Neither of Veeba can be blamed

All in this their isnt Baldev's fault or Veera's. As we have seen that being sarpanch has been Baldev's dream since his childhood,(I actually dont know how the story was before the leap i started watching the show after the leap) or is it?

Originally posted by: KreyaArshiLover

I know its kind of a long post but pleae please do read it. Please do read it.

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All in this their isnt Baldev's fault or Veera's. As we have seen that being sarpanch has been Baldev's dream since his childhood,(I actually dont know how the story was before the leap i started watching the show after the leap) or is it?

The feeling I got that this isnt directly Baldev's dream its more Bansuri's dream to see Baldev as the sarpanch so she can show of to her friends. Baldev's real passion is something else. Being sarpanch is more Bansuri's dream which he is following blindly and is thinking that this is his dream.

Hey Amy...I beg to disagree on this point that Baldev was not passionate about becoming the sarparnch. Yes Bansuri had always manipulated him since childhood and made him think that he is going to the next Sarparnch after his father. But Baldev too was passionate about it. Baldev has never been taught the difference between right and wrong. Since childhood Bansuri had misguided him and whenever he did something wrong she had defended him. Balwant had failed as a father miserably too because I feel just taunting your son is never going to make him follow the right path. You have to guide them and make them understand with love. So he grew up to be a grey shaded person who was not averse to the idea of treading the wrong path to attain his means and that is the reason he had even bullied the villagers to organize the MKC. So his using wrong means to fulfill his dreams does not come as a surprise to me. Still he was in his limits and though it was important for him,he never let his professional enmity affect his relationship with Veera. He was passionate about the post but took it up as a challenge when he realized that Veera had played with his feelings and then tried to publicly humiliate him in front of the villagers. It was at this juncture that he decided he would cross all limits and win the election to prove her and his father wrong and that is when he got Ranvi disqualified by manipulating Gunjan. If he had not been passionate about this post, he would not have reacted the way he did after he lost the elections. The pain and frustration was clearly evident in the way he broke the things in his room post the results and his breakdown in his mother's arm reflecting that he had lost for the first time in his life. You are affected in such a way only when you are extremely passionate about it. His current intentions to get back his dream post at any cost cannot be blamed taking into consideration how he feels. Coming to Veera, yes I agree that being constantly pursued by a guy whom you have considered your enemy since childhood is irritating and when he was adamant on marrying her she had to take help of this foolish plan .But I believe that though she had not realized how serious Baldev was and how serious the consequences of her plan can be, she has to realize what she did was not right. It would have been better if she had involved the elders. Though she has herself been through the pain of failed love, she is still to understand Baldev's pain. And her preconceived notions about him also needs to be changed. As soon as her Veerji was hurt she assumed it must be Baldev's doing. She has this conception at the back of her mind that Baldev is always at fault even if he is not involved in it. Both of them are so similar in nature in jumping to conclusions and that is reason of clash in their relationship.

Agree with you that neither Baldev nor Veera can be completely blamed for this mess.. The circumstances are to be blamed!

Though I kind of disagree with the fact that becoming the sarpanch wasn't Baldev's dream..
I think Baldev always wanted to become a sarpanch.. It was his only dream.. He chose the wrong path to achieve his dream because he didn't really have anyone to guide him. The way he broke down after he lost the elections was a clear indication that his only dream was shattered !

According to Ratan, this was his dream from childhood but she did not approve of the means he went about to make his dreams a reality. It is very likely possibility that Bansuri instilled this idea in his head though, because as a child I did not remember Baldev ever talking about becoming Sarpanch so she could have been behind giving him this idea.

I agree with you about Baldev, while I love the guy he still has a long way to go before taking up such a position. He is guided by the wrong people and being in charge of an entire pind is not a small responsibility, Ranvi said it right that maybe in a few years Baldev will be ready but right now the timing is wrong.

As for Veera, you are right Baldev's 180 turn took her by surprise and she didn't know what to make of it. For Veera all she knew was that this guy was not taking no for an answer so she came up with a plot that hurt him unintentionally, she can't really be faulted for not seeing his love because Baldev himself has yet to realize he is in love with her.

I feel Veera and Baldev do share blame in the events that are occurring but at the same time they can only be faulted to an extent because given their history with each other, this is more a habit than anything for them. Neither realize when they cross the line and given that they are so alike, it is hard for either to think logically when they begin clashing.

