Why this negativity against Arpita? - Page 3

Originally posted by: kaboo123

Does debate always have to centre around attacking a particular contestant on personal dislike almost iteratively. We have understood that people here hate Arpita passionatley. What I am saying that the intensity with which the emotion is exhibited can be diluted to respect the sentiments of others. .

Debate does not always have to centre around 'attacking' a particular contestant - it does however centre around dissecting character traits and observations made on a character and discussing them.

I do agree with you in regards to people who post childish and extremely crude remarks, for example wishing death on a contestant or making crude remarks about their physical appearance etc.

Originally posted by: kaboo123

Besides, how does a contestant care whether u like them or don't like them. If the contestants are not bothered why does every second post of yours has to say I dislike Arpita or I hate Arpita. I like Arpita but do I ever say that I dislike Qazi regardless of whether I actually do like him or not.

That argument is completely baseless - if that was the case, than the creator of this forum should have enforced strict rules that go along the line of "These forums are for updates and reading only, do not comment on any of the contestants or you'll be banned" - I beleive we already have a read-only site at sify.com.

People will have their favourite contestants as well as their least favourite contestants and will definately discuss them both from both perspectives - positive & negative since they're provided a public forum to do so. If the creators of the forum don't want it, might as well shut the forum down and turn it into a news site - I mean using your argument - why should people post positive remarks and motivational remarks towards the contestants as well? I mean as you say: "how does a contestant care whether u like them or don't like them. "

Originally posted by: kaboo123

If u think I am a hypocrite then what does ur post suggest..

It's hypocritical because on one hand you say debate and on the other hand you say don't post negative remarks. Again, how can a debate exist if both sides of the argument are not involved?

It sounds like you're implying "Post only positive things or don't post at all" - that's not what you call debating.

Originally posted by: Julian

Debate does not always have to centre around 'attacking' a particular contestant - it does however centre around dissecting character traits and observations made on a character and discussing them.

I do agree with you in regards to people who post childish and extremely crude remarks, for example wishing death on a contestant or making crude remarks about their physical appearance etc.

That argument is completely baseless - if that was the case, than the creator of this forum should have enforced strict rules that go along the line of "These forums are for updates and reading only, do not comment on any of the contestants or you'll be banned" - I beleive we already have a read-only site at sify.com.

People will have their favourite contestants as well as their least favourite contestants and will definately discuss them both from both perspectives - positive & negative since they're provided a public forum to do so. If the creators of the forum don't want it, might as well shut the forum down and turn it into a news site - I mean using your argument - why should people post positive remarks and motivational remarks towards the contestants as well? I mean as you say: "how does a contestant care whether u like them or don't like them. "

It's hypocritical because on one hand you say debate and on the other hand you say don't post negative remarks. Again, how can a debate exist if both sides of the argument are not involved?

It sounds like you'reimplying "Post only positive things or don't post at all" - that's not what you call debating.

How can u tell somebody's character traits when u don't know them so well. What Sony is showing us is a lot of edited version of the programme. We don't know any of these contestants personally. That's why I would refrain from passing too many personal comments about a contestant, and their families.

Besides, we do not know how the programme is structured. The way I see it developing it is a Mirch Masala programme supposed to be more spicy than the hottest of Indian soaps. That's why the producer and director are packaging it in such a manner to create controversies so that the janata discusses and spends way too much time thinking about this programme which gives them undue publicity and popularity. Hence I have reached this conculsion that yes some contestants may be personally more amiable than others but generally all of them are good but are just pure executors of a certain role which they have been asked to play.

Personally no one is my favorite but I do like almost all of the contestants, including Qazi. It's just quiet edgy to listen to such vehemnet outbursts about a single person that we hardly know. The forum must move to a different level of discussion rather than just talking about one thing and one person. It just gets very monotonous, and tiresome to read the same things again and again

Originally posted by: kaboo123

How can u tell somebody's character traits when u don't know them so well. What Sony is showing us is a lot of edited version of the programme. We don't know any of these contestants personally. That's why I would refrain from passing too many personal comments about a contestant, and their families.

