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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: utopia88

Yep, the misogyny is depicted very well. Women truly are their own worst enemy. Gayatri is trying her best to let it not affect her, always putting on a happy face. 😊


It's sad though that these attitudes still exist among some communities today as well.


Yes I hope this positive spirit of Gayatri remains. Though I would like to see her answer back to them once in a while but I honestly hope she doesnt let the pressures of being a Queen get to her in the future. Or get dejected by Ranaji's not accepting her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: abba12

i agree .. as they r showing 1940s culture , thats bound to happen ..

a girl will b held responsible for whatever bad happens and not the guy
and still in backward areas its the trend .. people throw cheap sentences if , the girl isnt married ..

what i like is gayatri attitude towards it ..though i felt bad when she gave sad expressions ...

lets see , what will b attitude of her bhabis , after her marriage to rana g


Im more interested in their attitude after she conquers the people of the land. Because if their attitude changes after she marries Ranaji than it will prove the olden age thinking right because she redeemed her manglik status through marriage. I want her to do it on her own prestige.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .chandni.

yes i agree with u

women were not considered much worthy then
well the situation for women still has not changed much
but at that time i think it was all the more prominent
girls had only 1 aim in life - to marry and have children
they did not have much freedom to lead life their own way
they had almost no say in their own life decisions too


Exactly that would be my point. There is one ultimate goal to get married and have children. Though situation hasn't changed much its was far more prevalent back then.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yeah I agree its an important message to depict and feel that it does help to paint a grand picture -Gayatri truly is a breath of fresh air in an otherwise regressive society! Loved the father-daughter connection in today's episode.
However, with the Indian Tv we have today, these bhabhis could very well be Gopi bahu or sandhyas padosis which is what makes it a tad annoying 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hello!😊
You put some valid points there.
I would also like to add that despite Gayatri's dad being more " progressive" as we might call it, he is still a product of his time.
He appreciates the fact that Gayatri is well read and knowledgeable but still feels that marrying her off would be the greatest gift that he could bestow upon his daughter.
Also, in that little scene with Gayatri, it is clear that he is extremely proud of his daughter's abilities but despite it all he says that if she were a man, he would have gladly handed her his entire business.
He loves his daughter, encourages her to read and write but ironically he is also the one who cannot imagine her handling a business, coz it's essentially a " man's work".
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You know Gayatri doesn't give up hope, they show that contrast with Rana, but with Gayatri her Bhabhi's see that she has not given up in life and is not depressed so they try everything to make her beneath them (make her give up on life) and she can carry on serving them as a servant, that's their only aim, to keep telling her that they have achieved something she hasn't found a match for herself and they still have a living husband etc. They have no work so they only amusement is in making her unhappy and they can feel good, many people are like that, when they make others unhappy it makes them happy (sadistic people) but its masking something their own uselessness, they lack of love they are getting from their own family because they are seeing that Gayatri's family love her and them they were just married off and are lucky if they hear from their family again also, once out of their parents site they are forgotten. 😛😆, its no wonder also because they are shrews even their parents can't want to hear from them and love them. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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you are so right completely agree with you. Once a girl is manglik she is labeled for life...
Look when ashwayia got engaged she had married a tree smh

Thank god Gayatri is a positive person. I want her brothers to scold their wives its time
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: grumpydwarf


Exactly that would be my point. There is one ultimate goal to get married and have children. Though situation hasn't changed much its was far more prevalent back then.

i think now the divorce rate is very high
people are marrying and getting divorced too
then there was no divorce actually
girls stayed with the husbands
even if they were unhappy
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It is really ironical... Gayatri is the daughter of one of the wealthiest man. Her father literally showered her with the money he had just because she asked for it. And yet, just because she is a girl, she is expected to have only one destiny; ie to get married. Just because she is considered an ill-omen and now isn't getting any other marriage proposals; its as if there is no hope for her in life. Her parent's love for her, her father's wealth or her intelligence are considered to be of no use to her just because she is a girl... and the only thing that would be of any worth ends up being a marriage. It is sad for girls when their worth is measured onlyby their marriage.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: Deewangi

Yeah I agree its an important message to depict and feel that it does help to paint a grand picture -Gayatri truly is a breath of fresh air in an otherwise regressive society! Loved the father-daughter connection in today's episode.

However, with the Indian Tv we have today, these bhabhis could very well be Gopi bahu or sandhyas padosis which is what makes it a tad annoying 😆


Gayatri truly is a symbol of liberal progressivism. And yes the situation hasn't changed much. And Indian TV is proof of it.

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