Am I the only one who think Sharaman destroyed Aditya'life ?

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Marybarton

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: lkesgp
I know people don't like Aditya from begining and now totally hated when he tried to rape Suman,
But Aditya in the earlier episode is funny , cheerful and happy go lucky guy now what he became a sadistic person.

Sharavan and Suman were clearly noticing that Aditya was falling into Suman but no body want to stop him because of their so called ego.

It was Sharavan misunderstanding , Suman's promised to Ramnath and Grandpa and most of all lousy mother Nirmala. who made turned this man into beast.

Yes, you are the only one.

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Marybarton

@Marybarton

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: lkesgp
I know people don't like Aditya from begining and now totally hated when he tried to rape Suman,
But Aditya in the earlier episode is funny , cheerful and happy go lucky guy now what he became a sadistic person.

Sharavan and Suman were clearly noticing that Aditya was falling into Suman but no body want to stop him because of their so called ego.

It was Sharavan misunderstanding , Suman's promised to Ramnath and Grandpa and most of all lousy mother Nirmala. who made turned this man into beast.

Yes, you are the only one. You are justifying this misogynistic pig way of thinking. If Sumo has a history, doesn't mean she has to splay herself open to him like she has no standards.

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LIKEDMG

@LIKEDMG

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: kalyas
No you are not alone. Shravan and Suman both in their ego's destroyed Aditya's life. They both made a happy go lucky person a villian. Nothing will or should justify his behavior today but I am not sure I would call it molestation or rape. He could not control his anger and forced himself for a kiss on her which is absolutely wrong.
Had Shravan or Suman properly talked to him about their situation, all this would not happen. This is a classic example how CV's can ruin not 1 but 3 characters at the same time. This is totally the end of a good show.

I agree cvs ruin suman-shravan-Aditya 's char...shraman not responsible for Aditya 's life...all r reasons already posted...tell me why shraman wud tell their story to Aditya ? Do they interfere in his life or they want knowledge for his past? Each 3 chars are responsible for their own action...may b at the end it will be come out on 9 th sept that all r Aditya 's plan to make shraman together...n he is Mahan..,.😉..cvs can do anything..

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simran_singh_24

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

Adhi destroyed his own life. He had other options but he chose meaningless violence . He judged and crucified Sumo and got crucified in the process.
He was pushed to it by two confused soul-mates who can't get their priorities right.
When Adhi was introduced, I knew he'll be the collateral damage.
His mom hates him now and probably will disown him for a while.

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naq5

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: spnfan
First of all sumo clearly on his face told him to stay in.his limits but he didnt... If instead of going to nirmala and nanu he had confessed to sumo shr would have rejected him then and there.. But that despo didnt care aboit what sumo wanted..
Shravan did what he could do.. That is talk to sumo about his doubt... With what authority will shravan stop aditya..
Sumo didnt show an ounce of interest in him even after agreeing for the marriage. Forget showing.interest she couldbt even stand that guy.. Any sane person will get it that the girl has zero interest in him but he turned a blind eye to that... He never directly asked sumo abt shraman.. He did it in he most irritating way possible and started playing.victim card.. Instead of showing sumo skimpy clothes and irritating her with his taunts he could have had a serious conversation about their future but he was more.interested in her past...
Shravan said what he said coz he.knows thats exactly what he wants to hear... All he wanted to know was whether sumo was a virginor not coz all the other things were crystal clear.. He could easily see that both shraman have deep feelings for each other and there are some problems going on b/e them...

Aditya ruined his life himself and shravan cannot be blamed.for his actions.. The only thing shravan can be blamed for is destroying the purity of shraman's friendship and breaking sumo's trust in.him

yes shravan destroyed the purity of his friendship with suman and i belive suman will be more affected with what shravan did than what aditya did. though what aditya did was most disgusting and he deserves no girl after this.