Again, I think you're missing the whole point - we're discussing character traits as we're presented them - I said in another post as well, each contestant may be totally different than how they're portrayed on the show, however we only discuss what we're shown.

I agree that people should not pass comments on the contestant's families, however to pass comments on the actual contestant is justified - we'll discuss what we see.

Originally posted by: kaboo123

Besides, we do not know how the programme is structured. The way I see it developing it is a Mirch Masala programme supposed to be more spicy than the hottest of Indian soaps. That's why the producer and director are packaging it in such a manner to create controversies so that the janata discusses and spends way too much time thinking about this programme which gives them undue publicity and popularity. Hence I have reached this conculsion that yes some contestants may be personally more amiable than others but generally all of them are good but are just pure executors of a certain role which they have been asked to play.

If that's how you feel, than you should accept others' criticism of contestants as criticism of fictitious characters from a soap and not take it personally. Simple concept, really.

Originally posted by: kaboo123

Personally no one is my favorite but I do like almost all of the contestants, including Qazi. It's just quiet edgy to listen to such vehemnet outbursts about a single person that we hardly know. The forum must move to a different level of discussion rather than just talking about one thing and one person. It just gets very monotonous, and tiresome to read the same things again and again

The 'vehement outbursts' are towards people we 'know' through television. There are many topics going on not just about a single contestant - heck I think i saw 2-3 threads about Rex-Ruppu romance today.

If it gets monotonous for you, learn to ignore it and go to threads you find less monotonous. Again, really simple concept.

I just want to know whether sony can edit any one's facial expression or not???!!!!!!!!!!

Since this is a discussion forum, as long as nobody is using filthy language or making cheap comments, everyone should have the right to voice their opinion, good or bad.

Also, since none of us know these people personally, no one should be hurt by someone's comments.

I like Ruprekha, but if you dislike her then it shouldn't offend me. If you say you hate me or my family then yes I would be offended.

I was very sad when Arijit left but some were happy and that is theri perrogative.

Let's not take peoples comments or the show THAT seriously. All is in fun!! :)

I just read that someone wished one of the contestants to die. That fits the CHEAP category. Let's not get carried away by emotions guys. In fact, I bet if we met some of these people they would never care for us or give a hoot. SO lets not be that emotional over them and get heartburn or worse.

Originally posted by: music_fan

I just want to know whether sony can edit any one's facial expression or not???!!!!!!!!!!

lol - 😉😉 might google to find out if digital video editing can help out in such thing.

Originally posted by: me&my2cents

lol - 😉😉 might google to find out if digital video editing can help out in such thing.

please if u find it pleaseee let me know, if they can edit that then i will accept that its sony's editing that is the main cause why i m liking some ppl and not liking some other

Originally posted by: infiniteattract

hmmm I dont like Arpita and the coz sited that Qazi fans dont like her is very wrong. Even if Arpita becomes very sweet with Qaxzi, proposes him and marries him I will still hate her. She is too egoistic, overconfident, double tongued and always cribbing about something or the other. She thinks rself to be the best but sadly enuff no one else thinks so the voting status somewaht proved it. SO i think she should cnahge her attitude a bit and become a bit more gentle and feminine in her ways so that people accpet her more.

langur ke gale mein haar daale hur ... i don't think arpita ko hoga aisa sapne mein bhi manjur ...

on a more serious note ... her saying things is her viewpoint and i concur with her view point on qazi that he should not be there in the top 5 because of his singing

Originally posted by: dhamaal

langur ke gale mein haar daale hur ... i don't think arpita ko hoga aisa sapne mein bhi manjur ...

on a more serious note ... her saying things is her viewpoint and i concur with her view point on qazi that he should not be there in the top 5 because of his singing

thanks for your views/quotes rahul!

do u think what arpita did to vote out arijit was right. or u think arijit is worse than arpita.