Originally posted by: -Destiny-
<p align="justify"><font color="#0033cc"><font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Love
has a positive affect on a relationship because
when love exists in a relationship both partners hold the
happiness
of the other in a high esteem and place the happiness of their
partner ahead of their own desires. Love affects relationships
in a myriad of ways including how the couple interacts, the
leisure activities they participate in and the longevity of
the relationship. In a loving relationship the couple
behaves thoughtfully towards each other and is mindful of their
partner's
feelings. In this type of relationship, each partner
places their partner ahead of themselves and they strive
to treat each other lovingly and with respect. Also, in a loving
relationship
the leisure activities that the couple participates in are
based on a mutual love and respect. Activities are chosen with
careful consideration to the partner's feelings. In a loving
relationship the partners typically engage in activities that
they either either strongly agree on or those that are a compromise.
While a couple in a loving relationship may not always be in
complete agreement regarding leisure activities, they strive
to compromise to ensure that both partners have the opportunity
to engage in their preferred activities. Finally a relationship
that is based on love is usually long lasting. The presence
of love in the relationship enables a couple to work through
any problems or difficulties that arise in the relationship
and helps the relationship to endure. The thoughtfulness and
caring that exists in a loving relationship helps the relationship
to grown and endure. </font></font></p>
<p align="justify"><font color="#0033cc"><font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Conversely a
lustful relationship may not necessary have a negative
affect on a relationship but it also may not be as
positive as a loving relationship. Similarly to love,
lust also affects a relationship in regard to how the couple
interacts,
the activities the couple participate in and the durability
of the relationship. The primary difference between a lustful
and a loving relationship is that while in a loving relationship
the partners place a high value on the happiness of their partner,
a lustful relationship is one in which the partners are consumed
by their own desires. The partners in a lustful relationship
place their needs and wants ahead of their partner's desires. This
alone is enough to make their partner feel disrespected and
to not place a high value on the relationship. The fundamental
selfishness that exists in a lustful relationship trickles
down and affects the activities in which the couple participates.
While those in a loving relationship strive to compromise and
find activities that they both enjoy, those in a lustful relationship
are more prone to insist on participating in activities that
they enjoy regardless of whether or not their partner will
also enjoy this activity. One final characteristic of a lustful
relationship is that it is typically short lived. A lustful
relationship is driven by passion and desire and once a goal
is reached the partner becomes no longer desirable. With nothing
else to drive the relationship it soon begins to wane and the
couple often separates. Lustful relationships are characterized
by a selfishness and lack of respect that typically results
in a short and tumultuous relationship. </font></font></p>
<font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"><font color="#0033cc">Complicating the issue of separating love and lust is that
</font><font color="#0033cc">it is often possible for lust to exist within a loving
relationship.<br></font><br><br>okay this is my analysis on your topic .. these facts are soooo not to be missed!!!!!!!! it's an interesting topic for writing...<br>BTW i have a question for you How old are u???? i am just asking because you write sooooo well & tht too on mature topics like these!!!</font> u said right there are huge difference b/w Love & Lust <br><font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"><br>I am sooooooooo sorry for commenting late it is just tht I have been busy lately ....<br>OH yes I forgot to say this was A Splendid OS<br><br><br>mahi one more thing Never feel that people will not like your work Be POSITIVE <br>.positive attitude is a really good Virtue to have I hope ke you are understanding what I wanna say to you...... Oi don't take this to heart I am just saying it as a friend. An advice frm 1 frnd 2 another..... <br>this work of being a writer must be a tedious Job for you also ... But also an emotional for the readers tooo<br></font><font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"> Remember these few things </font>
- <font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">be positive . even though hard work has been put in .. Be Positive for good comments</font>
- <font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Always keenly observe your reader's reaction to your work & how many mistakes of your has been pointed it really helps</font>
- <font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"> Read Re- Read & review ur work</font><br>
<font face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"><br>this was just to motivate you ... hope you did not mind this 😊<br>Sorry once again 4 da late comment sweety <br>Lekha<br><br><br><br></font>

wow!!!!!!!!
thank u soooooooooooo much for the analysis.........
my age? i am 16
thanks......
i know i am a kid but i have a very mature thinking.........
i know my values....and for me......my values r my reason to live......
i don't know abt others but i am a truly traditional at heart........
i believe in arrange marriage.........
i aspire to become a doctor as my parents want that........
and i can do anything for my family............
thanks........
i am happy that u loved it.........
and i thank u from the bottom of my heart to give me suggestions.......
i will consider them from next time........
next time i will be positive abt my work.........
and the other too suggestion r what i always do............
i always see to my reader's reply and answer back..........
it helps me to know my mistakes.......
and i don't mind for ur comments........
infact,
i love them to the core.........
thanks a ton for the sweetest analysis.........
and the sweetest suggestions.........
thanks a ton.....
love u a lot.....
Mahak
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