What is the point??( Three people in a marriage is a crowd)

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya
Well, after Veeba's marriage, if Ranvi butts in every moment in Veeba's relationship, will Veera like that ? Will she accept & allow that ?? Will Baldev take that in good humor ??? Definitely not !! I hope Ranvi will interfere every second on Veeba's life...Veera will understand then.

I HOPE SO TOO

I would like to see Ranvi making Baldev do this and that and compelling him.I hope she likes it.

She wouldnt stand for it .

In simple ways she is BULLYING and taking ADVANTAGE of Gunjan ...forcing her to do what she wants by any means by even emotionally putting gunjans family respect at stake.

Shes the vamp and villain in this not Gunjan.

Gunjan is not doing anything to her family.

Whatever gunjan does to Ranvi is his problem ,thats her husbands thats their marriage.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Actually Veera is doing all these because she herself hates Gunjan & want her out of her Veerji's life. It does not matter to her how much Ranvi loves Gunjan, that he has already accepted this marriage & Gunjan whole-heartedly. Whether Gunjan stays as Ranvi's wife & whatever responsibility towards Ranvi she has to fulfill...it's all up for Ranvi to decide...Veera is not ready to accept this simple fact. She's no one to decide whether Gunjan is the right girl for Ranvi or not. Infact NO ONE has the right to decide that except Ranvi.

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TaaniRocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya
Actually Veera is doing all these because she herself hates Gunjan & want her out of her Veerji's life. It does not matter to her how much Ranvi loves Gunjan, that he has already accepted this marriage & Gunjan whole-heartedly. Whether Gunjan stays as Ranvi's wife & whatever responsibility towards Ranvi she has to fulfill...it's all up for Ranvi to decide...Veera is not ready to accept this simple fact. She's no one to decide whether Gunjan is the right girl for Ranvi or not. Infact NO ONE has the right to decide that except Ranvi.

BANG ON!!!

Her own selfish intentions and motives which she herself is masking as her Love for her brother,Now that is delusional.

Exactly in a marriage "Three is a crowd"

The only desire Ranvi has ever wanted for himself is Gunjan ..if she was such a great sister she would see that this is what he wanted.

The only person that is in a fix is Gunjan.

Ranvi is the decision maker here .Not Veera .Who the hell is she to take Gunjan back to her house.Even that is Ranvis right

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Posted: 11 years ago

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@Taanirocks, extremely well put points about that day's arguments between RanJan. Veera didn't saw the whole thing, she didn't saw Gunjan forbidding Ranvi to apply color on her first. It was just that Ranvi was at that time in a haze of Bhang & he was not thinking what he was doing...Gunjan didn't push her or accused her at the first chance, did she ? Veera saw nothing, didn't wait to see the guilt clearly etched on Gunjan's face after Ranvi left the room...she just went to bully Gunjan.. 😳 Is this the way you mend a situation ? Defo not !! AND Veera has no intention to mend anything...she just want to break Ranvi's wedding...caring a damn about his feelings.

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TaaniRocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

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@VasusenaRadheya

Thanks,I only say what I see.Gunjan cleary telling Ranvi with reason that she didnt want him to apply colour on her face .Yet he did it.Which obviously will have its repercussions .Anyone in her place would rebuke him, and Gunjan has a certain dislike for him .SO thats what happened.

I think the arguement between Ranvi and Gunjan was much needed to put perspectives in order and actually move ahaead.Ranvi clearing any doubts in her head and putting his hopes in front of her and being completely honest and Gunjan even if it is in harsh tone telling him what she thinks.It what would have helped them move along form this akward state.Gunjan might have actually started thinking about what she said and wouldve been even comfortable in hsi presence knowing full well he has no such intentions.But taht could not happen because veera came in to add petrol to a spark .That was not intended for fire.

Finally Im able to have a converstation with someone that isnt so infactuated ship that they dont see anything beyond them.

Edited by TaaniRocks - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

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On the other hand, look at Ratan. Gunjan has done wrong with her in the past. But she is ready to forget & forgive and has already accepted Gunjan as her daughte-in-law whole-heartedly. Because she knows and understands very well that her Ranvi's happiness lies on Gunjan only. She knows everything is not alright between RanJan, but she is ready to give this relationship support & time to bloom into something fruitful. Herein lies the difference between her & Veera. Veera can never let go of her OWN dislike for Gunjan for Ranvi's happiness..like Ratan has done ⭐️

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Posted: 11 years ago

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^^Completely getting what you're saying mate. I've faced the same problem here 😔

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Posted: 11 years ago

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actually i too dont like veera's tactics,if its doing anything its only making things worse!!!and the moment she asked for the jumki,i knew she would not take it but nervertheless it felt cruel!

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TaaniRocks

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: VasusenaRadheya
On the other hand, look at Ratan. Gunjan has done wrong with her in the past. But she is ready to forget & forgive and has already accepted Gunjan as her daughte-in-law whole-heartedly. Because she knows and understands very well that her Ranvi's happiness lies on Gunjan only. She knows everything is not alright between RanJan, but she is ready to give this relationship support & time to bloom into something fruitful. Herein lies the difference between her & Veera. Veera can never let go of her OWN dislike for Gunjan for Ranvi's happiness..like Ratan has done ⭐️

I loved the way Ratan and Chaiyji were teasing Ranvi about his concern and care for his wife.They were normal and happy.Whilst Veera is the only one causing any problem.If in the upcoming days Gunjan explodes in front of the family I wouldnt blame her.Veera is building this earthquake for explosion.Which she knows shes not going to get blamed for.Gunjan will and Ranvi will get hurt. all due to Veera it seems like shes living in her own made up world .Where she is doing something heroic for her family.She makes no sense

If she wants Gunajn to leave.She should have let her go with Jagjeet

If she wants her to stay .Let her live in peace.

If shes doing something for her brother.Bring them together

But all she is doing is tearing a marriage and two families apart

Edited by TaaniRocks - 11 years ago