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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ST0207

Agree with you that neither Baldev nor Veera can be completely blamed for this mess.. The circumstances are to be blamed!

Though I kind of disagree with the fact that becoming the sarpanch wasn't Baldev's dream..
I think Baldev always wanted to become a sarpanch.. It was his only dream.. He chose the wrong path to achieve his dream because he didn't really have anyone to guide him. The way he broke down after he lost the elections was a clear indication that his only dream was shattered !

I felt more that he broke down more bcs he he didnt win the challenge and his ego is hurt
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ElireEli


Hmmm...but I still feel he was passionate about the post. 😃 See I feel that Bansuri may have put that dream in his mind, but he followed it passionately. Agreed for Bansuri this was showing off in front of the villagers but Baldev was pretty serious it. Remember the day of election filing, at that time there was no challenge between him and Veera, still his frustration on seeing Ranvi and the determination in his voice when Balwant has extended his support to Ranvi and had not even bless him was enough to show that he really wanted to become a Sarparnch. He has never dreamt of doing anything else, in case of Ranvi his disinterest was clearly evident from the beginning. But Baldev had always this notion that he is going to be the next Sarparnch. Because to him that was the only way he could prove this father that he is not worthless as he kept taunting him. He had turned this into a challenge when he came to know that Veera had been playing with his feelings. The pain on losing was the cumulative effect of this dreams being shattered as well as his hurt ego.

About Veera, may be that would not have been a good idea but what she did was in no way justifiable either. She could have sought Ranvi's help. Or else simply avoided him. But she also lead in a way by throwing challenges at him. There must have been another way out I guess. I don't think her Veerji would support her if she had told him of the trick she played on Baldev. Both are to be blamed to some extent. Just my opinion 😃


Exactly to others that he can do this, he didnt want do this for himself he wanted to do this so people accept him. But he needs to understand he cant provied his worth like this. People around him needs to accept him as he is not like this. I actually want that Veera hurts him so much that he gets really angry and does a big mistake and then Balwant to get angry at him. I want Baldev to get angry too and ask him what he has done for him more than pointing out his mistakes and taunting him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I think both Veera and Baldev share equal responsibility in the state of their relationship right now. Bladev got it in his head that Veera loved him. Courtesy of his two furry friends!! :). Instead of thinking about it logically, he just went with it. But the truth was, the reason he went with it was because he himself wanted it to be true!! He had started to feel something for Veera. He had started to see her as more than a childhood "Frenemy"! So he jumped on what Bhagi said and just started acting on it.


Baldev is a chauvinist. This was clear even when he started persuing Veera. He thought guys don't fall in love. Only girls do. Little did he know that he has already fallen in love with Veera. Hence all the emotions he was feeling when he saw her. The reason he could not stay away from her. The reason why her pain hurt him. It was because he was in love. But he is yet to understand this. He is yet to understand the serious nature of his feelings. Why it hurt him THAT much when he realised that Veera has been playing a game. All he has acknowledged was that he wanted to "win" her. But WHY he wanted it?? He is yet to acknowledge. But the depth of his hurt when he found out the truth has only one indication. The intensity of his feelings for Veera.


The reason that Baldev wanted to be sarpanch was because that is the highest post in the Pind and HE wanted to occupy it. Yes he was passionate about it. But not in the right way. He wanted to win, and he was ready to do some Hera Pheri for it. But the reason he went THIS seriously into the wrong path was because of his challenge to Veera. His heartbreak was fuelling his self destruction and will continue to do so!!


Coming to Veera...I think she herself is unaware of her true feelings towards Baldev. She has always regarded him as an enemy from childhood. Then they built a kind of understanding. He became more of a Frenemy and then actually a sort of friend and confidant. They started to have their own moments and their own special interactions minus a crowd. I don't think even SHE realises when he became important to her. But admit it or not, he is!!


Yes she was irritated by him and wanted him to stop persuing her. But there was a part of her that enjoyed their interactions. Enjoyed his attention and actually liked it!! She wont admit it, but she was starting to feel something for him too. After the date it was clear that she was effected by his closeness. So she HAD to get him out of her life. She came in with this lame plan of driving him away by being TOO lovey dovy with him. Little did she expect that things would get this out of control. I think deep down inside she was wondering if his feelings are not a game too? Also she has always regarded him as irresponsible. So she thinks he is not life partner material. She has this metal block in her about him. She has misunderstood him on many levels and pre judged him. This made it hard for her to see the sincerity of his feelings!!


But I think deep down inside there is a part of Veera that is as much in love with Baldev and he is with her!! I know this is a controversial comment. But I honestly believe she has not introspected about her feelings. Neither has Baldev. He was just one step ahead, coz he decided to pursue her. But Veera if she is honest will have to admit that she liked being pursued. Baldev made her feel special. He was romantic and dashing. Most girls would fall flat for him with the sort of attention he was giving her. But Veera is not "most" girls. (This is what I love about her). Her EGO stopped her from admitting her true feelings. Mark my words. She is in love with him too!! She just doesn't KNOW it yet!!




👏 I agree well written. And I want to say one more thing that Baldev came out from nowhere and told her that she loves him. She was taken aback. Bcs from nowhere a guy comes and tells you that he loves you how would you feel??

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