baldev ???? trust or not to trust???

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Posted: 10 years ago
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i read in a lot of hate posts for veera and ranvi, and the CV for butchering Baldev's character. i get it baldev is a much loved character. but i dont see any butchering, or showing baldev in a bad light to show veera and ranvi in a good light.
and let me inform your i am not a baldev hater, i love the character because it has so many shades of grays. but for me right acts is right, and wrong acts is wrong, and wrong cannot be justified no matter how much you love the character.

baldev was and always has been the bad boy period. he was the village bully, lived and enjoyed on his fathers money, the rich spoiled brat who never took anything seriously or took any responsibility.
one of his reasons of fun was his banter with veera. which later turned to attraction and then love. it was this love that brought a change to his character, he became more caring and considerate
there is no doubt that he truly loves veera. he was not a bad person, just careless and immature.
he never took the difficult root to a problem, but had alwaysed settled for taking the easier way out of a problem, which were often illegal, bulling , threatening or falsification methods to get what he wanted.

true veer never showed blind faith in him and for good reason. because she knows he is capable of doing bad deeds, but to her credit she always did have hope and believed that he could change. and be a much better person. but alas i think he has now well and truly destroyed all that hope.

the fact is the ranvir and veera do have the moral high ground. because they have never taken shortcuts or harmed anybody for their own ends.

i not saying baldev didn't do his bit as the good person he is, but he has done more bad.

ranvi accusing baldev for nihal murder, was a misunderstanding, not he preconceived conspiracy to harm him.

baldev conspired to hurt veera, not only eliminating her out of the competition of sarpanch. but worst of all, raising questions on her moral character and honesty. the damage to her character is irreversible. will anybody trust a person who is alleged to be corrupt, dishonest.

so i dont see how people justify baldev behaviour, when even he knows deep down that he is wrong.

the way i see it he really does not deserve to be sarpanch or hold any public office. because he doesn't know the difference between right and wrong. he is easily manipulated by others and does not even realise it.

he says veera doesn't have faith in him. but he so easily believed that she has sabotaged his campaign, just because of few poisons whispers in his ear, by his mother and taiji who hate veera, and those mall guys who are looking out for their own interest.

tomorrow baldev would have sold the entire village to these cooperates, because of his ego and stupidity. and yet he will want people to trust him, that this was not his intention.

well that's wrong. and baldev is wrong. i would be highly surprised if veera does ever forgive him.
because i wouldnt if i were in her situation.

husband and wife want to fight in privet thats fine, but there is absolutely no justification to publicly humiliate and slander your spouse even is he/ she is your opponent.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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if I were a guy and my wife accused me for killing someone I would NEVER forgive her!

Baldev at least accepts his mistakes unlike Mahan Ranveera 😵

Baldev has a heart of Gold, he always gets treated like trash and insulted by Ranveera, yet he forgives them though they don't deserve his forgiveness 😡

Ever since Veera has entered Baldev's life he has only experienced bad things, Ranveera and Mahanta Parivaar can't see him happy!

I'm sure no one wants a life partner who keeps doubting you, insult you, think low of you, slap you, and try to crush your dream 👎🏼

Baldev keeps forgiving Veera even though she doesn't deserve his forgiveness 😡

A person who keeps committing the same mistakes over and over, thinks she's perfect and doesn't trust and respect her own husband, deserve to live alone the rest of her life!

Veera was and will always stay selfish, she only loves herself and her loser Veerji 🤢

Hats off to Baldev for tolerating a girl like Veera 👏

Baldev should throw the divorce papers on Veera's face she doesn't deserve him!!

Veera isn't capable of becoming a sarpanch either cuz she jumps to conclusions without giving the other person a chance to speak, she gets manipulated too and she thinks that only her Veerji is right and rest are wrong 🥱

She thinks too high of herself, I'm sure PP people would never want a selfish sarpanch 🤪

PP doesn't deserve a gem like Baldev, he should just leave PP!

