manvi's love for jeevika is beyond everything

"The worst thing is holding on to someone who doesn't want to be held on to"

After watching today's Ek Hazaron episode and the birthday sequence by SBB, the only quote that came to my mind was this.. Manvi is still holding on to Jeevika.. she is giving her so much love.. her life still completely only revolves around her only.. but sadly Jeevika seems to have moved on.. she seems to have found a new place in her new house.. she seems to have forgotten Manvi in a way.. The poem that Manvi wrote today truly touched my heart but at the same time.. I questioned whether Jeevika is actually worth her love.. IMO the title Ek Hazaron Mein Meri Behna Hai is more appropriate for Manvi, than it is more Jeevika; in my opinion, Jeevika is just an ordinary sister.. I have personally seen people in real life who have the same sisterly love as Jeevika for their siblings.. but I must say that Manvi's love for Jeevika is truly unique and exemplary!

Since the first day, we have been seeing Manvi's undying love for Jeevika.. this girl is willing to do anything for her sister.. even sacrifice her own life.. as she herself said.. but what saddens me is that we have not seen the same dedication from Jeevika. Yes, Jeevika takes care of Manvi and is a good sister, but is she really one in a thousand? I have seen her stand up for Manvi during the Karwa Chawth when Beeji was about to hit Manvi.. that scene was good but at the same time the scene that directly followed where Jeevika broke down because she stood up against Beeji told me that her love for all her family members is equal.. I am yet to see how she loves Manvi more than the rest of the world.. I will not claim that Jeevika has not proclaimed her love for Manvi.. she refused to get married without her, she keeps saying the lines such as I am empty without you, you are my athma.. so she clearly does love Manvi, but in my opinion, her love for Manvi is much less than Manvi's devoted love for her. One thing that irked me was the cake cutting scene from the Saas Bahu Betiyaan Segment.. Jeevika has chosen to move on with her life.. her priorities have changed.. she feeds Viren before Manvi.. although we see hesitation her final decision shows acceptance of letting go of Manvi. But we saw in today's episode that Manvi has not let go of Jeevika.. poor girl decorated the entire room for her di's birthday :(... Using a cake analogy, I felt that.. for Manvi, Jeevika is the entire cake, while for Jeevika, Manvi is just a part, a small piece of the large cake :(

Hope that this post is not going to hit the wring chords with anyone.. I just wanted to put out my opinion. If you have a similar view as me please do share and if you do not we can all have a civilized discussion and you can try to show me your perspective. It is just that today's episode truly touched me and I feel saddened at Manvi's state.. I felt like there is no one in this world who is truly just for her.. Jeevika has found Viren but Manvi because of Jeevika's letting go.. is all alone. Manvi is not letting go and in my opinion this will only cause her pain and hurt in the future. I also really hope that we get to see more of Jeevika's love for Manvi.. because it is easy to say things, but actions always speak louder than words :D Here's to a healthy discussion, please no bashing.. if you are highly offended by this post.. please refrain from commenting.. you can start your own post about how you think that Jeevika is actually the unique behna and not Manvi.. *peace* :)

tru that...i have said it numerous times before, and i will say it again... for manvi, jeevika's the world.. for jeevika, i can't say the same thing, sadly... for jeevika, manvi's an important part of the world, but not the whole world...

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

tru that...i have said it numerous times before, and i will say it again... for manvi, jeevika's the world.. for jeevika, i can't say the same thing, sadly... for jeevika, manvi's an important part of the world, but not the whole world...

manvi's love for jeevika is out of the world... but to me, most of the time it seems so one-sided...

Maybe thats how it is intended to be? It is true that Manvi's love is truly out of this world...her life revolves around Jeevika...she see nothing other than jeevika. From day 1 it was like that but Jeevika's love for Manvi is a normal sisterly love...atleast so far, dunno about future. It is true that Jeevika has moved on as a wife like any normal person would. Manvi is the one who is not able to let go...feel for Manvi.

I'm sure no-one will get offended by this post :)

I get what you're saying but remember that jeevika has gotten married, so she's always with her other family 24/7 and has other people to think about where as maanvi is still at home so she always has a lot of time to think about jeevika. I personally think that if maanvi was to get married, her relationship towards her sister would be similar to jeevika's after marriage.

i do respect your opinion but don't agree with it...😊
there r certain things that we just can' see ...we can just assume them...its cause of jeevika that manvi has ever been like this...she just faced the whole world on her own...mannu only had to deal with her sis...jeevika needed to take the world alongside her but mannu didn't do that...she was happy being with her sister...in my pov...jeevika's love or the intensity of it can't really be questioned...😃 she loves her sis n have always protected her from each n everything that came her way...n will continue doing that...but its just that jeevika knows that her priorities have now doubled...she not only has to look after mannu but also have to make a place for herself in her new house also...😳 she gave the cake to viren coz she knows that her sis can never be angry at her 4 such a thing but her inlaws can make an issue for this...plus bua keeps on haing mannu so she wants to keep mannu on safe-side...😊 just my thought...😊

it is kinda true... but that is what differentiates the 2 sisters i guess... Maanvi is all emotional and her world is Jeevika and she doesn't care about what others think or say... but Jeevika is more practical and knows the ways of the world and behaves according to the situation and cares about others as well...

Oh not again! I respect your opinion completely but cannot agree with it at all. :)
Let my log on from my laptop instead of my iPod and I'll get back to this.