My thoughts on VeeBa confrontation scene(monday epi)

I didn't express my opinion anywhere after Monday's episode, but I'll do so now. What Veera did was right..and the reasons are aplenty for that; one, when you love someone- okay, care for someone, surely you can't be sweet all the time, praising them in whatever they do. Sometimes a rap on the knuckles is needed, tough love we can call it. Those who think that she doesn't care and her outburst was merely out of frustration, do reflect on the dining table scene; she herself recalled Baldev defending Ratan's honor in front of those ladies and called him a good person.

And secondly, her point was completely justified because what she said was right. If you minus out his father's name from Baldev's name, he stands next to nothing. It's high time someone made him smell the coffee, because if this continues and a disgruntled Balwant disowns him one day, (I can easily imagine this after that spoiler), he'll regret not having anything to fall back on. Getting hurt during the practice is better than during actual game.. And a part of this is going to happen at the time of filing of nomination papers, when he stands as a lone warrior among all the fiends that have ganged up with his opponent.

So Baldev needs to stand on his own and make a name for himself, not for showing off to anybody but for betterment of his own life. When people recognize you by your name based on your work, -big or small-; the joy that gives is incomparable to anything.

And my third point is, every girl looks for some basic things in a guy when he approaches her this way. First and foremost, sense of security; physical and financial. Yes, Baldev is strong and can very well protect her but what about the financial security? Sure, this is 21^st century and a girl can take care of herself but a husband who doesn't earn and has to borrow money from his father every time is a huge put off, at least for me. All lovey dovey stuff is fine but in reality, only love is not enough for a life time commitment called marriage.

This was just my point of view thinking from a girl's perspective. I don't mean to say Baldev is a bad person or anything. He is a gem of a guy and everybody knows that. I want him to win all challenges; present and futuristic ones, on his own efforts. And he shouldn't win because someone arranged for him to win or because someone gave up their post, trying to be great.

At the end of the day, I am a big Baldeva fan girl so please don't think that this was a bashing post. I just felt I had to state my point on this issue. Sorry if I bored anyone..😳

Great post Vibha! 👏
I agree with you that baldev needs to become aware about his responsibilities in life and not take life as it comes.

Although I am annoyed at veera for setting these challenges for baldev, but then refusing to acknowledge baldev, which makes it seem like she was leading him on. It is because of these challenges that baldev has started to think more seriously about becoming independent and getting a job and having an identity.

Agree with you Vibha ! 👍🏼

Baldev is an awesome person but the truth is ki he is a complete vella I want him to become something.. stand on his own feet .. He has to work hard !

If I put myself in Veera's place I can totally understand her doubts .. Even I wouldn't want to marry a guy who does absolutely nothing.. 😒

Hamare hero ko kuch kar ke dikhana hoga !! Only then vo sabke dil jeet payega !! And I am sure it is going to happen soon ! 😎

ur absolutely true Vibha,precisely each 'n every word u wrote,i mean its high time for baldev 2 be little more responsible 'n serious in his life,he cant joke around all time in his life,'n i guess Veera 2 want him 2 b responsible ,i'm with Veera this time i wont mind if he gets defeated in the elections if learn a lesson frm that for life,'n ofcourse i want him 2 give 'super ignore treatment' 2 Veera after that 😈

nice post...completly agree with you

sorry i dnt agree with u..

I agree her confrontation was right but she shud not keep challenging him its making him hopeful and more determined doesnt she realise if by any chance baldev wins the sarpanch elections she wud again refuse and step back from her words she shud just refuse him and convince him and tell him she doesnt love him talk to why all of a sudden he has started this shadi drama and clear his mu atleast after the confrontation when she is sure that he was serious she shud have informed her family highly dissapointed with veera she has been brough up in a city she shud know what she shud be doing in this situation

Originally posted by: pinkrose90

Great post Vibha! 👏
I agree with you that baldev needs to become aware about his responsibilities in life and not take life as it comes.

Although I am annoyed at veera for setting these challenges for baldev, but then refusing to acknowledge baldev, which makes it seem like she was leading him on. It is because of these challenges that baldev has started to think more seriously about becoming independent and getting a job and having an identity.

agree with the second para of your reply Pinky...maybe her accusations at him will actually lead him to improve himself and that might compel him to respect her or even love her more, in the future, when he has proved himself😳

Originally posted by: princy48

amazing post vibha😃

agree wid all ur points..from start t d end..😉

well said dear..dat he has t win not show somebody..or prove his words..but for his own ..shayad aise ho bhi sakta hai...main tho chahti hu..aisa hi ho..😳😳

but does an impulsive person like baldev can think so far abt something else than a breaking at the moment n become outrageous😲😲😕(ofcourse there's gonna be choori ji's hand in this)..afta seeing everybody supporting ranvi??😕

Thank you Princy..
yes, everyone going against him will break him to pieces for sure but i feel that's needed so that he begins to take life more seriously...