Also i now think in a way what shravan did saved suman from her future.Imagine aditya and suman get married and then he forcing himself upon her in a new city with no one around to save her. because this is what aditya is. there are many layers to ones personality and this is one of them. so though shravan may be very wrong after how aditya reacted to it it now makes me think thank god he did that

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Spnfan

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: naq5

yes shravan destroyed the purity of his friendship with suman and i belive suman will be more affected with what shravan did than what aditya did. though what aditya did was most disgusting and he deserves no girl after this.
Also i now think in a way what shravan did saved suman from her future.Imagine aditya and suman get married and then he forcing himself upon her in a new city with no one around to save her. because this is what aditya is. there are many layers to ones personality and this is one of them. so though shravan may be very wrong after how aditya reacted to it it now makes me think thank god he did that

Sumo should thank her stars that aditya was impatient and dumb... He.is not that clever or cunning like shravan or ramnath.. He is basically a rich spoiled brat who thinks too high of himself and couldn't handle the fact that he has been fooled abd he lost to shravan who from the start hevwa jealous of...

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Mandy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

He did a pretty good job of it himself! He had help, but he brought on that help again by himself. The way he has been acting for the past week or two since finding out from "Chachi" that Suman and Shravan were so called "More than friends",this disaster was waiting to happen! He confronted both Shravan and Suman, but they both denied a former relationship! They were right to deny it. Well actually they both refused to discuss it.

In such a situation, you have two choices...either BELEIVE what the two people involved (Including the woman you say you love and want to marry) is telling you. OR, decide you dont trust what is being told to you, it bothers you too much to think she may have loved someone else before you, then back off! He had NO evidence their relationship, if they had indeed had one, was still on. Fact remains they were hardly on talking terms. But he continued to taunt them both. He asked for the outcome he ended up receiving. Yes he wanted Suman, but if this was true love then he would have accepted her with her baggage! THAT is true love. Whatever Aditya was feeling or doing is not love. He was just wanting to "possess". His EGO was hurt coz he thought he was not the first in Suman's life. His ego was bruised that Shravan was the first! So he acted the way he did!

He ruined himself in front of everyone, and for what he has done only HE is responsible. Even if ShraMan lied to him, THIS was not the right way to deal with it. Someone honest and direct would have gone to his Mother, or Suman's grandfather and told them he can't marry someone he does not trust! Or tell Suman "I don't trust what you are saying" and break it off. But he didn't do that, and chose to stay in the situation taunting and playing mind games! Now finally this big "Kaand" that he did! I think he did a pretty good job screwing up his own life. He does not need help from anyone for it!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago

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mayasingh

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Posted: 9 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Marybarton

Yes, you are the only one. You are justifying this misogynistic pig way of thinking. If Sumo has a history, doesn't mean she has to splay herself open to him like she has no standards.

Aditya was still a stranger to her... how can Suman confide in him about her one sided love...

she lost all hopes after Shravan broke their friendship...

She never blamed anyone...

She agreed to the proposal due to Nanus health and she was going to marry him.. try to be a good wife...

Aditya made it difficult for her...

All their fights were started by Aditya, his doubts...

If he really loved her he should have waited for 2 months to reallly understand her...

but it was his decision to get married in 5 days...

and that too was a test if she says No she has a problem...

He also said I am glad u don't have a past if it was there I would not have like it...

After that which girl will confide in a guy like this...

and to confide you need to trust the guy... she had no reason to trust him...

Shravan asked Aditya how you got Suman and Aditya did not reply.. because he knew Shravan is thinking they are in love... he wouldn't admit that he never proposed and that the marriage was arranged through his mom and Suman had ignored him the whole evening and not yet confessed her love for him...

then later he was forcing her to say ilove you she clearly asked for space and time for even admitting that she loves him... any moron can understand that she is not in love...

and its not because she is stuck in her past...

she is trying to move on but she needs time...

I have a friend and she is happily married for last 12 years... but she has never shared details her college boyfriend of 3 years with her husband..

No one cheated anyone.. it never worked out... and she had moved on.. got married...

and also because she realised that her husband will get insecure and then when they fight he will drag this point in their fights...

Girls cannot trust their future husband with all their feelings that too about past love...

all the guys are not able to handle it...

very few are really matured and take it in their stride...

they trust their partners and accept their past...

Aditya is not one of them...

In the end Aditya just wanted to get even with Suman for the dhokha...

because he was anyways sure there is something between them and they are hiding...

if I was going to marry a guy with past and he was hiding it from me I would have know he has not moved on...

I would have done the first thing clear things and either break the alliance or give it time...

