our thought process.
The new thought process does not come right away in one day, one week or one month. It takes constant effort and positive self-talk in your mind to get over the negative. Sometimes a person needs a little push in regards to start changing their mind set.
Dev might still clog their relationship and he might still be in her sub conscious....I believe she just needs time to get over him.
Just my thoughts.
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Please trust me. You will know that this will be handled only slowly. I have seen one two many people in the same situations with beaten up self esteem's. Maan has had time for 6 years to recover, but Geet is married within 5 months of the breakup. I cannot make her transform without any baggage. Why do you think the candle and the rain scene is coming up...
Sorry guys...I had no idea that I slept off. In the morning when I got up is when I realized, that I had. The lights were on, the TV was running. Laptop battery low. Luckily I didnt lose what I had typed. So the update coming in a few hours. Sorry for the delay. I'm just plain messed up.
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