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Will u be happy if ur hubby avoids u&gives attention to his sis 24/7?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Simply answer the question.
Dont compare with the characters of the show..

I just wanna know will u be able to tolerate the avoidance by ur hubby after marriage??
will u be okay if he roams around his sis all day n night??🥱😕
will u be okay if he makes his sister sleep in ur room??
will u be okay if he needs u only for romance n hug??😡
will u be okay if he considers u as his least priority?😭

Those who r voting for OTHER, please do mention the answer..
ps: No offence..
Feel free to pour ur comments..😊

SAMAJHDARON KO ISHAARA KAAFI HAI! 😆😉

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I'll confront him and let him know abt my insecurities and problems rather than behaving like a psycho and blaming my sis in law for it.
And I wont have any problem with my husband's sis planning a surprise birthday party for him.
I wld prefer solving the problems all alone with my hubby instead of involving other family members and creating a tamasha infront of my in laws! 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#3
Option 3!

and i wil keep it private and not let others know about it,specially my sis-in-law. If i m not able to confront my hubby then it is my problem,i lack in terms of communication with my hubby,not others. and also My hubby who needs to have the maturity to tackle this things as he is a married man. 😊

and also,i wil need enough space in his life and it shld be mine individual space,i won't want him to avoid his sis.
Edited by ...Jes... - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nope..Absolutely not..Reason why i feel Gunjan is completely justified 😊 Esp. cos she had a damaged childhood and was deprived of her mother's love all her life..Thats the only reason why she led Ranvi on and insulted his family in front of everyone, revealed the half sister truth to Veera, fell in the director's trap, tried to elope multiple times even after her marriage with Ranvi and finally blasted Veera and showed her her right place in the house..Every single act of hers can be justified..Of course..The poor thing has suffered so much in life but we never look at things from her perspective Ranvi is so clingy and always gives Veera all the attention..Gunjan is totally justified in blasting Veera and calling her a jealous & obsessed sister..If there is any character who deserves sympathy on this show, its Gunjan..Selfish and vile mother , pathetic & self absorbed brother, blind father, doormat hubby, clingy & annoying sister-in-law and finally a hypocritical mom-in-law..How much can a girl take? Poor poor Gunjan 😭 Thanks for making this post dear..I hope all those delusional teenage fans who are supporting Veera and finding faults in Gunjan read this post and realize how insensitive & pathetic they are being by hurling abuses at Gunjan 🤢
Edited by rogerrocks - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nope I'll throw tantrums and shout at everybody in high pitched voice... It would settle things...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If I feel my husband is not spending quality time with me, then I will confront him in private. Because this is a matter between the husband and wife. He needs to understand my expectations. I will never go and start accusing and blaming his sister. Understanding is very important in any relationship. He needs to understand me and my expectation and I too need to understand his responsibilities towards the other members of the family. This needs to be sorted between the couple and not made into a scene in front of the family.
P.S. : Before you assume me to be a teenager(though I don't know whats wrong with that even if I am) with no practical sense let me clarify I am a 30 year old married woman.
Edited by ElireEli - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I will talk to him, i will treat him as my husband and not as trophy! 🤔
My husband is gonna be the one i love, i will believe in his love as well... i will try to handle things with love...
And most importantly, if my husband wud have been someone like ranvi, (who is more like a mother to his younger sis) then for me, his sis wudn't have been a competition, i wud have treated her as my own younger sis. and i am sure my husband wud have loved me for this even more... ❤️


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Posted: 11 years ago
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The most important thing which need to have in a relationship is understanding.. If there is any such problem one should confront in private..
I agree with u all..keeping ur personal problems public will not change anything.. 😊
anaghakaran thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The most important thing which need to have in a relationship is understanding.. If there is any such problem one should confront in private..
I agree with u all..keeping ur personal problems public will not change anything.. 😊
at the same time keeping quite n tolerating everything will also not make any change..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hubby baad mein dekh legen par wife aisi ho toh 😆

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