Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
@ Mary:
Sorry to disagree with you mate, but I dont think that girl going to Shravan's room was a "Very big event" to Suman at all. She was upset and she thought it was tacky. Even when she reflected on it after coming home. She was more disappointed than jealous. When they were dancing together she was more feeling some jealousy I think. But when he so blatantly sent that girl to his room, I think she was feeling a bit sickened by the whole thing. Like Shravan is stooping low to get to her.
Yes, she was upset by it, but I doubt she is going to make a major issue out of it now. She has a lot more to worry about as far as Shravan's attitude and his Father's pathetic acts to contend with. Some girl who was sent to Shravan's room when he was trying to show her up is low on the list. Yes he knows that Shravan loved her since school days, and he never had anyone else like that in his life since. She probably knows he has not been in love since. But that does not mean he is a Saint and that he would never have looked twice at an attractive female. He clearly did not give any other woman importance in his life (Probably coz he was still so hung up on Sumo). But to what extent, even Suman does not know. I remember him clearly saying about the girl he loved. "It was one-sided, and I have moved on". (He had not really, but even he fooled himself that he had).
Urvashi was just a girl again he used to make Suman jealous or show Suman he can get any other girl and girls give him importance, even though she (Suman) had not. This golden sari wala girl was again something on the same lines. It just went to a cheaper and in your face level. That is all. I don't think Suman thinks that Shravan has had many one night stands. Or that he had ANY for that matter. But that doesn't mean she is going to keep bringing up some girl who went to him room once as a major issue they can't overcome in their relationship. NO sensible woman would.
Now that they are getting married, she can take exception if he were to do something like that now. But what happened at that party is a not an issue that deserves that much importance or dwelling. Shravan took that girl to his room for whatever reason. How long she stayed there, no one knows. Yes Ramnath was upset seeing that, as any Father who knows why his son is acting like this would. He knows Shravan does not make a habit of entertaining girls in his room. But he saw him do that after Suman's engagement is announced and he knew WHY he did it too. So he was upset. Suman was equally upset about it. But neither Ramnath or Suman will give it that much importance that now it will be a sticking point.
Sorry, long post, but I had a lot to say! :)