I am getting so tired of..

Seeing ppl saying Gunjan is wrong and dn ppl defending her!
Its lyk watchn a dueling match,or even a table tennis..

M getn so tired of dis,lyk serious guys!Nd my poor head is spinning!
And before I fall sick or someone gets truly hurt, lets jot down some pointers here..

WAT PPL R not liking about Gunjan:

1.Her screaming at Veera.

Look we are not saying Gunajn was not ignored till sm extent,but Veera wa not at fault here.Her reason for anger was RANVI.She herself sd RANVI choses Veera over her..So Y scream at Veera?😕

2.Gunjan making faces at Veera's success,and giving an UGLY SMIRK while Veera was floundering on stage,can u plz justify it dears?Nd PLZ BE SPECIFIC.
ANSs lyk GUNJAN IS RIGHT!NOT AGREE!RANJAN ROCKS !Seriously sounds childish and stubbron and immature.Giv us ur reasons dears..😊

3.We r once agn opposing Gunjan's illogical demand of wanting Ranvi all to herself.

Its alright for a wife to want her hubby's time and attention,but not all..
I am married too,and initially evn I smtyms got pissed at my hubby for not givn me ample tym,but I CONFRONTED HIM..He is sa culprit..DA HUBBY!Y shout at Veera?!!😲Agn bck to point 1.

Ok I'll giv u guys sm points dt Gunjan might hv bn a bit ignored,but did u guys forget da romance in da litchen and dining rooms,and evn outside?😲Its completely not true!Her accusations dt Ranvi never had tym for her!
Wat Ranvi did wrong was pull Veera betwn dm!I REPEAT GUYS!RANVI PULLED VEERA BETWN DM!DO U REMEBER?DT food sharing scene?
Nd anodr tym Ranvi irkd me was,wn aftr marriage Gunajn was waiting for Ranvi to bring food,and Ranvi saw Veera eating and joined her forgetting Gunajn..
Agn Ranvi's fault..Veera did not call him..!😕So y not scream at hubby?!😕Agn point 1,Y SCREAM AT VEERA?!😕

4.Gunjan wanting to compete wid Veera in everything..Y?Y?Y?!!😕

A sister is loved lyk a sister,a wife lyk a wife..Y compete wid ur sister-in-law?!Doesnt it point to JEALOUSY..Plz justify dis too..I need to understand..We all stupid ppl do..
Nd dnt u dare tell me she was not competing!!!😡I will call u a liar if u do so!!!😡

5.As far as I can remeber Veera knockd or cald her Veerji,eevrytym..Gunajn cmplaind of Veera not knocking and some of u did da same..Uh..Da only part I was irritatd wn Veera cald Ranvi aftr deir consummation..
But hey wait a minute,,How is she supposed to know his bro and bhabhi just consummated last night?😕Nd even dn Veera knocked nd cald out..Justify dis too plz.

6.We complain Gunjan's crctr looks psycho..Yes..Nd evn in dt explanation da producer gave,Gunjan is supposed to be a complex crctr wid a soft heart inside..Now here comes da big question..WHERE IS THA DAMN SOFT HEART OF HERS?!!😕
Can u point one situation where Gunajn is shown sympathetic towards sm1 odr dan Ranvi,or her own blood?
God!!Da grl did not spare her sick father too!She was running away,aftr selling her mother's jeweleries!Did she think how her father wud survive dt blow?!😡
Justify dt!Nd show me Gunjan's soft heart!!

Before any1 pulls Baldev into dis,Baldev showd a number of tyms he has a soft heart.
He helped Veera aftr realising he was harming da village ppl.DT IS CALD A SOFT HEART!
Making cake for ur hubby,and planning to hv a private party,DOES NOT prove she has a soft heart!It just proves she is SELFISH!!!😡
Justify and show me her soft heart plz!I so want to see it too!

Ok guys dtz all I can think for now..Nd I wnt say anythng about SS family!Dey hv all gone ka put for good!



Plz if u want to oppose,giv me reasons against EACH POINT
plz!Nd no one liners lyk CANT AGREE.Or RANJAN ROCKS.Or anythng widout reasons..Nd giv specific reasons for da specific point plz.Odrwise plz ignore dis.
I ask da MATURE Gunjan supporters to giv ans LOGICALLY and Pointwise.
Odrwise steer clear plz!😡M at da end of my patience!!!😡

p.s. Sorry for a long post!😳

p.p.s. I did not hv anythng personal against Gunajn,infact I awaited for da leap for Ranajn,but Gunjan's crctr is scrapn my nerves raw,so if sm1 cn justify MATURELY.Help me out.Or else just thank u for reading dis!
p.p.p.s.Any1 has more points to ask add on..I cant think much more!

Bang on post!!! Tehsina!👏 Thanks for jotting down the points because I myself am tired reading posts criticizing and supporting Gunjan. I completely agree with all your points. Let me see how many people can logically oppose these points and not just accuse the people blaming Gunjan as either " some teenager living in a dreamy world" or " some privileged married woman who spend 8-9 hrs on the forum" or "heartless people". 😳And thanks again.😳

That for this post Sina! Please answer these questions ya'll SMART people! All the 'stupid' ppl here wants to know your answers! And PLEASE give some resonable answers!🤬 And insted of blaming other, give some GOOD answers!

