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Posted: 10 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: SoreThumb

Blinded by love is a no no for me..there seems to be this common perception (atleast in serials and to a certain extent in real life too) that unconditional love means doing anything and everything that is asked of you..even if it means compromising (occasionally in real life too) and doing something you would not do or condemn if it was someone you don't love asking you to do it or if it was being done by someone else..

Compromising a few things, rarely even self respect to certain extent does happen for one's love..but the important part is balance and where one draws the line
Blindly trust and faith is one thing but blind following and actions in name of love, without a thought for the consequences for self and others is wrong


well said and your dp
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Posted: 10 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: .chandni.

err right now she does not love him

it is more of an infatuation i think
also love does not follow logic
so at times yes love is blind
people in love can do anything for the other
we can discuss what we should do and not do
but we forget our own principles when it comes to love
love come from the heart and is based on emotions
emotions does not have any connection to logic


So you believe love should be blind? I agree love does make one do strange things. But I think in order to love someone we must respect and love ourselves first. But yes I guess at times love can be blind.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sam_DDzfan

And coming to the question about for what exactly Gayatri's Mom should be scolding Gayatri.

Yes i do agree if we look from today's perspective then her Mom should be telling her to not cross limits in love but since Gayatri's Mom has been shown traditional lady with regressive thinking unlike Gayatri, so that dialogue from her Mom is quite natural.
No doubt a girl in drunk state is a big big issue but her daughter in love with Raja is also a very major issue.
Though i hope her Mom says her something abt drinking alcohol too. Expecting this much from CVs


Yes I haven't seen today's episode I hope she educates her daughter about Alcohol. If not her than her father should.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello! first of all so nice to see you here! 😊
Thank you for the complement.

I completely agree with Shweta di's signature, you must love yourself first in order to love someone else. I agree I believe low self-esteem is what leads lots of girls to do or go as far as they do. or some how they believe that the man can some how change.

Completely agree at time even fans can become too blind in their love for the favorite actor. Even though they are themselves are girls they will support the idea of the girl being abused for some lame excuse that the man is need of help or something.

I completely second you if someone loves you the first and foremost thing they will do is respect you. My father taught me that. He will never ask you to put your principles aside.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: -WhiteGirl-

I dont think Gayatri would have consumed alcohol if she knew it was alcohol even if it was sent by Ranaji!
But i dont understand the reason for her falling in love or may it was love at first sight for Gayuu! Hope the makers had shown us some more scenes of RaGa before Gayatri fell in love n that way we could have got connected to her better!!


True there is the fact she was unaware that it was alcohol. We should take that into consideration as well.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ReelyROSExx


she s not in Love , Infatuation is often mistaken as love

and coming to the question ... tolerating anything and everything in the name of love is a BIG NO ... . its ok to compromise to a certain extent ... Infact its much needed to keep a relation strong. Bbut being spineless and taking any shit from partners is not what love is


Agreed taking what ever form abuse even mild is completely a wrong perception of love.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ananya2010

Gayatri is confused with her feelings, its only attraction she has for Ranaji but misunderstood it as love.


I agreed she must be confused.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Bhavi


well said and your dp


Harvey Specter is ❤️
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Posted: 10 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Anraysha

No,It is not RIGHT to be Blinded in LOVE!I LOVE the show very much Undoubtedly,but I dont LIKE at all Gayatri's Character,because Being a HEROINE her Caharacter has no Dignity,has no such Self-respect,It needs lots of Improvement!Even the Side Woman character SWARNALEKHA'S character has the Beauty,Grace and Dignity than her's.Being a Woman of 1940's Gayatri character is Unnatural,and too fast and Modern,I couldn's Find anything Glorious in her Character,Truely Speaking,I couldn't find any Differences between Sharmila and Gayatri,both are same,Stalking around Ranaji,no such Dignity!If Ranaji Hates Sharmila then how could He ever Like Gayatri,no matter what whether shez the Heroine or not!Gayatri's Character is the BIGGEST flaw in this Show and for this week's Low TRP. P.S-No Offence to any Star and Fanz here!


I think they need to learn how to maintain a balance between her being smitten by her prince charming and yet not becoming blind in love. Right now she appears blind at times agree. I like Swarnalekha's character as well.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ReelyROSExx


she s not in Love , Infatuation is often mistaken as love

and coming to the question ... tolerating anything and everything in the name of love is a BIG NO ... . its ok to compromise to a certain extent ... Infact its much needed to keep a relation strong. Bbut being spineless and taking any shit from partners is not what love is


Agree I hope they realize that they dont need to make her blind in love or infatuation. And learn to show a girl in love in a more mellow and mature way. Like how Kajol use to write in her diary about her prince charming in DDLJ

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