Hello!😊
You put some valid points there.
I would also like to add that despite Gayatri's dad being more " progressive" as we might call it, he is still a product of his time.
He appreciates the fact that Gayatri is well read and knowledgeable but still feels that marrying her off would be the greatest gift that he could bestow upon his daughter.
Also, in that little scene with Gayatri, it is clear that he is extremely proud of his daughter's abilities but despite it all he says that if she were a man, he would have gladly handed her his entire business.
He loves his daughter, encourages her to read and write but ironically he is also the one who cannot imagine her handling a business, coz it's essentially a " man's work".