Can't believe you're justifying Ranveera's mistakes 😳

Ranvi is a thief but that's perfectly fine cuz it's Ranvi 😊

Ranveera kare to Rasleela. Baldev kare to character dheela 👏
Edited by MaaneetDeewangi - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Kitna upar udega utna hi niche girega...tb akal thikane ayegi.bewkoof kahin ka
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Gali Gali Mein Shor Hai. Ranvijay Singh Chor Hai.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I really don't think its as simple as right versus wrong. Baldev is a nuanced character with many shades and I do agree with you that he hinself knows that what he has done is wrong. Perhaps, to a certain extent he also knows that he has given in to what Manjsuri and those mall dudes wanted to happen. On no account does he feel himself mahaan doing what he is doing. But the fact is that Baldev needed to say "enough is enough" to the mahaan Ranveera and this was his unfortunately messed up way of saying it. No one can deny that those two combined have tested his patience to the point of insanity (literally!). When he became a changed person, none of the SS parivaar ever really believed in him or took any real notice for example Ranvi till date always assumes the worst about Baldev. But while this was acceptable to him, the same wasn't the case when it was his own wife doing the same time and time again. Veera has let his hopes and trust down too many times to be counted...yet she does the exact opposite when it concerns her pyaare veerji. These toxic factors would play on anyone's mind if done repeatedly. And I guess Veera attempting to destroy his sarpanch ambitions was the straw that broke the camel's back.

Basic point -yes he's done something wrong, yes he knows it's wrong but at this point, he has just reached his limit for tolerance. Before we rush to judge him, it is important to consider these factors.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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To me it always feels like that every bad thing that Baldev does is just an extreme and unjustifiable reaction to an action of Ranvi/Veera/RanVeera, just so the CVs can show that RanVeera are in the right.🤪 The latest example is Veera betraying Baldev by standing in the elections against him and Baldev retaliating by disqualifying her from the elections by conspiring against her, which is 10 times worse than what Veera did. So the whole point of Baldev's betrayal is to sweep what Veera did under the carpet. And just to clarify, I would have been completely fine with her not supporting him for the elections if she thought he was unfit for the post (which he is), but instead she decides to stand in the way of his dream when she herself is unfit for the post!😳

There is no justification for a lot of things Baldev does (the latest stunt makes me ashamed of him), but even though I disapprove of his actions, I can always see where his anger and frustration comes from, what exactly drove him to do what he did. Also the guy is at least honest to himself, when he does something wrong he knows very well that he is wrong but I can't say the same for RanVeera. Veera never once thought that she was hurting Baldev badly by standing against him in the elections, Ranvi never realised the magnitude of the hurt he caused Baldev by falsely accusing him of murder (being thought of as a murderer by your relatives and Pind ppl is worse than them thinking that you are a corrupt politician coz some ppl will never truly believe in your innocence). So all this makes Baldev a much more sympathetic character than RanVeera.

As for RanVeera's moral highground...IMO after a point of time, if you keep on hurting someone again and again, without learning from your mistake, then it becomes irrelevant whether you actually intended to hurt them or not coz the end result is the same - someone is gravely hurt because of you and your actions alone. So RanVeera and Baldev are on the same 'immoral' boat for me, only difference is that I understand how Baldev got on the boat in the first place.

P.S. Both Veera and Baldev are proving to be terrible spouses to each other.🥱 But Baldev became horrible to her only after getting married, whereas Veera has been treating him like cr*p before they even started dating.😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

To
me it always feels like that every bad thing that Baldev does is just an
extreme and unjustifiable reaction to an action of Ranvi/Veera/RanVeera, just
so the CVs can show that RanVeera are in the right.🤪 The latest example is Veera
betraying Baldev by standing in the elections against him and Baldev
retaliating by disqualifying her from the elections by conspiring against her, which
is 10 times worse than what Veera did. So the whole point of Baldev's betrayal
is to sweep what Veera did under the carpet. And just to clarify, I would have
been completely fine with her not supporting him for the elections if she
thought he was unfit for the post (which he is), but instead she decides to stand
in the way of his dream when she herself is unfit for the post!😳



