Balwant: The Disappointing Father!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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So tonight's episode was a filler but not a bad one, tonight we learned more about Chanchali and it was just sad to hear her tell Ratan she has no family that she is the only one behind her success. Balwant should really be ashamed of himself, not only could he not do right to the children who grew up with him but he also did a grave injustice to his first born who lost her mother at an early age and had no support from him whatsoever. I know he used to send money to her but what good is that when he could not be in her life physically? Balwant followed Bansuri's demands and cut all ties to this girl, what was her fault? What did she do to do deserve such a thing? While it would be easy for Chanchali to be back for revenge honestly I do not believe that is her motive, Chanchali's sweetest revenge would be making Balwant see that despite him abandoning her, she turned out well and isn't bitter towards him as she should be.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Balwant is really disappointing father.Not only he ruin his children's life..he ruined his 1st wife's life too..he is no less than a killer! I seriously want to know wht was chanchu's fault on all this things. He broke all the ties with her..so that he can stay happy wid bansuri..but Wht's more shocking is that he never showed baldev the right path..he always called Ballu useless and stupid! Why? I can never understand that :(
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Balwant is no doubt a disappointing father, and I'd like to add a coward too. He's not different from Bansuri if you consider Chanchali. He's been selfish too, to have his second wife and family with him he never bothered to find his first daughter. How bad or heartless a father can be...
He calls Ballu useless and irresponsible, right? He's the most useless and irresponsible in the world when it comes to CC😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Balwant has been a failure of a father to all three kids of his...
he never bothered to guide his son and show him the right path in life...and now the father and son are warming up to each other a little bit...but i have a feeling that chanchali's truth will manage to wipe out whatever little respect Baldev had for his father...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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That's the thing here he is always putting down Baldev calling him useless, worthless but what about himself? He has a lot of nerve insulting and judging his son when he himself could not do right by his own child, I wonder how the pind would react if they heard their ex Sarpanch abandoned his first child never to bother seeing her again and now low and behold she is a doctor in the very same pind.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Balwant is a horrible father... for all his three children!
He abandoned his first wife and married Bansuri.
Never bothered to bring Chanchli to his own house even after his first wife passed away leaving the little girl all alone.
Broke all ties with her only becoz Bansuri wanted!
Seriously?! Thats wat a father is supposed to do?!
So selfish?!

He never acted tough and stood up for Gunjan too.
Because of which Bansuri took charge of her life in her own hands and ruined her future by encouraging her not to study.
Gunjan was a very bright student.
She cld have been a well educated girl today had Balwant supported her strongly!

Coming to Baldev... Balwant never guided him!
Always taunted him, called him naalayak, bekar, bigda huya, etc.
But not once did he try to guide him on the right path.
Instead he has always been busy worshipping Ranvi!
Had he been a strong father, he wld have guided Baldev in a proper way and today he wld have been doing something!

All in all... Balwant is such a big failure as a father!
And coward too.
Its good that Chanchli didnt grew up in that house or Bansuri wld have never let her study like Gunjan and Balwant wld have done nothing!
Watever she is today is only becoz of her own hard work!

Tbh I really like her and I seriously dont think that she is here for any sort of revenge.
She is just here to let them knw that even after they abandoned her, she has grown up to be a successful person.
That will be a good slap on their faces.
And I wont be surprised if Balwant again refuses to accept her becoz of Bansuri.
Itne saalon me nahi kiya toh ab kya karega.

I seriously want to see how Baldev reacts to this truth.
I dont care abt Gunjan becoz I wont be surprised if she gets jealous of her!
I wld be really happy if he himself realises wat a big blunder his father had committed by abandoning his elder sis and so brings her to the house!
Even Bansuri wont be able to do anything then.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -...mohini...-


Its good that Chanchli didnt grew up in that house or Bansuri wld have never let her study like Gunjan and Balwant wld have done nothing!
Watever she is today is only becoz of her own hard work!


Exactly! I am happy that Chanchali stayed away from Bansuri given her malevolent nature. I feel she has turned into a strong women because she had to face the harsh realities of life at a tender age. Even if Bansuri had accepted her step daughter, Chanchali would not have been as established as she is today given the fact Bansuri did not allow her own daughter to study further.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -...mohini...-

Balwant is a horrible father... for all his three children!
He abandoned his first wife and married Bansuri.
Never bothered to bring Chanchli to his own house even after his first wife passed away leaving the little girl all alone.
Broke all ties with her only becoz Bansuri wanted!
Seriously?! Thats wat a father is supposed to do?!
So selfish?!

