Bond Beyond RagNa: Gauri-Kalpana; Raghav-Kamla..! :)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Mothers are to be shown as central characters in this show..!!
And their relations with children..!!

But guess what none of the mother is able to form stable relationship with their own biological child.!

Let's Start with

Neetu: Her relationship with Paakhi and Prem are profit base. She never won heart of paakhi by running after Prem, and on other side.. She is ignoring Prem, as SHE THINKS Paakhi will get Raghav as Damad..!!
Kamla: being a Sarvanjanik Mother... Mother India types..! Never gave 100% love to Kalpi, because of Pakhi... and nor did she give plenty of regards to Pakya.. for he wasn't expected to be the one fulfilling eye ka sapna..
Gauri: I would call her an unfortunate mother.. who couldn't even get bit of what she actually deserved thanks to SaTu..!

But among all this things..!! When I talk about bonding..!!

It's always an exchange offer we talk about..!!

Special relations that have been formed between..

Kalpi and Gauri..!!

Since the day Gauri has come into chawl.. and till date, both of them have grown into a very close relations...! Gauri does everything now for sake of Kalpi, rather than Kamla.. She was first one to know her relationship with her sir, and somewhere helped them bond up closer. With such mother-in-law by her side, Kalpi can never be alone. Kalpi met mother in law Gauri on auspicious day of Holi..

Kalpi is only person who can fit up with Gauri in house, sane enough to ask for prescription, because she cares for Gauri, and assurance on Gauri's face, atleast she is smart ...

Gauri can understand her unhappiness with sir, just by seeing her, face while rest all think, she is tired after her work.

She has already approved Kalpana for Raghav. When everyone has misunderstanding, Gauri still understood the person whom Kalpi talks about hence looks at Raghav while coming down.

Kalpi could only be the person to convince her to be in party with her inspite of her having headache... That's Kalpana.. and what relation she has with Gauri???

Kalpi has cared for her, She can manage to stay with Gauri whole night in hospital with Raghav's company of course.. Gauri, opens herself to ask much trusted Kalpi, if she too feels she is made?? And Kalpi says few beautiful word... Mein Aapki beti hoon..!! That was enough to show the bond...!! Show the relation..!!This is the knot which would add flavour also to jodee of RagNa..!! She is mother whom Kalpana has always Missed.. and She WILL BE HER MOTHER... not mother-in-law..!!

Kamla-Raghav:

Equally special bond is depicted in relation of Raghav and Kamla... and has been there... She helped in running away from villains, and somewhere he knows, Kamla is reason for his success.. had she not helped and switched off lights, he would have been stuck.. it was Vitthal and Kamla's support he survived his childhood, .. That respect was always there, even if it was not directly displayed.. but indirectly was when he had stored Kamla's number as Kamla MAA..!! She is mother..!! and was always Mother which Raghav also missed in their..!!!

No matter which attraction Raghav had for Kalpana back then.. (something I never saw before presentation winning)... It was Kamla for whom Raghav gave job to Kalpi.. that story of Kalpi winning his heart is much later.. It wouldn't have been possible without Kamla ma... As, convincing Kalpi to pick Raghav's call wouldn't be possible without Gauri...

On Holi.. they welcome him whole heartedly.. but But Raghav can get motherly feelings only under Kamla! She puts tika on Raghav.. and camera does focus on real mom in background.. as if.. Gauri has given her haqq to put tika and make Raghav son only to Kamla..!

In Yesterday's episode Raghav said it.. He talked about respect from his side..!! ..No matter what...!! Many may not agree for now, as to what happened last night.. but rewatch the video.. in end Kamla adds She is happy, as Kamla Vitthal Jadav, because her children have succeeded.. She hadn't added anything to Paakhi at moment, her daughter had topped.. she got good life partner and last but least.. RAGHAV GOT HIS HAPPINESS..!! Though she was not in exact words.. He happiness only indicated, she was happy Raghav got happiness, and not because Paakhi got her love..!! Kamla may not have been fab mom to Kalpana.. but she has been gem person in Raghav's life..!!

It is Kamla because of whom, not only that Raghav has Kalpi in his life, he will soon have his first love, aka his own mom with him..!!


Bond formed beyond RagNa.. as viewer I enjoy... is . Bond of Mothers, or Mother-In-Laws.. both of them got to see glimpse of both in Gauri and Kamla..!! Hence RagNa are indeed lucky couple..!!!! Ragna adds chemistry to the show.. but all this bonding and chemistry adds complete meaning to show.!!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post and well written sejal and i agree
regarding kalpi-gauri
even yest gauri convinved kamla to stay back coz its a special day for kalpi...and gauri understood how much kalpi needs kamla by her side...otherwise our jagatmata was ready to leave...
and agree with raghav-kamla bond
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i believe in one principle..world is round..if u have done it..u will get it back..in some or the other form..
its the same..kalpi loves kamala..she is not giving her importance..so what she can get that from gouri..and raghav...😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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lovely post sejal.
kalpi-gauri is one bond i'm really fond about,,its got something that can be extrapolated later on as saas-bahu...

and prior reading the part on Raghav-kamla, i was dubious but you convinced me...weps, its a deep bond they share these two...but its strength is yet to be tested.

agree with you that Ragna are blessed to have so many love from elders and their blessings.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said Sejal!Appreciate ur thought process n writing skills!!
Al d while since yesterday I've been wondering the following:

What will v get to c if RAKI happens?Romance?PD said once tat v'l lov her as much as v luv Kalpi.Will thy show as gud human being tat v'l fall for her n forget Kalpi?

If thy marry,neither of d 4 will not b happy. Infact Rags will b devastated when he'l get to know tat he has married Poo who is Sahil's-d murderer daughter!!And who apparently introduced Rag as his son to his family in the past. So evil ppl win again???

Rags will b impacted more than Kalpi as he has suffered more than her.His father was murdered,mother branded as hrtless mom n now thy separate him wid Kalpi??

Secondly if Samy n Kalp had to marry will he b able to work under Rag??He was treating her like BHABHI!!Friendship will go for a toss!

My wish is if RAKI had to happen i better prefer d wedding to b called of coz thrz nothing left after this partner exchange business.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Raghav will meet his first love- this words skipped my heart beat 😆
Aka gauri- relaxed 😆

Awsume post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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You have made a very beautiful post. Kalpi-Gouri and Raghav-Kamla bond is indeed very special. But regarding the lines from your post that I have copied below (I hope it is okay to do that), I think a bit differently.

She hadn't added anything to Paakhi at moment, her daughter had topped.. she got good life partner and last but least.. RAGHAV GOT HIS HAPPINESS..!! Though she was not in exact words.. He happiness only indicated, she was happy Raghav got happiness, and not because Paakhi got her love..!!
I might be wrong, but the only reason I can think of Kamla not mentioning Pakhi getting her love/happiness is because if she had, Kalpi would definitely have asked what she meant. And they (I mean CVs) could not have continued with misunderstanding they so cleverly/lousily created.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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One more point I want to add. I just loved the way Gouri put Kalpi's happiness above her own comfort. Yes, She attended the party despite having headache. But this is not the only instance. She refused to let Kamla take her back. It would have been more convenient for her to have Kamla with her. I am sure Kalpi would understand if she knew the reason why her aai had to leave. But I felt Gouri did not want Kalpi to have to understand. She wanted Kalpi to have assurance that her aai was with her, for her. That was really sweet gesture. It felt really good to see someone putting Kalpi's need above their own. Specially, because we are used to seeing Kalpi left behind while her aai went about ensuring others welfare. And the worst part is kalpi never knew the reason why she was being left behind.

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