Poonam is so arrogant!

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poppy2009

@poppy2009

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

This girl is so full of herself!🤢 She herself saw, how poor Akash fought for her with his whole family...how he defended her and her family...how he refused to leave her and how he kept referring to her as his legally wedded wife!

And she accuses him of ruining her life?😕 Dadi was correct when she said that she would not accept Poonam as her Bahu because of the way she behaved with him!

Why is she telling Akash that people called her characterless because of him? Gautam's family called her characterless before Akash confessed his feelings for her! So how is this his fault?

It is one thing showing Poonam as being self-respecting etc. etc, but she is simply appearing to be arrogant, smug and completely insensitive.

Akash doesn't deserve this!

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neetusidhu

@neetusidhu

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Posted: 12 years ago

i completely agree she totally disregarded everything that he did for and blamed him for her being called characterless.how can she not realize that gautams chacha did that because she refused to marry gautam. The grooms family from the start were untrust worthy people and i cant believe that the rishta wasnt broken before.

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nitalove

@nitalove

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Posted: 12 years ago

well said 👏 i agree with you

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@hateme2

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Posted: 12 years ago

Akash doesn't deserve this !

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deepaligupta197

@deepaligupta197

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Completely agree with you that Aakash dsnt deserve this arrogance!😊

But frm Poonam's POV , she too feels betrayed , pain at the humiliation of her parents , hence the arrogance! But am sure she wud come arnd , how long can she ignore the love n understanding Aakash offers😛

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anusha.cochin

@anusha.cochin

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

Agree...Poonam s angry n Akash 4 no reason

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 12 years ago

I understand why Poonam reacted as she did! She broke the marraige with Gautam coz of their demands for dowry and Gautam being a jerk basically. But because of that "vedio'd confession" of Akash's those bottom feeders were able to find something to pin on Pooman!

Poonam's Dad should have called off the wedding a long time before! They really are pushovers and I blame Prabunath and Vandana's attitrude for a lot of the issues! The most important being hiding from Poonam the truth about their home being under threat from the bank.

I think Poonam is just fed up. After all, she was about to get married and called off the wedding. THEN she gets accused as being charchterless by a man who was born without a charachter (Lallan). He was the most disgusting person there! Then she gets asked to marry Akash, which she does for her family. Then Akash's family acts like total JERKS to her! (I didnt expect them to be nice), but it is their own fault for fixing Akash's engagement without consulting him!

I just feel that everything was mishandled and now those people are blaming Poonam? She is just sick of it. WHY should she watch her family get blamed when it was not their fault? I agree that Akash is a nice guy! But in Poonam's eyes he is part of the problem at the moment! This was a girl who initially didnt even want to get married, and now she is suddenly married to a practical stranger and being treated like a leaper by his family. How would anyone react to that??

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 12 years ago

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Ritu

@Ritu-

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with you. Akash did so much for Poonam and this is not the way he should be treated.

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Shru

@funkylicious

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

I am hating poonams arrogant behavior towards akash.. he seriously doesn't deserve it at all

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priakachan

@priakachan

Dazzler

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
I understand why Poonam reacted as she did! She broke the marraige with Gautam coz of their demands for dowry and Gautam being a jerk basically. But because of that "vedio'd confession" of Akash's those bottom feeders were able to find something to pin on Pooman!

Poonam's Dad should have called off the wedding a long time before! They really are pushovers and I blame Prabunath and Vandana's attitrude for a lot of the issues! The most important being hiding from Poonam the truth about their home being under threat from the bank.

I think Poonam is just fed up. After all, she was about to get married and called off the wedding. THEN she gets accused as being charchterless by a man who was born without a charachter (Lallan). He was the most disgusting person there! Then she gets asked to marry Akash, which she does for her family. Then Akash's family acts like total JERKS to her! (I didnt expect them to be nice), but it is their own fault for fixing Akash's engagement without consulting him!

I just feel that everything was mishandled and now those people are blaming Poonam? She is just sick of it. WHY should she watch her family get blamed when it was not their fault? I agree that Akash is a nice guy! But in Poonam's eyes he is part of the problem at the moment! This was a girl who initially didnt even want to get married, and now she is suddenly married to a practical stranger and being treated like a leaper by his family. How would anyone react to that??

