Decoding Jeevika--Maligning the Ganga?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jeevika, the soul sister..! Errmm no doubt on the sisterly qualities, she is an icon. Bt now..? Yes u saw the question mark right' Is jeevika doing right leaving the house?


Jeevika was portrayed to be like the ganga, Serene yet powerful. Pure but deep..We saw that when she had to make the biggest decision of her life'The unborn child or the sister?*sorry am conveniently forgetting the SMS portion.. it was crap..* Turning her heart to stone, she answered the question.. Saved her sibling's life! She embraced the decision not caring about the questions she was going to be bombarded with, all that mattered to her was the sister who was one half of her soul. All she wanted was Manvi to remain happy & whole . Yes, Truly one in a million behna there. But my question remains.. The sister who was projected as the bhagwan, the mother..Is she doing the right thing leaving the house at the most important day of her sister's life?


Well Well well, A beeeggg NO from my side. A stark contrast to her usually mature, calm & composed character. Lemmeh ask, Do any mother leave her daughter's marriage & run away, to amend saving her own kid's life? No mothers in the mortal world would.. Especially to give criminal pleasure to a person who hasn't even dreamed abt her bearing the punishment.I was talking about Swamini bua here. It doesn't appear to me evn a tiny bit during the past few days that she cares about the khandaan ka khoon anymore.. She was behaving totally at ease with Jeevika & SB asking her to bring a towel to wipe off Virat's haldi proves the same. Then why does jeevika hav to run away to amend? Makes me wonder if she's running away from her own conscience. When nobody seemingly has a problem y is she hell bent on doing the prayashchitt again. She's no duffer that she cant see how all the family members & especially her sister is rejoicing in the festivities?

Am not bashing Jeevika here. I was simply analyzing wat cud be her justifications on running away. Ther's only one answer & ther's no logic, I tell you. Drama in the wedding. SP is boasting of the Nayi soch in the banners & are showing leads who are running away from their problems? Jeevika, a married woman, a loving sister, who has responsibilities on either sides running away from the house as punishment for saving her own sister's life? Wat's the nayi soch in this? IMO, A woman proving her mettle cud've been better off as the Nayi soch rather than the Crying & sacrifice melodrama!

Running away from the realms of reality, without giving a thought to the painful repercussions she may cause to the family, Jeevika who was once the savior, the ganga, is being degraded to a selfish character! Don't assassinate her character to this extent which makes people wonder if the pure Ganga, which she once was, is now maligned!

PS : No offence meant. I was just analyzing Jeevika's character!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Gowri that was a well thought out post written with much clarity into Jeevika's character 👏⭐️

In the Past :

Jeevika, many a times, is emotionally weaker when compared to Maanvi .. but the same Jeevika has profound inner strength ... and the reason behind her magnanimous inner strength during the abortion track is the extreme love for her sister.. she let go off a part of her, to save her other part.. truly ek hazaaron mein Mannu ki behana

during the same time.. even while she was crumbling inside ..by sacrificing her baby (which is not easy) she never let that pain or that anguish come on her face.. she came as strong and confident in her facial expressions after and before the abortion,..

Now -

does she consider saving Maanvi and sacrificing baby as such a grave MISTAKE .. .. hell man.. she should be proud of saving Maanvi.. doesn;t she feel good to see her Mannu happy .. she should be happy for saving Maanvi .. what prayashchit, if she thought she considers this as mistake and she will go through repentance .. does that not mean .. saving Maanvi is a mistake ... what will Maanvi think of her di when she says that she will regret and repent her decisions

and what for is all this .. where is Jeevika's maturity.. where is her concern for others happiness. her Mannu's happiness.. SB. today rightly said - that she is being foolish and adamant ... her leaving will only bring the gloom on the family .. can't she get this sense.. how much her family, her husband and her sister will broken

A Mother:

A mother, she gave a new life to her daughter.. and In real world.. NO mom runs away from her daughters wedding .. what is with the choice of timing .. her Mannu is coming to stay with her . and she is running,

Did she think her sister will happily get married in her absence .. Is this how much she understands her sister..during every incident of the wedding .. why should she have the gloomy face.. why not a streak of happiness.. why did she not try to hide her pain confidently like she did in the abortion track...what is the difference between now and then.. is forgoing baby any easier when compared to leaving the family in dire

today SB's every dialogue was point blank .. all her reasons to stop Jeevika were spot on .. where is that Jeevika, why is she not ready to face SB's hatred (myth) and stay in the same house..

Nayi Soch - taken for a ride

This is one of the lamest, dumb, illogical, absurd, insensitive track i am seeing as part of Rishta Wohi...Soch Nayi - hell this reminds me of Ekta serials way back in 2000 .. Running away is not the solution .. couldn't the CVs get this much into their brain.. I watch 5 shows in SP currently . but never seen a lead run away in the name of repentance .. they faced it ..made things right .. but here..alas

Character Assassination:

We have seen in EHM, at every point .. based on the track a character is assassinated ... be it viren, jeevika, virat or maanvi . every character has gone through this .. but the BIG difference is .. when the rest of the characters are taken for granted.. Virat Maanvi or Viren.. the focus was on the other track and other characters and they never made them look so illogical and insensitive

but here the track is on Jeevika.. the focus is on her.. but in such a ridiculous manner..which i cannot gulp down my throat

If I have come across harsh, or got carried away, sorry for that .. it is just the frustration of seeing a pure and serene ganges maligned with insensitivity by the makers

