'The real Raghav Singhania' - Page 5

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Anum,

Somewhere... I am sure.. it was me who has the you could consider *Never Appreciating* Raghav kinds.. but trust me on one... I had lately.. (After that stupid courtroom session) started siding Raghav for his EFFORTS..!! But yes.. when it comes to seeing him suffer.. I do enjoy it.. why? as Shana di mentioned and as you also somewhere in ur post did highlight..
He wanted Kalpi to stay away from him, so as to save her from all bad things that could be associated with him..
and those degrading insults... !!!
Again.. I wouldn't blame only Raghav.. but Kalpi as well for pouring H2o on my expectations, by getting those flashbacks and falling in love instantly..

I will tell u exactly what I expected:
With all this insults that Raghav made, and everything he said... I wanted Raghav to feel bad about it...
Is that something too much that I am expecting..
. Somewhere this gap of rich and poor which is built in Kalpi's view, is result of Raghav's words.. But Raghav doesn't realize that.. neither do Kalpi.. When I say papad bello session for Raghav.. I mean to say.. after realizing how rude he was.. I want him to first appreciate his efforts rather then always going and cribing about the same to Sammy.. that she doesn't answer me.. she isn't good to me and blah blah..!!
Now kalpi pours water.. Kalpi thinks about how rude he was with her.. and thinks about that it was actually care for her.?? How did she conclude that???
Let me tell you that, something which CVs should have done...
Kalpi could now connect Raghav's words on night of Drunk and Drive... of 14th Feb, where he says, he pushes away all those for whom he starts caring for or getting close to..!!!
But did CVs show this???
No..!!

Till Date... Raghav isn't feeling bad for his actions.. I want him to have that one incident.. where he just thinks about his actions with kalpi in past..!! and Not on her face.. but at least in his mind says sorry to her... I am not even saying go on her face and apologize.. No No.. not needed.. But atleast do that to yourself ...
The day CVs ever shows this... Trust me.. You probably may not find anyone else respecting Raghav more then me...This would also make Raghav himself start appreciating his efforts.. I
wouldn't have to worry about how many more papads.. neither will I ever
count it...!

Tell me .. if I am expecting too much from Raghav now?

Uf! Khudaya Sejal! 😡
If I am venting out my frustration in general then that doesn't mean that I am specially pointing at your posts. You are the old Dushman of my rags I know. And I shall give you some other treatments, so you just wait and watch 😈 😛

No yaar! I am not pointing to you or to anyone in particular. All I have said that I have seen people in general in the forum doing "name calling" such as like "despo Raghav" etc... . These types of comments offends me to the core. And i can't digest them at all because Raghav didn't kill Kalpi or gave a slap on her face that should instigate people to use such names on Raghav. They are clearly making fun of his love as it seems. I can't tolerate it. I hope people understand the difference between criticism and name calling. That's all.

Nandy! I want you to come here again and explain to Sejal just like how you explained it to Shona the other day? 😛

Sejal... Tweet to Pawandeep ma'am that you want an apology from Rags, otherwise you won't accept their love at any cost 😛

But on serious note: I agree! Rags should apologize for his rude behavior. But you know what, I feel we should give CVs sometime. Let RagNa be together first na. I am sure CVs will plan to have a small apology track between RagNa if everything goes well. I also think that if rags doesn't ask for an apology then it would also not go well with his character too since now he is changing himself for good. But we will still have to leave that on to the CVs because silly girl, it's not Raghav who isn't ready to apologize rather its CVs who is holding his mouth 😆

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Uf! Khudaya Sejal! 😡
If I am venting out my frustration in general then that doesn't mean that I am specially pointing at your posts. You are the old Dushman of my rags I know. And I shall give you some other treatments, so you just wait and watch 😈 😛

No yaar! I am not pointing to you or to anyone in particular. All I have said that I have seen people in general in the forum doing "name calling" such as like "despo Raghav" etc... . These types of comments offends me to the core. And i can't digest them at all because Raghav didn't kill Kalpi or gave a slap on her face that should instigate people to use such names on Raghav. They are clearly making fun of his love as it seems. I can't tolerate it. I hope people understand the difference between criticism and name calling. That's all.

Nandy! I want to come here again and explain to Sejal just like how you explained it to Shona the other day? 😛

Originally posted by: Shona_Mayur

@bold - Anum re, I knew that you weren't only talking about me but I still wanted to let you know that I didn't mean to hurt your feelings in case I was one of them yaar.

Btw I am still waiting for you to unres your post😛

Uf! If you guys don't stop this then I will definitely going to feel hurt and offended 😡 😆

Shona, I still haven't get my laptop yet I am still typing from my phone. Ill try to unres as soon as possible 😛

