Balancing Act of Jeevika with Viren-Manvi

This is regarding how Jeevika is going to play the balancing act with the two most important people in her life..

Viren

Manvi (Or .. I should have put Manvi before Viren! 😛)

With Manvi we know her unbreakable sister bond!

Viren is understanding of this relationship as a person he is amazing.. genuine.. and all the perfect adjectives in the world.. BUT..but… but… he is also a Dude!!!!!

So lets open up another set of adjectives😆 .. but the most important being 'feeling neglected' 'insecure'.

Yes, at a certain point Viren is going to feel like he is second in Jeevika's life.

He is going to feel insecure.. not for love.. as he knows Jeevika loves him a lot but insecure of being second in her life.

Viren has very specifically said that Jeevika is his 'life' regardless of how understanding a husband is there is going to be some kind of expectation.

But it is up to Jeevika to play this balancing act right… she needs to understand where to let go versus otherwise.

I have a feeling once Virat comes into the picture with Manvi ..Jeevika will learn to let go.. until then we have to see how Jeevika works it out to keep everyone happy. Specially Viren.

Comments?

Very true, Veena! Even i was thinking abt the same yesterday...when Virat asked Viren as to how the sisters wud be able to live away from each other. And apparently, his question left Viren in thoughts...with no answer as such.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

It does make me curious because Viren as the husband, even as a brother in law is SO perfect! He understands their love and totally respects it so it must take a lot to pi$$ the dude off 🤣

Jeevika has become Viren's life, Manvi is Jeevika's life and vice versa. Bahut tension hone waala hai bhai!

But dude even after Virat-Manvi becomes more obvious, I don't think either of the sisters will be ready to let go. They may try but may fail! Let's vaaait and the vaaatch!

Originally posted by: ayesha_80

Very true, Veena! Even i was thinking abt the same yesterday...when Virat asked Viren as to how the sisters wud be able to live away from each other. And apparently, his question left Viren in thoughts...with no answer as such.

I agree, its gonna be very difficult for Jeevika. I just hope that they keep her strength intact. And like u said...a LOT depends on how things develop b/w Virat-Maanvi. Also...as per me, Maanvi's illness is also a factor that might affect Jeevika's married life (in one way or the other).

So, its all a matter of "wait n watch" atm. Let's see what the CVs have in store.

And yeah...the title of ur post reminded me of the balancing act by Viren today. Loved how he balanced b/w his two mums. I really felt for his real mom...but the way he handled the entire situation...wonderful!! So, its not just Jeevika who has to balance...Viren also has a similar task in hand 😆 And ohh!! Viren really makes me wonder...do such guys exist in real life also?? 😉😆

Originally posted by: swordfishh

He'll realise the only way to stop J from fretting about M is by keeping M around J in his house... thts hw he'll plot to bring Manvi into the house...

Originally posted by: Summerlady

i think J will have to balance it just like she balances her other relationships like beeji and maanvi.

Im sure it will be difficult at first but eventually i think Viren will help her understand how balance it further (hoping here)

I agree that once virat and maanvi become "official" then there will someone else besides j to take care of her so j will be able to let go..

you can already see maanvi letting go a little bit by allowing virat to take her to dr and not letting J know. Slowly, things will help them balance out their relationship with others.

Originally posted by: -Veena-

Edited by ayesha_80 - 13 years ago