FF: New York times with Maan and Geet Thread 2 - Page 38

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Originally posted by: pushpi

I really really liked this question by Geet " Kya aapko lagta hain, ki hum dono aise hi ranhenge?"Doesn't this voice the fear that girls have after a wedding? Things are all lovey-dovey when we are engaged and newly married but things do not stay the same as the marriage lasts longer, does it? How often do you see the same love and affection as before after 10,15,20,etc years of marriage? Maan's answer was practical and that too even a dream answer in my opinion.

Pushpi in response to 'Kya aapko lagta hain, ki hum dono aise hi rahenge?'

Originally posted by: Water.

Pushpi in response to 'Kya aapko lagta hain, ki hum dono aise hi rahenge?'

I have kind of come to accept the fact (though not fully) that life is changing at each and every second. Change is the only constant thing in this world as quoted by someone. Us humans are so used to living life in a particular way, in our own little bubbles and comfort zones that if a little something happens then a havoc is created in our minds. The more unanticipated the change, the more resistant the individual becomes. Honestly, who wants to get out of their comfort zone and take risks, learn to live differently, start all over again, etc. I believe an individual can try n manage if they have been given enough notice, but what if all of a sudden one day...your life takes a 360 degree turn? R u gonna be prepared for it? Mentally and emotionally. I mean the physical body mite handle it due to flight/fight...but what about your heart?

I can understand from Geet's prespective...her life has always been one sharp curve after another. Just when she thought she was in control of her life and just while she has started dealing with the existing issue...BAM! came another hurdle across her path. What should she do? Running away seemed the easiest at that point in time. Running away from whom though? Change or herself? I guess both. Cus change is what brought the hurdle and the hurdle is what caused the havoc and now the consequences of the havoc are to face the emotions...that are so painful.

No wonder she wants this blissful moments/life with Maan to last the same and forever. The same sunrise and the same sunset. But in reality...even the sky has the darkest clouds once in a while..with its thunder n stroms. But then you are back to the sunrise and the sunset...sometimes even a rainbow 😉. I think somewhere in the Bible it says, "And this too shall pass'.

Back to Maan's response. 'Hum try to kar sakte hain na'. Such a great response. I mean it is as real as it can get. No exaggerating and no promises. Because the maker of life and the changer of destiny is another power that is way beyond our control. Life before and after marriage is off course never going to be the same. Before marriage it can be lovey-dovey and after something else like you and vice-versa like you said Pushpi.

I believe that a relationship is like a potter and its clay. The more you work on it, the more you communicate with it the more better it turns out to be. The more amount of time you spend with in it with your everything...it will turn out to be beautiful just like the final piece of pottery. But you cannot just do it alone. Clay needs the potter to make it into a beautiful piece and the potter needs the clay to make a beautiful piece.

Rachana

Originally posted by: Water.

Pushpi in response to 'Kya aapko lagta hain, ki hum dono aise hi rahenge?'

I have kind of come to accept the fact (though not fully) that life is changing at each and every second. Change is the only constant thing in this world as quoted by someone. Us humans are so used to living life in a particular way, in our own little bubbles and comfort zones that if a little something happens then a havoc is created in our minds. The more unanticipated the change, the more resistant the individual becomes. Honestly, who wants to get out of their comfort zone and take risks, learn to live differently, start all over again, etc. I believe an individual can try n manage if they have been given enough notice, but what if all of a sudden one day...your life takes a 360 degree turn? R u gonna be prepared for it? Mentally and emotionally. I mean the physical body mite handle it due to flight/fight...but what about your heart?

I can understand from Geet's prespective...her life has always been one sharp curve after another. Just when she thought she was in control of her life and just while she has started dealing with the existing issue...BAM! came another hurdle across her path. What should she do? Running away seemed the easiest at that point in time. Running away from whom though? Change or herself? I guess both. Cus change is what brought the hurdle and the hurdle is what caused the havoc and now the consequences of the havoc are to face the emotions...that are so painful.

No wonder she wants this blissful moments/life with Maan to last the same and forever. The same sunrise and the same sunset. But in reality...even the sky has the darkest clouds once in a while..with its thunder n stroms. But then you are back to the sunrise and the sunset...sometimes even a rainbow 😉. I think somewhere in the Bible it says, "And this too shall pass'.

Back to Maan's response. 'Hum try to kar sakte hain na'. Such a great response. I mean it is as real as it can get. No exaggerating and no promises. Because the maker of life and the changer of destiny is another power that is way beyond our control. Life before and after marriage is off course never going to be the same. Before marriage it can be lovey-dovey and after something else like you and vice-versa like you said Pushpi.

I believe that a relationship is like a potter and its clay. The more you work on it, the more you communicate with it the more better it turns out to be. The more amount of time you spend with in it with your everything...it will turn out to be beautiful just like the final piece of pottery. But you cannot just do it alone. Clay needs the potter to make it into a beautiful piece and the potter needs the clay to make a beautiful piece.

Rachana

Originally posted by: pushpi

Wow Di very well said! Everything you said is neat and true. I def have more to say to that too and more to ask you too. But will do so tomorrow morning cause my Bittu and his Mom are both very tired and sleeepy. 😆 Sorry yaar jokes apart, I'll def post a comment in response to yours tomorrow morning. Good night and sweet dreams for now!

Originally posted by: Water.

Bitto and Mom cracked me up....

I mean if there is a bitto n if there is mom...den off course there is a Dadi 😉😉😉

And you were saying there is no Dadi yet.

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Haha...I just cracked myself up with this Dadi joke.

Originally posted by: pushpi

Haha I knew that you'd laugh over my Mom-Bittu thing! Mujhe aapse aisi umeed nahi thi tsk tsk tsk. You want to be Bittu's Dadi? Then I'd have to call you Mom too