There is no justification for a lot of things Baldev does (the latest stunt
makes me ashamed of him), but even though I disapprove of his actions, I can
always see where his anger and frustration comes from, what exactly drove him
to do what he did. Also the guy is at least honest to himself, when he does
something wrong he knows very well that he is wrong but I can't say the same
for RanVeera. Veera never once thought that she was hurting Baldev badly by
standing against him in the elections, Ranvi never realised the magnitude of
the hurt he caused Baldev by falsely accusing him of murder (being thought of
as a murderer by your relatives and Pind ppl is worse than them thinking that
you are a corrupt politician coz some ppl will never truly believe in your
innocence). So all this makes Baldev a much more sympathetic character than
RanVeera.



As for RanVeera's moral highground...IMO after a point of time, if you keep on
hurting someone again and again, without learning from your mistake, then it
becomes irrelevant whether you actually intended to hurt them or not coz the
end result is the same-someone is gravely hurt because of you and your actions
alone. So RanVeera and Baldev are on the same 'immoral' boat for me, only
difference is that I understand how Baldev got on the boat in the first place.





We're not just on the same page Riya, we seem to be on the very same line! 😉
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: FelixFelicis


We're not just on the same page Riya, we seem to be on the very same line! 😉



But at least you know how to be brief😆..I never know how to limit my words.😭😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...

To me it always feels like that every bad thing that Baldev does is just an extreme and unjustifiable reaction to an action of Ranvi/Veera/RanVeera, just so the CVs can show that RanVeera are in the right.🤪 The latest example is Veera betraying Baldev by standing in the elections against him and Baldev retaliating by disqualifying her from the elections by conspiring against her, which is 10 times worse than what Veera did. So the whole point of Baldev's betrayal is to sweep what Veera did under the carpet. And just to clarify, I would have been completely fine with her not supporting him for the elections if she thought he was unfit for the post (which he is), but instead she decides to stand in the way of his dream when she herself is unfit for the post!😳

There is no justification for a lot of things Baldev does (the latest stunt makes me ashamed of him), but even though I disapprove of his actions, I can always see where his anger and frustration comes from, what exactly drove him to do what he did. Also the guy is at least honest to himself, when he does something wrong he knows very well that he is wrong but I can't say the same for RanVeera. Veera never once thought that she was hurting Baldev badly by standing against him in the elections, Ranvi never realised the magnitude of the hurt he caused Baldev by falsely accusing him of murder (being thought of as a murderer by your relatives and Pind ppl is worse than them thinking that you are a corrupt politician coz some ppl will never truly believe in your innocence). So all this makes Baldev a much more sympathetic character than RanVeera.

As for RanVeera's moral highground...IMO after a point of time, if you keep on hurting someone again and again, without learning from your mistake, then it becomes irrelevant whether you actually intended to hurt them or not coz the end result is the same-someone is gravely hurt because of you and your actions alone. So RanVeera and Baldev are on the same 'immoral' boat for me, only difference is that I understand how Baldev got on the boat in the first place.

P.S. Both Veera and Baldev are proving to be terrible spouses to each other.🥱 But Baldev became horrible to her only after getting married, where as Veera has been treating him like cr*p before they even started dating.😆


You've made some valid points Riya.
I for one am sick to death of the CV's constant glorifiying of RanVeera.
They're portraying Baldev in a bad light for the benefit of them -.-
And your 100% right. Being thought of as a murderer is 100000x worse then people thinking you're a liar and corrupt.
The only reason I still watch the show is because of Vishal and VeeBa but alas, the CV's are adamant to completely destroy whatever part of their relationship they have left.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...-Riya-...




But at least you know how to be brief😆..I never know how to limit my words.😭😆



Hahah...hardly...I've rambled a fair bit too. But brevity becomes a habit when your life is all about bullet points as mine is at work!

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