Caught between the devil and the deep sea - Page 16

Originally posted by: ASRaddictKKG

Ranvi 😳

ohhh im in love wid the nw romantic ranvii...😳😳

Originally posted by: Princy13

ohhh im in love wid the nw romantic ranvii...😳😳

Originally posted by: Autumn.

This post is about what Veers will do if Ranvi objects. She will side with Ranvi most of us agree on it.

What about Baldev?? More than Ranvi, I expect Bansuri to say a firm No! to Veeba marriage. How will Baldev convince Bansuri? It will be a lot tougher than convincing Ranvi.

All of us here don't expect much of an opposition from Ranvi.😆 We are just cooking khyali pulao coz that seems more fun than the show.😆

Most likely Veera will give a 2 min demo again and Ranvi will jhat se say yes. The entire burden of creating trouble for VeeBa will fall on poor Bansuri.😳 Ballu might not care what she thinks but she might insult the SS family and Veera and then Ratan and Ranvi will again refuse for the rishta. Even then Ratan would be doing most of the work.😆 I don't expect Bansuri to ever wholeheartedly accept Veera not even after their marriage (she just might at the end of the show coz it's a serial after all😆).

^^Bbp dnt give good tracks like u mentioned

Originally posted by: overactor

^^Bbp dnt give good tracks like u mentioned

Whatever they show might not be good..but they can show this drama for two days at least. R se kuch attitude nahi milega woh toh pakka hai. So there will be other problems na..who better than Bansuri to create them.😆

Oh wow this is like the first healthy and intresting topic to debate and discuss that I've seen in the last few months in this forum!

If I was Veera's shoes I would chose Ranvi over Baldev. The only way I can understand anyone chosing their lover over their family is if the following applied; their family are abusive, their family are trying to physically force them to marry someone else or their family are uber-protective and have them locked up in the house and never let them out on their own and don't let them have any independence.
And clearly non of the above apply to Veera so it would be grossly dis-respectful to Ranvi if she literally did a a proverbial two finger salute to all his lal pyarr and ran off with Baldev.

IMO as well I could never respect anyone who spurned their family in such a manner. I know lovers have a huge place in out lives but in all honestly who gave us our lives? Our familes did. Veera is the strong, educated and bubbly girl she is today because of Ranvi. He literally gives her the best of everything whilst never asking for anything in return.
Material goods aren't the be all and end all but seriously guys Veera has a laptop, IPAD, the lastest smartphone and hell she even wears a branded nightie to sleep! And its' Ranvi who busts his a** off daily to ensure that his princess of a sister has every material good she desires.
Baldev is a sweetheart who pampers and gifts Veera constantly but it can't be denied that everything he purchases for her is with the money his mother gives him to spend. The guy is still getting 'pocket money' only at his age from his parents.

In most rural Indian communites illegitiamate children are spurned or thrown out to fend for themselves; but say what you want about SS parivaar they did the opposite and literally for years they invested their entire livelhood into ensuring the wellbeing of Veera.

Finally all I also want to add is the way I also see it if Veera does indeed run off with Baldev to marry him he should be worried. Cos if Veera could insult and dis-repect Ranvi the brother who scarificed so much for her, and gave her so much love then what can she one day do to Baldev? Lord knows that she too might ditch Baldev to again follow her hearts desire.

I know a girl who eloped and her in-laws refused to accept her this reason only. They argued that if she couldn't even respect her own family how the hell could they keep any hope of her looking after her in-laws self-respect?

Originally posted by: suki11

Oh wow this is like the first healthy and intresting topic to debate and discuss that I've seen in the last few months in this forum!

If I was Veera's shoes I would chose Ranvi over Baldev. The only way I can understand anyone chosing their lover over their family is if the following applied; their family are abusive, their family are trying to physically force them to marry someone else or their family are uber-protective and have them locked up in the house and never let them out on their own and don't let them have any independence.
And clearly non of the above apply to Veera so it would be grossly dis-respectful to Ranvi if she literally did a a proverbial two finger salute to all his lal pyarr and ran off with Baldev.