Aditya could have told that he is not sure if they are right for each other and he would like to wait and marry later maybe after 6 months...

but No he wanted to teach her a lesson for not meeting him, for cheating him and not talking to him...

he wanted his wedding night because it seems the girl has already done this with someone else so he should also get it...

well when Suman was not talking to Shravan we got a frustrated Shravan but did he try to teach her a lesson.. force himself on her...he asked her tostay even in the coffee house.. but when she said she is busy he let her go...

No he always gave her space and decided to wait...

because whatever our Shravan is tedha , meda jo bhi but he is a real gentleman...

Aditya was never that... from the start we saw him to cross boundaries... trying to get into people's life... trying to interfere...

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Nisha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: lkesgp
I know people don't like Aditya from begining and now totally hated when he tried to rape Suman,
But Aditya in the earlier episode is funny , cheerful and happy go lucky guy now what he became a sadistic person.

Sharavan and Suman were clearly noticing that Aditya was falling into Suman but no body want to stop him because of their so called ego.

It was Sharavan misunderstanding , Suman's promised to Ramnath and Grandpa and most of all lousy mother Nirmala. who made turned this man into beast.

Everyone here has pointed out how its completely Aditya's fault for ruining his own life..and I strongly agree.

Now lets see some other points -

Aditya when he first time came to visit Tiwari Killa...he started talking to everyone as if he knew them all and then started telling them that their daughter is a liar and cheater and thief. So tell me how many of your school friends can walk in your house and do that...when they have never been in that house before, not met any of your family and do this???? And its acceptable?

Being helpful is great trait but being over helpful and intrusive and jaan much ke kisse ki life mei tang adana isn't called helpful. Even before Aditya realized anything about Shravan and Sumo, he was irritating Sumo, he was forcing his ideas and wants on other people. And if you remember when Sumo made him realize that she dislikes his behavior he went and complained to his mom and was very upset rather than understanding. Again please tell me when a person has the responsibility of taking care of everything for their younger sister's wedding, and an 'old not really a friend' acquaintance all of sudden wants to be part of everything and keeps on disturbing when they clearly tell them that they are very stressed and worried about sister's wedding. A normal/good person would give some space but Aditya kept on poking his nose.

Once he finds out that Nirmala knows Tiwaris he could have said great, now let me talk to Suman first, let me express my feelings to her first then you talk to them. Instead he was like go...go now and talk to them. Nirmala and Aditya completely ignored Suman's rights to choose whether to marry or not! Everyone could see how stressed Suman was, then why force her to take this decision in this way...Nirmala even said that Suman can think about it...but well Aditya didn't care about that and pulled Suman in middle of ceremony, got close to her and then forced her to tell that she loves him!!!?? Then says oh I haven't thats why...seriously!! Then he tells and is now ab bolo!! What is that...does Suman have no right to tell when she feels comfortable? He was forceful then too.

What makes me really angry is how he talked with Sumo...like she has no character..or sanskar...or should not feel any shyness if he wanted to get intimate with her as she has done it before??? Do female's not have right to have any relationship before marriage? Let it be physical or non physical? Is a non virgin female a non-sanskari person? Characterless person automatically? And how about Men...can they be sanskari after having 100 affairs? yes sure they can right? Anyways..the point is Aditya had options...he could have talked to Suman, he could have said I don't want to marry, he could have gone to Shravan and forced him to marry Suman, he could have vanished, he could have been gentelman like Ajay Devgan of Hum dil de chuke sanam or like Akbar of Jodha Akbar giving space and time to the lady. BUT NO he choose to force himself on her and that shows what kind of person Aditya is and it has nothing to do with Shravan or Suman. May be it has to do with Nirmala raising him to be a brat who gets his way always.

And no all of this has nothing to do with if people like Aditya or not like him. And there are many like Aditya who show to the world that they are great fun people but reality is quiet different...shown many times in various shows like CID, Crime petrol, Savdhan India.

By the way, thank you for great topic of discussion.

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Nisha

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Posted: 9 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: mayasingh

Aditya was never that... from the start we saw him to cross boundaries... trying to get into people's life... trying to interfere...

Loved your post as I was going to write most of it and you did it so I had to write less 😆😉 Thank you.