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Posted: 11 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: rogerrocks



And my dad will keep taunting me for the rest of my life that i made the wrong choice 🤢😆


I know you will give it right back😆

Jokes apart, think of the pain they'll undergo when they see you suffering.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: -...mohini...-



slapping him?! 😆
u wldnt believe we used to clap and drool on him wen be used to give those misogynist bhashans 🤣🤣
becos the way he used to say those lines... so convincingly 😆
har din hamare ander ki feminist mar jaati thi 🤣



Actually I felt to thrash him badly on occasion.😆 My love ain't blind.😆

I knew that he won't actually treat Veera like that so the most I felt was annoyed but never angry. Ya he said everything very convincingly, if it was some other actor...then I would probably start watching the show like I watch other love-hate stories..only enjoy them at a shallow level by compartmentalising everything.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: rogerrocks



See you are giving an ideal solution which is not always possible in reality ..Yes you should fight for your love & try your best to convince the family but what if all that fails? My dad loves me but if i choose a guy who is wrong in his eyes, he'l staunchly oppose it even if it makes me depressed as eff just so am happy in the long run..There have been several instances where the family has given in in no time & the girl has gone on to suffer cos she was wrong in judging the guy..So i can totally see a situation where the family opposes the alliance because they feel the daughter is being impulsive/ blind..Its not as simple as you are making it sound 😆

no this is true story of my senior.whai i have told above is nt ideal situation bt true & happened in real life.bt nt every1 has guts enough to follow it.my senior didi is nw nurse in bangalore hospital.her family was opposed to her marriage to a lower caste boy.u know she fought for her love too hard.that boy also loved her greatly.boy family also accepted her.bt she vowed that until her family did not approve her marriage she wld nt marry boy.she continued to behave with her family in all possible good way.she was living in our house as pg.she was studying then.whenever she returned from her house i saw wounds on her body.she was beaten by her family everytime.her family also stopped giving her money. her lover sponsered her study.she did no of part time job.almost everyday she used to msg & call her family.they either cut or responded two coldly.her nani once came made huge tamasha.she insulted & abused her for having affair.her nani told my family to threw her outta house bt my father refused.didi cried.when i asked why she is tolerating all this crap.why she nt marry her bf simply.she told me dat she is selfish.she dont want to lose her family.she dont want to prove her family dat she forgot them just cuz she loved her bf.her family loved her once too much.bt they r hating her becoz of her affair.bt once they will realize that she is nt wrong ,they will love her again.till then she will struggle.

this year in feb she married her bf.her family approved too.i have told her to write autobiography.i m too much happy for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: rogerrocks



But what will you do in a similar situation? 😆


Mujpar aisi situation ayegi hi nahi my mom gave me ultimatum jise shaddi karna hain karo baad main jo bhi haal ho mere pass wapas na ana but if i were veeras place i would choose ranvi but i wont let go of baldev .i wont marry anyone else cuz u get such guy in million years 😳
Ill try to convince mere veerji aur dekhna veera bhiyahi karegi.

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Posted: 11 years ago
#85
ranvi went against ratan..his biological mother..and he is a brother..no matter how much he tries a mother is a mother he can think only like a bro here..and veera shouldn't go against him but should try to reason instead of becoming mahan and forgetting baldev in the blink of an eye🤢..which im 100% sure she would
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: overactor

you said about moms forcing children to forget their love which does come under such stuff bcoz it can cause mental depression and they can end up in psychiatric wards loosing their senses..G & F im not going over board am just saying Ranvi won't do it he is not that kind he's a mahan soul and veerakhdi is his life her happiness means everything to him so he would give him a chance for sure

and about baldev proving his love..he forgot his biggest dream of his life for her and forgive her for his heart break..which is a great thing to do..u just dnt forget how brutally ur soul was crushed in a day


Really drastic situations.

Do you know how many people give up on their love everyday? I personally know of close to 10 people and they are all not in depression.

Yes, Veerakhdi's happiness is his happiness but it depends on what he thinks is her happiness and if Veera chooses to stay silent, he will obviously go ahead with his plans.
Even the most loving and indulgent parents can be strict in certain things.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: -Amri-

In real life, how many times have we seen even devoted children rebelling against their parents for their love?



I for one think that Veera will choose Baldev over her brother. Irrespective of the profundity of their bro-sis relationship, I don't see her obedient daughter act repeating in this regard.



Coming to your hypothetical scenario. First, let me rant at my maker for not giving me an awesome boyfriend like Baldev and a chance to experience things like this in reality.



Phew. Now that that's dispensed with...no. If I had an awesome brother like Ranvi, I'd never do that to him. I wouldn't do anything of the sort to my parents either. Not because I feel beholden to them or something. But I'd hate to see them disturbed or unhappy on my account. I would hate to see them miserable.


P.S It's one full week since I've stopped watching. Nothing dramatic...I just don't feel the hold on my imagination anymore.


Just scrolling through the JE' s. The forum is more lively than the recent epis. The people here are awesome and make me happy:-) the same cannot be said of the show:-(



I haven't watched the last few epis either 😆 BUt i have been intending to make this post for quite sometime now..I really wish they explore this angle cos it has so much potential..

P.S. Loved your answer..Especially the part about causing them unhappiness thanks to some action of ours..Bang on..
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Posted: 11 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: Metamorphmagus

Forget about Ranvi, Veera and Baldev. Haven't you asked one of the burning questions of our society which has been abused in many ways by the Cinema and Television industry.

I don't know what I would choose but I have a feeling Veera will choose Ranvi.



True..Given the way Veera thinks, i wont be surprised if she chooses Ranvi only to eventually take an impulsive decision at some point in the future & elope with Baldev 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: overactor

ranvi went against ratan..his biological mother..and he is a brother..no matter how much he tries a mother is a mother he can think only like a bro here..and veera shouldn't go against him but should try to reason instead of becoming mahan and forgetting baldev in the blink of an eye🤢..which im 100% sure she would


No she won't forget him. She might listen to her Veerji but never forget him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: GredandForge


Really drastic situations.

Do you know how many people give up on their love everyday? I personally know of close to 10 people and they are all not in depression.

Yes, Veerakhdi's happiness is his happiness but it depends on what he thinks is her happiness and if Veera chooses to stay silent, he will obviously go ahead with his plans.
Even the most loving and indulgent parents can be strict in certain things.

i know all don't but some do
and how can sme1 know about some1's happiness..he's not his biolgical mother for God's sake..an original mother is bound with hormones and blood with her child she shares a 9 month session so the child is a part f her hence she knows what is right and what is wrong for a person..Ranvi is just her brother..raising a child doesnot mean u understand everything about that child and men lack that ability for sure ..parents strictness is justified but getting over board and getting ur children married to ppl they don't love can help in 1 out 1000 cases

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