Originally posted by: gina24

awesome post anum missed my comment or not hahahaha kidding well before reading all the other comments I'm gonna bore you with mine
see here I've been watching ema from starting coz of shilpa mam now irony is that her character is now most irritating for me now well that's another thing to talk about now neetu has always done emotional and physical attyachar on kamla and kalpi but still that few scenes of childhood and teenage raghav made me felt for him even more than kalpi coz atleast she had her father on her side but not raghav; the man who was equivalent to god for him even that person was snatched from him and poor guy think coz of something he did his mom too left him, for a man no matter how strong or rich that certainly leaves a big scars behind and that is what raghav has been carrying his whole life.
The moment raghav sat near baby kalpi and she smiled at him that scene was so adorable you just cant help it but say awww; that scene was true indication of how they would always be bonded by his unseen bridge no matter what .After the leap their first scene too was the similar indication and for me one of the my favourite ragna scenes. I wont talk about his rude behavior towards kalpi coz enough of that and all we have already fought for that in our court room.
now ragna are two broken souls for me raghav is more broken than kalpi for him every thing is extreme be it revenge or love now even after the confession there will be so many hurdles to cross society ,kapoors and majorly their families, Now what I'm more interested to see is there will be a time when kalpi will have to choose between her family and raghav (remember in kamla vitthal achar scene they both said kalpi will never do anything to disgrace us) who will she choose if not raghav what will be his reaction will he become stone hearted again or will try to win back her ?
😆 ok I think I've gone nuts like literally thinking about this too and i'll stop now

Thanks Gina for putting such sweet insights. Trust me I won't get bored if you talk on and on about Rags, specially in this thread which is really meant to appreciate his efforts that he made to change himself. I haven't really seen much of their childhood scenes but by just reading your comments I am sure it must have been cute and adorable 😃

But hey! You just made me think now. I am too afraid to guess who would Kalpi choose if she had to pick between Raghav and her family? I just hope that she never had to face such difficult situation in which she can't go either ways. 😕

Okay Anum u gave me the Biography of Raghav😆

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Sejal... Tweet to Pawandeep ma'am that you want an apology from Rags, otherwise you won't accept their love at any cost 😛

But on serious note: I agree! Rags should apologize for his rude behavior. But you know what, I feel we should give CVs sometime. Let RagNa be together first na. I am sure CVs will plan to have a small apology track between RagNa if everything goes well. I also think that if rags doesn't ask for an apology then it would also not go well with his character too since now he is changing himself for good. But we will still have to leave that on to the CVs because silly girl, it's not Raghav who isn't ready to apologize rather its CVs who is holding his mouth 😆

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I know that...!!!

I just know that my expectations aren't too high...!!
I soo well remember while I was watching PV-ENU... And after ViSa's marriage.. I was wondering.. if Vikrant would ever apologize Sarita to force her to marry him... after their love track starts... and treat was... it was just a nick of day.. when villian reminded him that even Vikrant was villian as he forced girl to marry him, taking advantange of her misery... and He literally apologized it... with forgiving lady.. and thanking him for marrying her... as she would have never realized.. what is life, if he hadn't been there..!!👏👏👏👏 That scene was a hitch to their developing feelings and love story.. so well depicted.. and did not look abrupt at all.. as both needed someone to love..!!

After watching that.. my expectations get high from any show.. that if one show can portray that.. why not other shows.. even if it's verbal apologizing.. I want that realization that what I did was wrong..and I need to make up for it whole heartedly instead of cribing.. why is Kalpi taking so much of time.. and in turn.. I want Kalpi to assure him.. why did she as well accepted his proposal or love, .. and that as any sane girl would never even think of from that angle.. after bearing sooo much... and to add up... she didn't even remind him about it... But she did it because of that drunk and drive night.. where he said.. he always tries to push away anyone whom he tends to go closer.. and that she connected the dot..!!! I sooo wished CVs would have shown that... flasback mein ek baar... woh drive ka dialogue aa jata toh... trust me.. it would have made soo much sense..!!

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Uf! If you guys don't stop this then I will definitely going to feel hurt and offended 😡 😆

Shona, I still haven't get my laptop yet I am still typing from my phone. Ill try to unres as soon as possible 😛

Originally posted by: drdee142

So true, everyone just sees the facade he puts on but if you look you can see that facade crack and a glimpse of the real Raghav peeks through especially when it concerns Kalpi.

Kalpi was the only one who could break through his defenses, the only one who could break his iron control, the one who affected him emotionally & that too so strongly.

If we see he has been the rudest and harshest to Kalpi because she affected him the most and you can find him at his harshest with her whenever she gets closer to him that if his facade, his so carefully erected wall cracks.

His rudeness, his arrogance, his harshness is his defense mechanism cause he's so scared of letting anyone in or get close to anyone for the fear of losing them.

But our Kalpi still managed to break through all his defenses and he laid out his heart, his feelings for her.

For someone like Raghav this must have been really difficult. But now that he has let his defense down and let her in, he desperately wants her to admit that she feels the same about him, especially since I think she must e the only one who he loves with so much depth & passion.

He doesn't know how to deal with this new found sweet pain and pleasure of love. His desperation shows when he's ready to follow Sammy advise despite not been fully convinced as he's ready to try anything to get his lady love.

Hey! May i Know your name? :) You have put it so well together about Raghav's restless love for Kalpi. Indeed, it's only Kalpi who has entered in his heart despite of having a hard wall around it. Like I havecmentioned in my post that I did see a perfect bond between them even when they were so young. To me their were and are like a body and soul. They complete each other in every sense. They have so much understanding, so much depth into their love that it is really to hard to see them this distance apart. No wonder why all RagNa fans are pretty desperate to see them together soon. 😃

Originally posted by: Shona_Mayur

Chal teekh hai. Ab kabhi iss topic pe baat nahiin karungi lol

Yaar, you're so prompt with your phone! I don't like commenting at all when I am on phone. It's such a hassle! Kudos to you👏

So kind of you to finally made your decision that you would stop irritating me with such comments 😛 😳

Oh with my phone? I am very used to it. Would you believe if I tell you that the essay you were reading was all written through my cellphone? 😛 I have pretty good skills you know!