Originally posted by: DazzilerDizzy

I kind of think this part is true. Bansuri has always wanted baldev to be the surpanch and i think that's y baldev wants to be surpanch! Iam so confuse now!😕

Btw, wouldn't it be awesome if baldev goes to city and becomes a STAR and all girls will be after him and veera will be jealous! It's Just my prediction..which will never come true!😳

Originally posted by: ElireEli

Hey Amy...I beg to disagree on this point that Baldev was not passionate about becoming the sarparnch. Yes Bansuri had always manipulated him since childhood and made him think that he is going to the next Sarparnch after his father. But Baldev too was passionate about it. Baldev has never been taught the difference between right and wrong. Since childhood Bansuri had misguided him and whenever he did something wrong she had defended him. Balwant had failed as a father miserably too because I feel just taunting your son is never going to make him follow the right path. You have to guide them and make them understand with love. So he grew up to be a grey shaded person who was not averse to the idea of treading the wrong path to attain his means and that is the reason he had even bullied the villagers to organize the MKC. So his using wrong means to fulfill his dreams does not come as a surprise to me. Still he was in his limits and though it was important for him,he never let his professional enmity affect his relationship with Veera. He was passionate about the post but took it up as a challenge when he realized that Veera had played with his feelings and then tried to publicly humiliate him in front of the villagers. It was at this juncture that he decided he would cross all limits and win the election to prove her and his father wrong and that is when he got Ranvi disqualified by manipulating Gunjan. If he had not been passionate about this post, he would not have reacted the way he did after he lost the elections. The pain and frustration was clearly evident in the way he broke the things in his room post the results and his breakdown in his mother's arm reflecting that he had lost for the first time in his life. You are affected in such a way only when you are extremely passionate about it. His current intentions to get back his dream post at any cost cannot be blamed taking into consideration how he feels. Coming to Veera, yes I agree that being constantly pursued by a guy whom you have considered your enemy since childhood is irritating and when he was adamant on marrying her she had to take help of this foolish plan .But I believe that though she had not realized how serious Baldev was and how serious the consequences of her plan can be, she has to realize what she did was not right. It would have been better if she had involved the elders. Though she has herself been through the pain of failed love, she is still to understand Baldev's pain. And her preconceived notions about him also needs to be changed. As soon as her Veerji was hurt she assumed it must be Baldev's doing. She has this conception at the back of her mind that Baldev is always at fault even if he is not involved in it. Both of them are so similar in nature in jumping to conclusions and that is reason of clash in their relationship.

Originally posted by: KreyaArshiLover

I understood your view but I dont agree with it. I still dont feel that Baldevs real passion was to be a sarpanch. Someones real passion comes from the heart and no one needs to tell him that he/she will become this. The whole week I have felt that it was more Bansuris dream, how people have pointed out, this is what i feel. And Baldevs frustration and pain, was more bcs he couldnt win the challenge which he had put up infront of Veera, plus his male ego was hurt.

For Veera the situation would been akward if she had gone up to her elders and told them that Baldev wants to marry me!! How would they react and what effect had it put up infront of the whole famliy, and she even felt that Baldevs love was a joke, is was joking around with her in the begning, later she felt that his love was infatuation. So she thought everything would be alright with this. From their childhood Veera have seen almost everytime something bad has happened somehow and somewhere baldev has been involoved in it. So its not her fault in that, if you understand what I mean

I think both Veera and Baldev share equal responsibility in the state of their relationship right now. Bladev got it in his head that Veera loved him. Courtesy of his two furry friends!! :). Instead of thinking about it logically, he just went with it. But the truth was, the reason he went with it was because he himself wanted it to be true!! He had started to feel something for Veera. He had started to see her as more than a childhood "Frenemy"! So he jumped on what Bhagi said and just started acting on it.

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

According to Ratan, this was his dream from childhood but she did not approve of the means he went about to make his dreams a reality. It is very likely possibility that Bansuri instilled this idea in his head though, because as a child I did not remember Baldev ever talking about becoming Sarpanch so she could have been behind giving him this idea.

I agree with you about Baldev, while I love the guy he still has a long way to go before taking up such a position. He is guided by the wrong people and being in charge of an entire pind is not a small responsibility, Ranvi said it right that maybe in a few years Baldev will be ready but right now the timing is wrong.

As for Veera, you are right Baldev's 180 turn took her by surprise and she didn't know what to make of it. For Veera all she knew was that this guy was not taking no for an answer so she came up with a plot that hurt him unintentionally, she can't really be faulted for not seeing his love because Baldev himself has yet to realize he is in love with her.

I feel Veera and Baldev do share blame in the events that are occurring but at the same time they can only be faulted to an extent because given their history with each other, this is more a habit than anything for them. Neither realize when they cross the line and given that they are so alike, it is hard for either to think logically when they begin clashing.