He never acted tough and stood up for Gunjan too.
Because of which Bansuri took charge of her life in her own hands and ruined her future by encouraging her not to study.
Gunjan was a very bright student.
She cld have been a well educated girl today had Balwant supported her strongly!

Coming to Baldev... Balwant never guided him!
Always taunted him, called him naalayak, bekar, bigda huya, etc.
But not once did he try to guide him on the right path.
Instead he has always been busy worshipping Ranvi!
Had he been a strong father, he wld have guided Baldev in a proper way and today he wld have been doing something!

All in all... Balwant is such a big failure as a father!
And coward too.
Its good that Chanchli didnt grew up in that house or Bansuri wld have never let her study like Gunjan and Balwant wld have done nothing!
Watever she is today is only becoz of her own hard work!

Tbh I really like her and I seriously dont think that she is here for any sort of revenge.
She is just here to let them knw that even after they abandoned her, she has grown up to be a successful person.
That will be a good slap on their faces.
And I wont be surprised if Balwant again refuses to accept her becoz of Bansuri.
Itne saalon me nahi kiya toh ab kya karega.

I seriously want to see how Baldev reacts to this truth.
I dont care abt Gunjan becoz I wont be surprised if she gets jealous of her!
I wld be really happy if he himself realises wat a big blunder his father had committed by abandoning his elder sis and so brings her to the house!
Even Bansuri wont be able to do anything then.



Well said @M..👏

Baldev would definitely do that, and also question his father of he gets to know the truth.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ElireEli


Exactly! I am happy that Chanchali stayed away from Bansuri given her malevolent nature. I feel she has turned into a strong women because she had to face the harsh realities of life at a tender age. Even if Bansuri had accepted her step daughter, Chanchali would not have been as established as she is today given the fact Bansuri did not allow her own daughter to study further.


So true, Eliza. She'd not have been successful if she had been brought up in B's house.
WantSuri are complete failures as parents. Thank god she got saved from their wrong upbringing.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -...mohini...-

Balwant is a horrible father... for all his three children!
He abandoned his first wife and married Bansuri.
Never bothered to bring Chanchli to his own house even after his first wife passed away leaving the little girl all alone.
Broke all ties with her only becoz Bansuri wanted!
Seriously?! Thats wat a father is supposed to do?!
So selfish?!

He never acted tough and stood up for Gunjan too.
Because of which Bansuri took charge of her life in her own hands and ruined her future by encouraging her not to study.
Gunjan was a very bright student.
She cld have been a well educated girl today had Balwant supported her strongly!

Coming to Baldev... Balwant never guided him!
Always taunted him, called him naalayak, bekar, bigda huya, etc.
But not once did he try to guide him on the right path.
Instead he has always been busy worshipping Ranvi!
Had he been a strong father, he wld have guided Baldev in a proper way and today he wld have been doing something!

All in all... Balwant is such a big failure as a father!
And coward too.
Its good that Chanchli didnt grew up in that house or Bansuri wld have never let her study like Gunjan and Balwant wld have done nothing!
Watever she is today is only becoz of her own hard work!

Tbh I really like her and I seriously dont think that she is here for any sort of revenge.
She is just here to let them knw that even after they abandoned her, she has grown up to be a successful person.
That will be a good slap on their faces.
And I wont be surprised if Balwant again refuses to accept her becoz of Bansuri.
Itne saalon me nahi kiya toh ab kya karega.

I seriously want to see how Baldev reacts to this truth.
I dont care abt Gunjan becoz I wont be surprised if she gets jealous of her!
I wld be really happy if he himself realises wat a big blunder his father had committed by abandoning his elder sis and so brings her to the house!
Even Bansuri wont be able to do anything then.



Agreed had she grown up in that household her life would have been no better than Gunjan's perhaps even worse because we've seen how Gunjan was treated and that's Bansuri's own flesh and blood. I can only imagine what Chanchali would have gone through especially since Balwant does nothing to help his kids!

I like her too and I do not see her being a negative character, yes Gunjan will probably envy her but maybe it will give her a wake up call as well since Chanchali went through a much tougher life than she did and Chanchali turned out well, without any bitterness in her heart.

I really look forward to Balwant's reaction when he sees Chanchali after all these years, I want him to repent badly for what he put this girl through.

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