When will Veera realise that Baldev has changed

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Posted: 11 years ago

#91

Originally posted by: overactor
veera is such a hypocrite...she said she's ashamed of calling him a friend...really when did she...never she has always hated him and today's epi proved it...she has a bad image of him painted in her heart🤢...at times she says wo dil ka bura nhi yet accuses him herself for being heartless🤢

I don't understand why she even said she thought he was her friend. If they actually were friends, she wouldn't have lied to him, used him or even made a complete fool out of him. If she had any ounce of respect for him, she wouldn't have jumped to conclusions immediately like she always does and put all of the blame on him. Even during the solar panel episode, Veera accused Baldev for breaking the solar panels and insulted him in front of everyone when he was innocent. Baldev also had protected Ranvi from getting beat up by Surjeet's men, yet she still accused him of protecting Ranvi for selfish reasons.

Veera acts like she just doesn't want to have a reason to believe that he has changed and can actually do something good. Why did she tell Baldev that he isn't a nalayak and actually is a good person at heart? Was that a lie? Because it seems like it was. Veera isn't a very good friend at all and she needs to take a good look at herself and realize she can be very rude, judgemental and manipulative and isn't some mahan perfect person like she thinks she is.

Edited by ._Pari_. - 11 years ago

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herebedragons

@herebedragons

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Posted: 11 years ago

#92

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Definitely..The moment she starts respecting Baldev as a person, love will automatically follow..He doesn't need to become a Sarpanch for that..Small, unintentional gestures can actually go a long way in proving a point to the other party..My biggest fear is that she wants to see her Veerji's qualities in her boyfriend/ hubby..You know how they say we tend to search for a guy who has the qualities of our father?😆 And in Veera's POV, Ranvi = best guy ever..Epitome of perfection..But she can never see a Ranvi in Baldev..Ever😆 I hope she is not looking out for a guy like her Veerji..VeeBa are doomed then😆😆

If you think about it, what Veera probably looks up to in Ranvi the most is his staunch love for pind and family, basic good hearted-ness (?) and unwavering sense of responsibility. The Baldev that WE'VE seen has two out of those three qualities. Just the responsibility bit's missing.

Veera herself has said 'Woh dil ka itna bura nahi hai' more than once. I think she's even seen his love for family and pind. But like others have said, she's just determined to see what she wants to see. She's somewhere decided that Baldev and her can't possibly end up together, and so she sees everything through those glasses. Am I making sense?

The last thing she needs is a photocopy of Ranvi for her life-mate! She needs someone who knows when to indulge her and let her be, and when to put his foot down and pull her back. Someone she can't henpeck. She'd probably be bored to death with someone who didn't challenge her on a day-to-day basis.

(Same goes for Baldev I think...as much as he goes on about wanting the perfect gharelu voti, he'd probably be bored to death by an epitome of virtue for a wife!)

😃

I love how in Baldev, the basic good is tempered with a dash of kamina and stubborness and grit, much like how Veera's saved by 'mahanta' by her 'Miss know-it-all' attitude, stubbornness and (sometimes annoying) self-righteous indignation.

They're each imperfect enough in their own way, to be just perfect for each other!

I think Baldev KNOWS this (He's the 'sher', she's the 'sherni')( On an aside, that lomdi wala dialogue really made me cringe and feel bad for VeeBa...they'll always be sher and sherni to me!), even if it's not something he's articulated to himself yet. Bas Veera ki samajhne ki der hai.

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sunny303

@sunny303

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Posted: 11 years ago

#93

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

I think you need real maturity to compartmentalize your feelings..The fact that Baldev hates Ranvi but never let that affect his relationship with Veera speaks volumes about his maturity..Its not an easy job..When you hate someone, its easy to get carried away and hate all his near & dear ones who are supportive of him..Look at Ratan for instance..She considered Veera and her mom as a package deal and her hatred for Amrita always stopped her from accepting Veera..Not comparing the two scenarios but just gave an example😆 But Baldev never let his hate for Ranvi cloud his vision..Am waiting for the day Veera sees that there is a lot more to Baldev than she sees..Am not exactly waiting for her to fall in love..Trust & understanding are a lot more important than that at this point..

@Roger and @HBD: I completely agree with you guys...Ballu's never let his feelings for Ranvi spill over onto Veera, Ratan or Chai ji (like say Bansuri...lol).

Compartementalizing your feelings is tough to do when you're younger, but there comes a time when you need to check yourself...and that's what always pissed me off about Ratan!! She was this super woman...pindh di sherni type in everything she did...how she faught to keep her home and family intact after Sampooran was always so awesome...but then she'd turn around and treat this little girl so horribly just because of something her mother did??! it never made sense to me...I couldnt reconcile Sherni Ratan with mean Ratan...she was, in that case at least, very immature and very unfair!!

Ballu has shown time and time again that he doesn't do the same thing...if her hates someone he hates that person not their family...he would fight with Ranvi and then turn around and help Veera when she needed help, or stop her from leaving to London...etc...he is so awesome...I want to hug him...he loves his family, friends, his pindh...and Veera...and he takes care of his "apne"

For all her education Veera isn't quite as mature yet...she doesn't know everything even though she thinks she does...I do think she will eventually...and that realization is going to suck for her!!

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#94

Veera is an educated girl. But she seems to be unable to come out of her prejudice against Baldev. I am wondering if she dosen't want to accept that he has changed, and that there are things about him that are very good.I wonder if she wants to continue to hold onto her prejudices against him as a way of preserving herself from falling in love with him?

I am not saying she is doing it consciously. But subconsciously she wants a reason to erect a barrier against having feelings for him. She was starting to develop a soft corner for him, and she instantly killed that feeling. She was starting to be impressed by him, but she suppressed those feelings!!

Veera wants to continue to hold onto her prejudices and not see Baldev for who he really is! Yes he has flaws, but he is in essentials a good guy! Veera needs to identify this and accept this, in order for this love story to move forward. She needs to SEE Baldev, really see him! That is the only way!

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