ls Shravan responsible for the creepy sideof Aditya?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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From last two days, I have been reading so many posts on this.
But just think, is this right to say, shravan is responsible for his creepy act/mind?
Aditya had a creepy look from the moment he saw Suman on the stage.
I'm not supporting shravan, what he did was wrong, especially to Suman
But I won't accept that, shravan is responsible for Aditya's creepy behavior

Shravan did wrong to Suman but not with Aditya
Shravan sprouted that venom in the previous night only.
But think, was Aditya behaving decently with Suman, before that?
His revenge mode was on, from the moment he heard about Shraman relation from Kamini
He have been taunting them, and digging their past from that day itself.
Just for that, he invited Shravan for the shopping & insulted him by saying about his personal stuff shopping,
He conducted bachelor's Party only to dig more about Shraman relationship
Even in his monologue, he expressed his revenge to Suman, before bachelor's Party
If he is such an MCP, why can't he call off the marriage & walk out from the life of the girl, who doesn't love him, but loves someone else.
Wasn't he expecting such a past, when he had been taunting the both from all these past days?
He imagined all these, but get confirmed from Shravan's words..
But the creepy side of him was to be awaken, if not now, then after marriage.
Just because shravan said those words, his creepy side was revealed so soon, before marriage.


If you think, Aditya's this behavior is the result of shravan's words, then I must say, shravan's those words are the result of Aditya's creepy behavior.

The truth here is that, Shravan's words doesn't helped for the 'birth' of creepy Aditya, it just 'awaken' the creepy Aditya.
I agree, his words added fuel to Aditya's creepy mind, but not responsible for that creepy mind
There much differences in those two situations
Something which had to be happened in future, happened so early
that's it.

So I don't believe Shravan is responsible for Aditya's behavior, but it just 'affected' Aditya & forced him to reveal his real face before the world.

Remember, in whatever circumstances, physically assaulting a woman, trying to molesting her is the biggest wrong thing.
Even a husband can't do it with a wife.
The concept of marital rape itself says how wrong that approach is..
Women's body is her own property, noone else's.
Without her permission, no one, even her husband can't touch her...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan would be responsible if Aditya insulted Suman and family for whatever he said and called off the wedding...
But anything justifies molesting a women and forcing him on her...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17

Shravan would be responsible if Aditya insulted Suman and family for whatever he said and called off the wedding...

But anything justifies molesting a women and forcing him on her...



You got it... 👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan is wrong to taking revenge of Nirmala he lied abt his only bff...broke trust of their frndship ...but he didn't think that Aditya wud do this to Suman... Even if shraman did it...that doesn't defend Aditya 's behavior...both way it is crime..forcing a man or woman...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LIKEDMG

Shravan is wrong to taking revenge of Nirmala he lied abt his only bff...broke trust of their frndship ...but he didn't think that Aditya wud do this to Suman... Even if shraman did it...that doesn't defend Aditya 's behavior...both way it is crime..forcing a man or woman...


Yup.. Shravan did wrong to Suman
But not to Aditya..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Right. From day one he had eye on sumo. Evn b4 mariage fixation he was iritating sumo ,be it pct, or tat lehenga, nd thn ilu in prekar weding.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree shravan did wrong to Suman and did right by beating Aditya bcoz nothing can justify molestation. ... It's a crime..
What shravan said... He can rectify it by all his efforts from heart but what Aditya did cannot b rectified...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Aditya is creepy from beginning . He saw suman n he wanted to hav her..
In all fair ways I can only say shravan's words might hav triggered his actions but. He's originally like tha only.. Woh kabhi na kabhi toh Aisa jaroor karta!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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NO!! Aditya was checking Sumo out in a sick way from the jump! Shravan DID do wrong but he didn't commit a crime...what Aditya did was a CRIME!! He's lucky he's not in jail...


The number one thing that's wrong with this world is that the people in it blame others for their own crime. Like Aditya is going to do! "Shravan made me..." he did not MAKE you! This topic gets me heated...I'm not saying this only happens in India...America is FULL of idiots too...
Edited by selfad0809 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Aditya is responsible for his own state. No his creepy actions did not start because of Shravan. They started because of the sort of person he is.

But this incident with the assault happened coz he was not able to hold himself since he heard what Shravan said. He felt like he somehow "lost" this game. He was enjoying taunting Shravan. But when the boot came on the other foot he is not enjoying it as much.


He "wished" to know the equation of ShraMan? Be careful what you wish for, coz you never know it might be the last thing you want! Well he deserved what he got and in Shravan's shoes I may have done the same. But what he did to Suman was a betrayal. Shravan betrayed Suman. For that he will have to pay. But Aditya is responsible for his own state. No one else. Whatever anyone else does, we choose how to react to it.


Yes Shravan reacted to Aditya's taunts, but this has been building up, for weeks. Then the final blow was the engagement and the revelation that Aditya is an Ahuja. That did it! But even still Shravan was not doing anything per se until Nirmala chose to intervene and tell him not to "Mess" with her son and would be daughter in law's happiness. That was literally the last straw. One person cant take much more than that!


But Aditya's choice of how he reacted to Shravan's words is the problem. He could have broken the engagement, stopped the wedding. He could have confronted Suman, called her a liar and told her he knows she and Shravan were more than friends. But THIS? This trying to impose himself on her? That was not needed and only proved his low mentality when it comes to this subject!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago

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