Reaction & response to Balwant and Veera's 'heartfelt' convo - Page 3

Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

You know..I was just thinking about Veera's reaction after she learnt about Nihal's murder and that Baldev did it. She understandably went into shock after that. And she worried that Baldev might be sentenced to death, that is understandable as well.

Then after marrying him...for a while she got worried about Ballu's mental condition (that's good too) but then she got completely busy doing jasoosi.

So what I am wondering about is...if Baldev didn't actually get tortured in jail and didn't get PTSD...then would she have taken the time to worry about the murderer ka dhabba that he might have to live with for the rest of his life? Would she have worried about the pain and humiliation he suffered for being falsely accused of killing a man that was like a second father to them all?

I mean she worried so much for her brother over the plagiarism issue..then she cried a lot when he went to jail for beating Ballu (I know part of the reason she cried was that Ballu betrayed her). So would she have cried over the damage done to Baldev's dignity over her bro's false accusation?😕

Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

MaSh should be thankful to the forum that I still watch this show.😆

Originally posted by: overactor

forget Baldev, what was her reaction to nihal's death 😳 nothing?? pados me koi marta he na tab bhi is se ziada afsos hta he, Baldev's reaction was better.

And she married the person accused without having faith that he wasn't the killer 👍🏼 if u reverse the roles and if veera had been alleged and baldev though she did it he wouldn't have marrie dthe person he thinks can be responsible to kill his chachu

when she was not sincere to nihal who was a father figure to Baldev se kya hogi 😆 she only has her veerji to worry about, hug jo krne hen 😊

I was actually fine with her reaction to Nihal's death.😆 How she went into shock and then cried over his death when she visited the godown where he died.

I just don't like the way she loves Ballu. Have never been and never will be satisfied with it. And now I have stopped caring about it.😆

Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

You know..I was just thinking about Veera's reaction after she learnt about Nihal's murder and that Baldev did it. She understandably went into shock after that. And she worried that Baldev might be sentenced to death, that is understandable as well.

Then after marrying him...for a while she got worried about Ballu's mental condition (that's good too) but then she got completely busy doing jasoosi.

So what I am wondering about is...if Baldev didn't actually get tortured in jail and didn't get PTSD...then would she have taken the time to worry about the murderer ka dhabba that he might have to live with for the rest of his life? Would she have worried about the pain and humiliation he suffered for being falsely accused of killing a man that was like a second father to them all?

I mean she worried so much for her brother over the plagiarism issue..then she cried a lot when he went to jail for beating Ballu (I know part of the reason she cried was that Ballu betrayed her). So would she have cried over the damage done to Baldev's dignity over her bro's false accusation?😕

Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

I was actually fine with her reaction to Nihal's death.😆 How she went into shock and then cried over his death when she visited the godown where he died.

I just don't like the way she loves Ballu. Have never been and never will be satisfied with it. And now I have stopped caring about it.😆

@MD

I am sure she loves him in her own way. But it's not sachcha wala pyaar.😆 And now that Baldev has betrayed her..no point in them having sachcha wala pyaar...unless they go into therapy and start their relationship from scratch.

Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

@MD

I am sure she loves him in her own way. But it's not sachcha wala pyaar.😆 And now that Baldev has betrayed her..no point in them having sachcha wala pyaar...unless they go into therapy and start their relationship from scratch.

Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

I was actually fine with her reaction to Nihal's death.😆 How she went into shock and then cried over his death when she visited the godown where he died.

I just don't like the way she loves Ballu. Have never been and never will be satisfied with it. And now I have stopped caring about it.😆

What baffles me is that Veera has zero self-introspection...she never bothers to question her actions and the feeling of guilt is unknown to her. She doesn't see that what she did was the single factor that has messed up this relationship, even without considering Baldev's conspiracy. Its galling to think that the entire SS family believed VeeBa's relationship will be absolutely hunky-dory even after Veera submitted her name for the sarpanch post without telling Baldev. If she actually did become sarpanch, what exactly did they think Baldev's reaction would have been?! Understanding, accepting of the fact that his wife had snatched his only real dream since childhood? Honestly even without Baldev doing what he did, this relationship was doomed to fail. If I were in Baldev's position, I wouldn't have cared for all that 'don't mix relations with work' nonsense...i would've left someone who had so little respect and concern for my dreams and hopes! Other than her supposed 'sachawala pyaar', Veera fails in two of the most important aspects of a marriage...trust and respect for her husband. Absolutely disgusted.

I do not want to waste my time commenting on the excuse for a father.

Originally posted by: FelixFelicis

What baffles me is that Veera has zero self-introspection...she never bothers to question her actions and the feeling of guilt is unknown to her. She doesn't see that what she did was the single factor that has messed up this relationship, even without considering Baldev's conspiracy. Its galling to think that the entire SS family believed VeeBa's relationship will be absolutely hunky-dory even after Veera submitted her name for the sarpanch post without telling Baldev. If she actually did become sarpanch, what exactly did they think Baldev's reaction would have been?! Understanding, accepting of the fact that his wife had snatched his only real dream since childhood? Honestly even without Baldev doing what he did, this relationship was doomed to fail. If I were in Baldev's position, I wouldn't have cared for all that 'don't mix relations with work' nonsense...i would've left someone who had so little respect and concern for my dreams and hopes! Other than her supposed 'sachawala pyaar', Veera fails in two of the most important aspects of a marriage...trust and respect for her husband. Absolutely disgusted.

I do not want to waste my time commenting on the excuse for a father.

See..90% of her brain is reserved for her Veerji obsession and the bacha kucha area is used to go about her daily life...so not enough brain is left to deal with petty things like self-introspection and guilt.😭😆

While 70% of Baldev's brain was reserved for loving Veera and now that area is shrinking in size coz of ManjuSuri's manipulations.🤪😆 Both of their poor brains need a break from each other...it would be best if it lasts forever.😆

Jokes aside, I have given up on the idea of Veera and her family realising and admitting that they were wrong. If they couldn't muster enough guilt after R falsely accused Baldev of murder and as a result of which he got tortured in jail and nearly lost his sanity, toh yeh toh dur ki baat hai.😆