LU and Discussion for 9/09/2016 - Page 37

Originally posted by: surochitadutta

Rosh yaar Damn!! Why did you have to describe this scene!! I again started pinning for him 😆😆 see even I have misplaced love for him.. 😆😆

But on a serious note.. If I love a guy like this then maybe after all these things I might still keep loving him maybe forever but I won't making him a part of my life... This is what my brain says...

But my heart says an entirely different thing..

He'll yaar Am I sounding like Sumo?? 😆😆

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Yes, women usually aren't recognised for their sacrifices but they rather get admonished if they seem somewhat selfish... women all around the world are taken for granted be it mom, wife or any lady figure for that matter...

I've never really liked the fact that we all are so against Niru for leaving her family... sometimes its impossible to place ourselves in one's place and pull over the right decision atm.

Originally posted by: Roshni2015

Im in love with this song... Bass... 😳

Originally posted by: nith125

I do not blame Nirmala for leaving Ramnath, she saved herself. But she should have explained her stance to Shravan al least after he turned 18, there could be no custody issues after that. However, even when Shravan asked her "Meri kya galti hai" couldn't she take a moment and explain ? He spews venom but isn't he her son ? 2 minutes it would have taken, thats all.

Not only are women not recognised for the sacrifices, but women are judged harshly by other women. And the irony is that we stick to the rules men have given us, what is wrong in their eyes is wrong is ours as well.

Originally posted by: idonkno

"Everything that you can ever sense is not quiet. Not even quiet is quiet"

Noises can only hide the silence but it can not destroy the silence. It does however succeed in creating a dusty air in the mind and thereby the truth gets lost in the midst of the noise, of chaos. The Shravan Malhotra we are all eagerly waiting to see again is simply enshrouded at the moment as he is constantly being driven by an inner critic that has been well-integrated in him. These nagging voices are the root of his behavior of late as these are not a trustworthy moral companion like one's conscience. These are instead degrading and punishing - often leading people into making unhealthy decisions. It is this inner critic that is hampering ShraMan's relationship as Shravan is equating Suman to Nirmala for a long time now. Now when he is indeed getting married to Suman this life coach is making him assume that they'll experience the same fate as his parents where Sumo will be the one at fault just like Nirmala. A parental model always serves as a 'relationship template' for every child's future relationship and the same is happening with Shravan too.His increased attachment to Ramnath also stems from his fear of abandonment and the loss of his mother whom he sees in a negative light. Shravan deep down is looking for a lasting and a committed relationship which according to him also should be conflict-free but that will only be possible if Suman let goes of the traits similar to Nirmala. That is why communication and conflict resolution has always been the major issue between ShraMan because those skills ain't suitably developed in Shravan. There's a long road ahead for ShraMan...