IMO as well I could never respect anyone who spurned their family in such a manner. I know lovers have a huge place in out lives but in all honestly who gave us our lives? Our familes did. Veera is the strong, educated and bubbly girl she is today because of Ranvi. He literally gives her the best of everything whilst never asking for anything in return.
Material goods aren't the be all and end all but seriously guys Veera has a laptop, IPAD, the lastest smartphone and hell she even wears a branded nightie to sleep! And its' Ranvi who busts his a** off daily to ensure that his princess of a sister has every material good she desires.
Baldev is a sweetheart who pampers and gifts Veera constantly but it can't be denied that everything he purchases for her is with the money his mother gives him to spend. The guy is still getting 'pocket money' only at his age from his parents.

In most rural Indian communites illegitiamate children are spurned or thrown out to fend for themselves; but say what you want about SS parivaar they did the opposite and literally for years they invested their entire livelhood into ensuring the wellbeing of Veera.

Finally all I also want to add is the way I also see it if Veera does indeed run off with Baldev to marry him he should be worried. Cos if Veera could insult and dis-repect Ranvi the brother who scarificed so much for her, and gave her so much love then what can she one day do to Baldev? Lord knows that she too might ditch Baldev to again follow her hearts desire.

I know a girl who eloped and her in-laws refused to accept her this reason only. They argued that if she couldn't even respect her own family how the hell could they keep any hope of her looking after her in-laws self-respect?

Thats a great answer..You summed it up so well..And its true..If Veera ditches Ranvi for Baldev ( irrespective of how awesome a guy he is). she will come across as an ungrateful witch😆 Veera has done a lot for Ranvi post leap but like they say, nothing you do can ever compensate for all that a mother has done for her child..And Ranvi has been all that & more for Veera..I'd love to see this conflict play out on the show..

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Thats a great answer..You summed it up so well..And its true..If Veera ditches Ranvi for Baldev ( irrespective of how awesome a guy he is). she will come across as an ungrateful witch😆 Veera has done a lot for Ranvi post leap but like they say, nothing you do can ever compensate for all that a mother has done for her child..And Ranvi has been all that & more for Veera..I'd love to see this conflict play out on the show..

Originally posted by: ilovemyself98

i have 1 question.if you cant marry a guy whom ur family does nt allow ,then why dont you take permission from ur family to date,love ur bf on first time only.why to pass ur time when you know atlast ur family can decide ur fate,love is nt passtime.if u can forget ur love then better to not fall in love.even if u fall then tell ur family.if so respectful towards ur family then wat is meaning of roaming with ur love,hiding facts from family when u know u cant go against wishes of ur family.if that guy truely loves u and u leave him for ur family then isnt it called betrayal.if boy does same thing to girl then he is called coward.then why it is respectful for girl to leave her lover for family.is it real love which can be crushed?family can be against many things one like.

as in sadda haq sanyukta family against her dream,then what girls like her do?

they shld never dream.i know my marwari friend whom her family treat like princess.bt they dont allow her to persue her dream & ambition.becuz they think girls shld be given freedom within limits.

freedom is nt only related to dream & ambition.bt also a woman right to chose her partner like man.family can help her to find right choice nt impose their decision on her.in ancient ages atleast women were allowed to chose partner through swayamwar.

i know veera will giveup on baldev for ranvi bt i don find it ideal solution.this twist is better for show only.

Of course..I agree..If you have the guts to fall in love, you should also have the guts to own up & fight for it..I never said falling in love is a crime..Neither did i say one shouldn't have freedom of choice..All i said was, when all else fails & you have no other option but to choose between the two, i'd probably choose my family mainly because i wouldn't want them to suffer thanks to some act of mine..That said, i already mentioned the most ideal solution is to stay firm and not get married to anyone else cos in most cases, parents will relent at some point instead of taking the drastic step of eloping with your boyfriend 😆 I mentioned the Ranvi-Veera part only because i believe nothing you do can ever compensate for all that a mother has done for a child..Otherwise, i completely agree with all that you said..Of course, the ideal solution is to fight for your love..

eloping is the worst thing.i does nt solve problem.immature ppl do this.better to get independent,get a job,tell ur family abt ur choice.if they dont agree ,just continue to convince them.be mature & be firm.