Haanji...aapki kuch baaton se main agree karti hoon..jinko main bold kar rahi hoon! Lazy me!😛😆

Abhi meri points of view hai:

(1) I understand ke Poonam is upset, magar itni upset..when her parents already accepted Akash? I'm unable to understand. I mean, if I were in Poonam's place, if a guy is seen to help my parents & if he is such a gentle person & if my parents already approved of him, I wouldn't mind marrying him & approving of him as my life-partner...even if it's such a situation, because I wouldn't keep a single confession with wrong timing...above all the help he did for myself & my parents & won't just ignore his general personality! Aajkal itne down-to-earth aur gentle type ladke milte kahan hai shaadi karne ko!😛 Magar lagti hai...apni Poonamji thodi si zyaada stubborn hai, ekta kapoor serials ke heroines ki tarah. Jo villain ko rape karne dete hai, aur hero pe aake gussa utaarte hai!😆 Unko anger management ki special classes main training leni chahiye...agar koi dominating type ka person hota Akash tho uss rude comments pe ek do chaate tho gaal pe lagaa hi dete😛😆

(2) Poonam was the one to start taking steps in breaking the marriage with Gautam & Akash was not in the picture, when the whole arguement started. Like you said, she didn't approve of Gautam taking dowry from her, tho Gautam ko ek chaata maarni chahiye thi na!😛 Kyon nahin Gautam ko ek chaata maari?😕 Lagta hai..ladki ki logic main koi problem hai! Jo uski family ko insult karte hai...unko chod dete hai...aur jo usse pyaar karte hai aur uski parents ko respect karte hai aur unki help karte hai, usko sabke saamne chaata maarti hai!😆 Agar Akash ne confess nahin kiya hota...tho kya Poonam aur Gautam ki shaadi hoti? I don't think so, because her arguing with Gautam's family started the breaking point of the marriage. Agar Akash beech main aaya bhi nahin hota, tab bhi ye shaadi tho toot jaati! Jab Gautam's family were making those demands & upsetting her parents, she kept quiet & approved of everything. Pehle se hi unke irritating demands ko dekhke apni revolution shuroo karni chahiye thi na! She needs to get her logic straight as to whom to rise in revolt against!😆

(3) If Poonam & Gautam's shaadi had not happened & if Akash had gone away from there silently...after breaking of Poonam's shaadi, Poonam & her parents would be on the streets, because the house was already taken away by bank people. When Akash had returned, his family would've fixed his engagement with Tara & even if he were to return to help, at that point, he would not be in a situation to express her feelings for Poonam & he would've lost Poonam forever. His impulsiveness got himself the girl he loved + headache to him in her form! Agar main hoti Akash tho iske tevar dekhke, isko chodke Tara se shaadi kar deti! Aur Poonamji ke parents ko milke bolti...unko "uncle, aunty.. aapki beti Sherni type hai aur main ek gaay ki tarah hoon, woh mujhe khaa jaayegi iska darr hai, isliye aap hi isko sambhaal leejiye..aur main kisi tarah se Gautam's family ko manaa loonga...Gautam hyena aur ye sherni...dono matching zyaada hai!" Aise kehke apne jaan bachaati!😛😆

(4) Agli question...I understand that she is got fed up! Her fate took a sudden turn when Akash made the confession. Magar she is a bold girl who can stand on her own. Then why didn't she maintain her boldness and tell her parents that she doesn't want to marry the guy who ruined her wedding? Why didn't she object to getting married to Akash first itself? If she hates/dislikes Akash this much, she should've told it directly to her parents & to him & taken a strong point. But what she did is...silently got married to him and then after marrying him...instead of standing by her own wedded husband, she is growling back at him. Agar itni pasand nahin thi...itni hatred thi Poonam ki mann main...tho shaadi kyon ki? Even if she had taken a strong stand & told her parents...she doesn't want to get married, her parents would've approved. She could even have stated that she prefers to remain unmarried than marrying the guy who ruined her wedding. Why didn't she say so?😉 Point is...she is utilizing Akash to save herself and her family from insults & mental hazzles to her parents. Abhi shaadi karne ke baad she doesn't need him & wants to get rid of him! This policy is popularly known as the "Use & Throw policy"! Ladki thodi si tho dimaagwaali hai..bechara Akash!😆

(5) I won't say Akash's family are total jerks. Because they were preparing to get Akash married to Tara & their only fault is they didn't get the guy's permission. Unko uski sazaa bhi mil gayi..in the form of all this drama. Akash's family members consider Poonam & her parents shameless...because she got ready to marry a guy...whose family she doesn't know of & Poonam's parents sent her away with an unknown guy...and without even consulting with his parents through phone or any other means! Akash's parents have a very poor opinion about Poonam & her family...which I feel any respectable family people would have. So the reaction they gave is pretty natural & Akash's mom atleast a little supportive of Poonam..isn't she?😳

(6) Haan maanti hoon...that Akash's impulsiveness is part of the problem...but he tried to stand by Poonam & her family during all their crisis times. He is not a total stranger to them. He stood by them during their worst moments...Poonam ko unn puraani baaton ko bhoolke just ek confession pe..Akash se gussa karni nahin chahiye. Right now, he is between her who is like the devil & his own family..who is like the deep sea! She shouldn't be such a devil, should she?😆

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Poonam is so arrogant!

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