Suman forgot about the girl she saw go to Shravan's room! - Page 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

How can she question shravan on being with a girl when she herself was with another guy... At that time she had no right to say shravan to not go with that girl???

She can bring this up only if shravan brings out her relation with aditya...
Shravan and that girl willingly when to the room.and both are adults( shravan is a ma child but still) and both were single..



Exactly my point. If both people are single and consenting adults, no one can question why they did anything? Suman cannot either, as she was engaged to another guy at the time. He even pulled her into her room during Preeti's wedding. What happened or not is not the issue, but she was also free to do whatever she wanted.

So equally, Shravan for whatever reasons can take that girl to his room. It's not something that Suman can question when she was neither his Girlfriend, fiancee or wife at the time. If he was some sort of player who used women daily, then maybe she can make a snide remark about his overall attitude. But since this is not the case, I don't see how this incident is something that she needs to harp on. She can say it, if Shravan says "Aditya used to be in and out of your room!". Then she can say something too!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

@ Mary:

Sorry to disagree with you mate, but I dont think that girl going to Shravan's room was a "Very big event" to Suman at all. She was upset and she thought it was tacky. Even when she reflected on it after coming home. She was more disappointed than jealous. When they were dancing together she was more feeling some jealousy I think. But when he so blatantly sent that girl to his room, I think she was feeling a bit sickened by the whole thing. Like Shravan is stooping low to get to her.


Yes, she was upset by it, but I doubt she is going to make a major issue out of it now. She has a lot more to worry about as far as Shravan's attitude and his Father's pathetic acts to contend with. Some girl who was sent to Shravan's room when he was trying to show her up is low on the list. Yes he knows that Shravan loved her since school days, and he never had anyone else like that in his life since. She probably knows he has not been in love since. But that does not mean he is a Saint and that he would never have looked twice at an attractive female. He clearly did not give any other woman importance in his life (Probably coz he was still so hung up on Sumo). But to what extent, even Suman does not know. I remember him clearly saying about the girl he loved. "It was one-sided, and I have moved on". (He had not really, but even he fooled himself that he had).


Urvashi was just a girl again he used to make Suman jealous or show Suman he can get any other girl and girls give him importance, even though she (Suman) had not. This golden sari wala girl was again something on the same lines. It just went to a cheaper and in your face level. That is all. I don't think Suman thinks that Shravan has had many one night stands. Or that he had ANY for that matter. But that doesn't mean she is going to keep bringing up some girl who went to him room once as a major issue they can't overcome in their relationship. NO sensible woman would.


Now that they are getting married, she can take exception if he were to do something like that now. But what happened at that party is a not an issue that deserves that much importance or dwelling. Shravan took that girl to his room for whatever reason. How long she stayed there, no one knows. Yes Ramnath was upset seeing that, as any Father who knows why his son is acting like this would. He knows Shravan does not make a habit of entertaining girls in his room. But he saw him do that after Suman's engagement is announced and he knew WHY he did it too. So he was upset. Suman was equally upset about it. But neither Ramnath or Suman will give it that much importance that now it will be a sticking point.


Sorry, long post, but I had a lot to say! :)


The way I see it, he himself said that he never entertained a woman. He is like his dad in this way, his dad also never saw past Nirmala even though he hates her. His dad is also coming from a place of insecurity, but is also very vulnerable to Nirmala. Actually, Ramnath is afraid of her only in any scenes together. Unlike Arnav, Shravan has no relationship history by his own admission and I think it is refreshing in this day and age. I think Nirmala made a big point saying Sumo is one-man woman too, so the CVs are saying that these two are a lot more old-fashioned than we think. Sumo may be practical about Shravan taking the girl along, but they are both impractically romantic about each other. That doesn't really happen anymore. That's why I think it is a sticking point for people who hold on to one person as the only person for them. Petty or not, it is not easy to get over. In fact, since she only saw that he did take this woman along, she has room to really misunderstand. If the CVs wanted to show Shravan as the man of the world, they wouldn't show him kicking the girl out later on. Shravan is not a man of the world and Sumo is not a woman of the world. They just ever thought of each other. Sumo was practical enough to give Shravan up for family, but that's about it. She was always very clear that she won't even let Aditya come to kiss her before the wedding. She thinks all that is "shaadi ke baad." All that said, I am not as conservative and I am not saying that it is the only way to be. I defended her when people tried to say Aditya had a cause to attack as she had a history. It is fine to have a history, it doesn't make her less worthy of respect, but it is also very respectable vice versa if you only ever want to be with your significant other - for males and females.
Edited by Marybarton - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Here we are all over reacting regarding this scenario while there cvs has conveniently forgot about it...it's a major blooper 😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think this should be brought out later maybe in one of Shraman's spiteful arguments... but Suman can actually believe Shravan as a reflection of his dad who's till today stuck up with Niru... they are kind of one-woman men. This leaves a space for Ram-Niru patchup just like how Shraman can. I guess Suman blindly believes Shravan most of the time and her distress that night was by his disgusting behaviour and not for taking another one to his room.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@ Mary:
Totally agree that you can choose to have a history or not have a history. Regardless people are worthy of respect. Yes Shravan admitted there was no one else. But the detailed admission was given to Aditya not Suman. He went down to the nitty gritty with him. But I think Shravan's misogynistic ways as well as his obsession with Suman, prevented him from giving into any other female. Suman was busy building a business and thinking of how she will "patch up" with Shravan to think of anyone else. So they both ended up not having another relationship.


Hey I am ALL for saving yourself for the "One", if that is what you want. Just like I won't look down on anyone who didn't do that! To each their own. All I am saying is, that incident with that random girl was a bit of a blip in the scheme of things for ShraMan and the least of Sumo's worries! She has a chauvinistic husband and a misogynistic Father in law to worry about! Miss Gold sari is pretty low on list! 😊
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Like others have said she was engaged to another guy.

However if Suman was more like Shravan she would be terribly jealous. And take him to task. The fact that she was engaged at the time would be forgotten.

But Suman is suman. She just goes along with things and at the time I believe she was in a total blah mood. She probably didn't care. Also their 'relationship' is not at a point where they can discuss their past and be reasonable about it. She wouldn't bring it up anytime soon.

OR. It could be a blooper. Ya it could very well be 😆

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