I love JeeMan .. that does not mean I love every idiotic act in the name of being a fan.. and I am a fan and not a FANATIC of anyone

before i end,, Kudos to a rocking post Gowri👏👏👏
Edited by munnihyderabad - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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was waiitn for dis post!
beautifully return!
u said it all...
des days m not getting conncected to jeevika charachter
no doubt she saved manvi from dieing n all
but now wat d hell is she doing?
i mean leaving her on a wedding day..
wedding is d most important n happy day of ny girl 's life
n here manvi happiness starts from jeevka
n seeing di not der wid ehr on dis precious date manvi wud loose everything..
she wud readily accept death but wont maarry widout her di
cvs have totally kiled jeevika' charachter!

p.s superb post!😳
Edited by viratmanvi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I'll stick to my old words... Her guilt is over taking her luv n responsibilities... For freeing herself from da guilt of aborting her child she is forgetting tat she is making her family n her sister Manvi more unhappy... Taking such a step on da wedding day means da vadhera's izzat goes for a complete toss... Her guilt made her forget abt she being da perfect bahu... Leaving Manvi's marriage knowing tat she wont get married widout her, again her guilt makes her forget abt da mother she is to Manvi... Bt honestly i feel da cvs are brutally killing da characters dey had once created so beautifully... I can jst say ki cvs ne apni ganga maili kar di swamini ke paap dhote dhote... N i'm hating dis character assassinations dey are carrying out from da past few days... Dis is not da jeevika i liked...
Edited by shona_virman - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very well written di...agree to each and every word you said..i dunno why cvs took this drastic step of making jeevs leave the house..there is absolutely no logic in it..and also jeevs should have stayed back when swamini herself told jeevs to stop acting stupid..i am really pissed off..in sab ke chakhar mein,virman shaadi flop ho gayi..i agree drama should be der but drama ONLY should not be der..more than dulha and dulhan,jeevs was being focussed more..kyu..argh..and running away from problems is not the solution..she instead should have come up with some other solution..
Edited by shrav_virman - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you for this much needed post! I just got done with the episode and I am in shock, to say the least.

I have always thought that Jeevika has been the more mature one of the two sisters. She is the one who understands what is right and what is wrong. Whatever Jeevika has done, I have always sympathised with her. But today, I don't see why should I continue to do so!

Like I have said once before, and like you said in your post as well, which mother would leave her daughter's wedding for some sort of repentance? Is this any sort of a repentance? Trashing your EHMMBH's wedding is repentance? I am sorry, but I don't see any sort of repentance in that. Swamini FORGOT about the promise, wasn't that enough to make Jeevika stay behind? Did she think Maanvi would get married without her? Didn't she realise that by running away, she just ruined the most special day of her sister's life?

Swamini forgot about the promise. She has been excessively happy for VirMaan, and is warming up towards Maanvi. She needed time to digest the abortion, and she got it. She is one happy lady now. Then why does Jeevika think that leaving the Vadheras was her repentance? To quote Swamini, she's not only punishing herself, but the rest of the Vadheras!

I seriously don't understand why has Jeevika's character been assassinated so brutally. Is it because the CVs just HAVE to show some sort of drama during weddings to increase the TRPs? Or did the CVs want to have a parallel where like Viren refused to get married without Maanvi, Virat too refuses to tie the knot without Jeevika?

I love the behenas, and I love Jeevika a LOT. But her character assassination has left me with a sour taste in mouth.

Hoping my comments aren't taken in a negative light. I am not a basher, I am just trying to make sense out of what the CVs have done to Jeevika and why. Hoping I haven't offended anyone out here.

Cheers,

Ritchelle
Edited by -ritchelle- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wanna write so much but I have my exams going on would not able to pen down everything.But you have said everything nicely.How she behaved had absolutely no point no logic.Nothing to be said worth to Prayachit as such. How some one can mean Prayashchit my ending up shocking affecting so many life of her beloved hubby & sister.😕

Shes supposed to doing all these to settle her sister in better life ! How ? Her sister would be shocked ,Guilty and in pain even more.For abortion she gone for her only now this Sazaa she would curse her self again ! And doing all these on marriage day was it necessary.

The SO called Twisted marriage is lame.LOL ! Clearly for drama.The whole attention seems getting in bring drama rather than rejoice of marriage.Would edit If I can.I could never get Jeevika after one point of time.No wonder her this Deed is also part of that Jeevika only for me :/
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all I wanna say right now is SM sir please come back..
shaadi or no shaadi, WHAT THE HELL was this . Utter bull shit.. SP needs to know that EHM audience is not same as Saas-bahu audience..
This is the lamest track I have seen, lamer than Virat-Maya back story as well... I was ROFLing throughout the episode :/
and thinking about Shona's post...her guilt has overtaken everything and she has forgotten about everyone..
In this very episode, she told Manvi that a bahu has to think of family.her decisions will affect the husband and whole family.. And 5 minutes later, she is doing totally opposite..
Edited by Virmanishal - 12 years ago
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@All : Hey girls, Thanks for replying! Sorry i cant reply now cos i got some urgent work.. ! But sure will respond to all ur replies shortly! Thanks once again!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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As every one says where is the nayi soch in this!! this is your run of the mill stuff! why do they always feel that there has to be drama - and it is clearly not bringing the right results. I am all for behana love and bonding but there has to be some logic in whatever they decide to show.

I am sure her guilt is playing a major apart which is understandable - as you can not have an abortion and not go through physcological impact - but i am sure we have clever people writing dramas now - they could have shown it in so many different ways then this utter nonsense.

I have to admit that from the intial stages i always thought M was more mature when situation demands - i know they have ruined her charachter time and again!

dont know what else to add here and not sure how they are going to reverse the situation. i mean obviously she will come back and viren will forgive her and start romancing her for chutki no 2!!! they dont ever show any fallout from any of the mishaps (reality to the core here!!!)

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