Ok let me clear it- many people, in the pretext of bashing J have been bashing KD- I'm not making this up but I have seen it! If you don't believe me then let's agree to disagree.
And I said if you criticize J I don't care but it's the way most people are doing that which gets on my nerves- I.e, some people Bring KD in the 'criticizing' and hence why they get on my nerves. I find J's decision of leaving quite out of proportion too but at least I'm saying it in a civil manner.