Great post, Tehsina! Thanks for listing all the points that we have been screaming for ages. Lets see what the supporters have to say and hopefully we will have a healthy discussion without bashing!

hey Tehsina, I've tried to answer your question lol I think there are some typos but I'm to lazy to proofread at this time lol

gunjan screaming at veera for me wasn't justified because veera was not at fault for the recent conflicts in Ranjan's marriage. she unknowingly is there in gunjan's space at times but this is down to ranvi who needs to strike a balance between the two women. yes I agree there has been romance here and there in the kitchen etc. but to me that seemed more Like sexual and physical attraction. not in any of those scenes have I seen ranvi communicating with her about significant things. I'm not just saying that it's ranvi's responsibility here because here gunjan thinks that spending time alone with ranvi and romancing is the answer to everything. they both lack communication. but here I will defend gunjan because to her marriage means flirting, romance, passion etc. and she is using all her power to achieve all this, so in her eyes she is doing everything in her power. on the other hand Ranvi only acknowledges her in the bedroom or when he wants his physical needs met. I'm guessing he believes he is fulfilling his role as a husband by doing this.lol

gunjan relishing the moment where veera was stammering on stage (out of curiosity, did veera do that deliberately so ranvi can come to her rescue and showcase his singing talent to everyone?) I didn't like it at all but I can see why she was doing it. the pleasure she was getting from that was fuelled by the irrational fear she has of people or things she loves eventually leaving her. she seems to think that everything veera does is a personal attack on her character and is trying to defeat her. obviously nothing as such is happening but her distorted thoughts are giving different meaning to whatever veera does.
but the sad thing is that no matter how many times she gets her own way, she will still be unhappy and be craving for more. by focusing on others achievements she is preventing herself from
growth and in achieving her potential in being successful with things she is good in eg the embroidery she does.

I know people will think that I'm strange for relating to this character, but I can honestly say that people like this do exist in real life and it doesn't mean that they are bad people. you will find good and bad. jealousy is an innate emotion everyone has but at times it can become destructive I agree. I don't condone gunjan's behaviour but I definitely can understand where this stems from.

this is my opinion only and is how I perceive and understand the character of gunjan.

gunjan ke chakkar mein my head hurts lol

Vry Well said,Tehsina totally agree with U Dear.All I want to Say truely is I Hate Gunjan,She is the Most Irritating Character in the show.Nd Only Gunjan's Blind,Deaf nd Dumb Fans will disagree with U nd Me,others are Matured nd Intelligent nd Their Senses work Properly so They will understand nd Support u nd ur Comments on Gunjan nd all that.👏👍🏼

very good post👏 I agree with all ur points.

In a normal serial when they show love/romance between a couple they show fall nd catch, eye lock, dori tying, getting jealous & manofying, angry with each other, feeding each other spending time home alone etc. I read in written update all these things happened to Ranjan & more is coming then whats this complain.😲

anyway nice post & great points u put all together👏

❤️ Sharmi

@Anraysha

Are you saying these posts are made for the blind, deaf and dumb gunjan fans to agree and support you?
agree and support you in what???
everyone has the right to have their own opinion and thoughts and then to express them in an amicable manner.
seriously this is getting too much I agree and accept that there are many people who don't like gunjan because of her behaviour then why can't people accept that there are people like me that may not find gunjan's behaviour acceptable but can still accept the person as a whole and what spurs her to behave like this.
I believe the TM had made the post to Gunjan fans to shed some light on gunjan's character and justify some of her actions, which is what I did, I have never claimed that others should agree and support my ideas and have only shared my views in an amicable way.

according to me gunjan's innate traits of being soft and naive are still there but along the way she has picked up and learned other traits from people who she interacts with. it has become her way of survival to suppress that selfless trait that she supported as a child and adapt it with being selfish and not seeing beyond herself. an Unexamined and neglected childhood where the past is suppressed never goes away and often becomes the persons present and future.
I know people say that veera didn't have her parents and is in a worst situation but I disagree because although veera didn't have parents she had a care giver who always attend to her physical and emotional needs throughout her childhood and even today, which has made her into a securely attached person. on the other hand gunjan had her parents physically their and had all her physical needs met but her emotional needs were neglected. as a result she started seeking security from the environment. ranvi is probably the only person who has offered her that love and security to which she doesn't know how to handle other than being dependant on him and being possessive about him.

again this is my understanding of her character and you don't have to agree with my opinions just like I don't have to agree with yours.
I am just putting my views in a polite and peaceful way.

Well,i honestly refrain from commenting on any such post coz I don't want to make anyone believe what I feel,so let alone judging others' words.

I never said Veera is to be blamed.I have said from DAY ONE it is Ranvi who can't balance his all relations.Even in childhood he neglected his mother just for his some fancy of having a baby sis.Also,i feel Ratan never had been a strong mother,otherwise Ranvi wouldn't have been allowed to sacrifice his studies and future just for mere fancy of having a lil sis.Ratan should have given him enough space but she was busy in her struggles of accepting Veera.

And,now coming to Gunjan,I have never said she did is right by blasting Veera in front of everyone,it was a personal matter.And if she had something to say,she could have said something in private to Veera also.BUT what she did was totally wrong.Yes,i also feel it has been insensitive on Veera's part as well to never realize this part.Well,when Ranvi didn't understand, then how come Veera,expecting this is a waste.

Even,i m tired of seeing explanations why people love Veera and hate Gunjan.There is no need to.Everyone can say what they feel.And most important it is just a show and this characters are shaped up on daily basis according to TRP factors..so i totally don't understand negativity regarding this.

Tehsina you go girl 👍🏼 .. Well said