Sejal, are you trying to kill two birds with one stone? 😛Originally posted by: shahsb_26
Well.. Holi was special... sequence not only for *Raghav* but for audience as well..!!
Before Holi.. he wasn't totally sure weather... Kalpi has yes or no... or does she have that slightest glimpse of feeling for him... which was confirmed she does when he observed her not playing because he wasn't there... she stared at him.. and he again.. in his desperation went ahead and asked her trying to make sure.. if there is something in him as human, which would make her reject...!! where she explained him... what's stopping her, and nothing related to him.. he was kind of relieved... and as u said he wasn't in rush any more to confess.. and all set to try bridging the gap.. through those rosy ideas of dinner dates and etc...
Then came understanding of GAP... and again... I could see him feel that insecured side of him.. as if that was a second when she had rejected him ... and she would reject him, if that gap isn't narrowed down to soon.. So again on full to mode.. tries to convince kalpi...
That one dialogue of his while he was drinking and thinking of Kalpi after hawaldar incident... He said.. Mein Kya karu.. "Mein itna pareshaan hoon aur Kalpi Ko mera pyaar samaj mein nai aa raha hai.. " Again... his ultimate aim become to show Kalpi how much he loves her... This he did by taking step ahead and putting suspension on Hawaldaar.. and soon directly asking Kalpi.. how do I prove you that I love you...??
And again... though we call it Sammy's plan.. whatever he is again doing is somewhere to get her realize her feelings and *confession* is ultimate aim of this plan.. remember how sammy said.. agar plan successful raha toh tera kaam bhi aaj hi ho jayega.. what was his kaam exactly?? Confession..
No matter how hard it is... for him to say.. weather you give our relation name or not.. or you accept or not.. I will love you forever.. but still I want to know you and your answer.. and it would be very difficult for him to go through everything... just believing that kalpi loves him too, and not getting same reply for her..!! And I understand.. some or the other day you need to get something... from someone...
Your response is giving me two ideas. You are praising his efforts and yet questioning his "selfless & unconditional" love. Well see since people in the world re different so they tend to see things differently. And it's gets really hard to explain from certain perspective if you are completely siding Kalpi and holding your 9 insults :p Like I have replied to you on my post about Raghav. Your mind aren't accepting that Raghav could love her with all his heart and would never ask to love him back if that Sammy hadnt come in and distracted him from his thoughts. You can see how restless he has became. There is no one in the world who would want to receive a "no" as rejection. But then we tend to let go and probably wait for the person. In this case, Raghav doesn't want to hurt her in any sense that is why we keep seeing Raghav trying hard to hold on to his emotions so he wouldn't get weak.
Raghav has been trying enough to give his sides of Justifications as real as possible. But did he grabbed her and said that "no I want an answer now?" He did force her before but then realized it isn't right. He is learning about his love and his feelings for Kalpi. The only reason he got so upset with Kalpi after the hawaldar incident is because she was trying to blame him for the things he was trying to make it right for her. We have miscommunications all the time. We call their interaction that or some other thing, but none of their intentions were to blame each other rather explained how they are were looking at the situuation. And yet both misunderstood each other again.
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