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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I understand why Poonam reacted as she did! She broke the marraige with Gautam coz of their demands for dowry and Gautam being a jerk basically. But because of that "vedio'd confession" of Akash's those bottom feeders were able to find something to pin on Pooman!

Poonam's Dad should have called off the wedding a long time before! They really are pushovers and I blame Prabunath and Vandana's attitrude for a lot of the issues! The most important being hiding from Poonam the truth about their home being under threat from the bank.
I think Poonam is just fed up. After all, she was about to get married and called off the wedding. THEN she gets accused as being charchterless by a man who was born without a charachter (Lallan). He was the most disgusting person there! Then she gets asked to marry Akash, which she does for her family. Then Akash's family acts like total JERKS to her! (I didnt expect them to be nice), but it is their own fault for fixing Akash's engagement without consulting him!
I just feel that everything was mishandled and now those people are blaming Poonam? She is just sick of it. WHY should she watch her family get blamed when it was not their fault? I agree that Akash is a nice guy! But in Poonam's eyes he is part of the problem at the moment! This was a girl who initially didnt even want to get married, and now she is suddenly married to a practical stranger and being treated like a leaper by his family. How would anyone react to that??



A sensible and balanced comment.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The weak parents Prabhunath and Vandana are to blame. They tried to encourage dowry by giving into the demands. With such parents, how can a self respecting girl be ever happy?

What is the hurry for Akash to get married to her? She should have been allowed to deal with the problems by herself.

Her condition is like from frying pan to the fire. Akash's family are blaming her non stop.

I think she should walk away from that house.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

The weak parents Prabhunath and Vandana are to blame. They tried to encourage dowry by giving into the demands. With such parents, how can a self respecting girl be ever happy?

What is the hurry for Akash to get married to her? She should have been allowed to deal with the problems by herself.

Her condition is like from frying pan to the fire. Akash's family are blaming her non stop.

I think she should walk away from that house.


If U ask me what is the hurry for Akash to get married to her...the answer is, he didn't force himself upon them. He just offered himself as a groom & genuinely expressed his desire to marry her. It was upto her parents & Poonam herself to accept him or reject him. Akash just wanted to get the girl he loved. 😳

She should've objected to the marriage na? Frying pan se iss fire main koodne ki kya zaroorat thi? Akash's family's reaction is the reaction of any normal family, when their son just bring a random girl without even informing them of the matter.😛

But question is..if she walks away from the house..what next? What about her future life? She didn't have to impulsively agree to Akash's offer na! Abhi if she decides to leave the house & divorce Akash...more than it hurting Akash, it will be like mocking her own parents' efforts to get her married.😆

Edited by priakachan - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The one and only mistake that Akash made was confessing his feelings to Poonam in front of everyone! He did not realize that she was already in deep trouble and by confessing his feeling at such a wrong moment, he was putting her in further jeopardy!
But other than that, he has acted like a perfect gentleman! In fact, a bit too perfect! I think he should have given it back to Poonam when she was accusing him.
If she is so self-respecting, then why the hell is she staying put in Akash's house? She should simply move out, since she doesn't believe in the marriage. Besides, she wasn't forced to marry Akash, she married him to save her parent's izzat!
I am sorry to say, but the only way to describe Poonam right now is that she is being a total, you know what😆 The B word!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppy2009

The one and only mistake that Akash made was confessing his feelings to Poonam in front of everyone! He did not realize that she was already in deep trouble and by confessing his feeling at such a wrong moment, he was putting her in further jeopardy!

But other than that, he has acted like a perfect gentleman! In fact, a bit too perfect! I think he should have given it back to Poonam when she was accusing him.
If she is so self-respecting, then why the hell is she staying put in Akash's house? She should simply move out, since she doesn't believe in the marriage. Besides, she wasn't forced to marry Akash, she married him to save her parent's izzat!
I am sorry to say, but the only way to describe Poonam right now is that she is being a total, you know what😆 The B word!



Na re na! B words pe na jaana!😆

If she is so self-respecting, then why the hell is she staying put in Akash's house?

Answer: Because she doesn't want her parents to worry about her!😛



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Posted: 12 years ago
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If Poonam is staying put so that her parents don't worry, so she is the B word, right?😆
She is basically using Akash to ensure that she and her parents have no problems facing the society and answering their questions! Only B's do that!😆
If indeed, she was staying put in the marriage for her parents sake, then she should also realize that it is only because of Akash that she is able to stay in the marriage...else, his parents and family was ready to throw her out at the very first moment.
I am sorry...but no sympathies for Poonam. She comes across as extremely arrogant, selfish, self-centred and very, very oppurtunistic.
I cannot imagine why Akash would ever want to spend his life with a woman like this!
Edited by poppy2009 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Totally agree with TM.
She is arrogant she should realise what all he has done to her family.Akash does not desrve poonam .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Poonam is not arrogant because what is there for her to be arrogant about? She is angry and anguished at the turn of events and she is taking it out on Akash which is somewhat unfair.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyothi-m

Totally agree with TM.

She is arrogant she should realise what all he has done to her family.Akash does not desrve poonam .



You probably mean to say Poonam does not deserve Akash!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Poonam is not arrogant because what is there for her to be arrogant about? She is angry and anguished at the turn of events and she is taking it out on Akash which is somewhat unfair.


Yaar..sach poocho tho arrogance ke liye kuch hone ya na hone ki zaroorat nahin hai. Arrogance is like an attitude. The sarcastic expression that crossed over her face..and the way at a point she looked at him from head to toe with a hatred filled expression, is not a side of anger alone, it's a part of an arrogant mind! Arrogance is not a very bad quality..to start with! Sabhi ke andar thodi si tho arrogance hoti hi hai, na??😆😛


Ek choti si example bataati hoon...when Akash confessed his love & she slapped him...at that moment she got shocked, upset & angry. Main ye feeling samajh sakti hoon..kyonki, it's an impulsive feeling & at that moment, gusse ki wajah se thappad maar li.😉

Now think...so many hours passed away...she is still seething with anger, hatred & the way she is behaving with Akash is one of arrogant defiance. One major reason for her such an attitude is because Akash is gentle & down-to-earth! Ye ladki intelligent hai..aur jaanti hai, that all he would do is standing there crying. Tho usko kuch rude comments sunaana..knowing what sort of person he is...is not just part of anger, but also a bit of arrogance.😛

If you argue with a person who has a strong personality..uski wajah tho basically anger hi hongi. But if you growl at a gentle person...andar zaroor arrogance honi chahiye! Because he is standing there like a lamb & she is continuing to throw spiteful words at the gentle Akash! Ladki main thodi si tho arrogance haina?😆

Jab apne opposite party gentle ho..tho basically ek down-to-earth person ho tho...unke anger zaroor thandi ho jaayengi. Magar if a person makes rude remarks at a person who is gentle to you..dil ke andar thodi si zyaada dose of arrogance honi chahiye!😆

Khamandi hone ke liye paise ki, status ki zaroorat nahin hai. Ektaji ke serials dekhiye..unn serials ke half the heroines bahut hi khamandi hoti hai...jo hero ko hamesha chaata maarti hai, ya phir argue karti rehti hai for even silly matters. Ye ek choti si attitude problem hai. Unn female characters ke background dekho tho zyaadatar ladkiyan middle class se ya phir poor families se hoti hai. Arrogance ko dil ki baat haina?😆

Edited by priakachan - 12 years ago

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