My take on today's episode - For Better or For Worse - Page 2

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@roshni - thank you for the much needed positivity 😳 needed that to go to sleep today 😆
@orion - you are so right - today was the first time, true to his promise to self, shravan was standing up for himself, albeit in a tedha way and of course without giving two hoots to anyone (including sumo) - payback time i guess.

good thing - its out of his system hopefully - this is the worst that he could have done. this pressure cooker was waiting to explode and it did - blowing up its own cover.

@puba - the main misgiving is him sacrificing sumo's trust and the essence of their deep and pure (in no holier than thou sense though) relationship. he claimed to have a (very intimate) relation with sumo - which is untrue and a story spun without sumo's consent - and at least to me - that was disrespectful - a lot! he broke her trust and sort of cheapened their relationship in front of an outsider.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sana_Jannat

Well im not justifying Shravan's action but whatever he did that was forced by Mom-son,shravan is human after all how long he'l avoid all this- Suman's tear,Aditya's irritating behavior etc etc,
nirmala's request was last nail &Shravan Paid with Interest.
agree he demeaned their Friendship
but he'll walk extra mile to repay /rectify his mistake ..probably we'll C Sumo Back after wedding (if happens) /revolution (credit goes to aditya) and nikita was saying something like that in Twitter /live chat..

Now coming to aditya his mind was already thinking same way thats why without second thought he believed it So he deserve those Kicks etc. etc.
In that Case suman should reject both one who don't trust her but some one who hates him and the one who don't care Women's respect in revenge theory.

Yes the man that he is.. Shravan will walk the extra mile to make things better...
Agree with you..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: QUIRKY333

@roshni - thank you for the much needed positivity 😳 needed that to go to sleep today 😆

@orion - you are so right - today was the first time, true to his promise to self, shravan was standing up for himself, albeit in a tedha way and of course without giving two hoots to anyone (including sumo) - payback time i guess.

good thing - its out of his system hopefully - this is the worst that he could have done. this pressure cooker was waiting to explode and it did - blowing up its own cover.

@puba - the main misgiving is him sacrificing sumo's trust and the essence of their deep and pure (in no holier than thou sense though) relationship. he claimed to have a (very intimate) relation with sumo - which is untrue and a story spun without sumo's consent - and at least to me - that was disrespectful - a lot! he broke her trust and sort of cheapened their relationship in front of an outsider.

Sanju, right?
Don't kill me if I got it wrong..
Thanks... 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roshni2015

Sanju, right?
Don't kill me if I got it wrong..
Thanks... 😳


chalo - saved me a kill! 😆 you got it right !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: puba

Agree mostly...but you know Shravan has said a lot of unwanted things (especially about women) in the past! Previously when he uttered those radical statements...there was no underlying good intention...today...he said what he said...first to do what Nirmala had demanded him not to do...second to destroy Adi...and third...to break Adi and Sumo's relationship...coz he knows she isn't happy with it!

I am not saying what he did was the best way to approach this issue...but did he mean to tarnish Sumo's image? Nope...not at all! In fact, he wanted to get her out of this mess! Yes his words will cause Sumo some temporary pain...but in the long run...we all know things will work out for the best!

So a question...I guess people are upset because he lied about their relationship? Is that right?


I don't understand how Nirmala just walks in after all these years and expects Shravan to listen to her.
Really ? She needs a wake up call. There is this dialogue from another show that I really like and it suits the situation on how Shravan actually dealt with Nirmala

"Iss tarah milo jaise bin bulaye gham se milte hai
Paas bitaya, dil mein rakha aur phir kaha
Tumhari to aisi ki taisi""

Thats exactly what he did. The exact opposite of what she wanted.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Can I just say I Love your posts? Not only this one, but I enjoy reading your POV esp with the way you put it across.
I was enjoying the episode till the point where he said he won't hurt his half brother, him saying they are like husband wife - I agree minus the physical relationship but he goes and says sab kuch and the way he says it. I was disappointed. I really wish he had not said it.
I understand his anger and frustration at Nirmala and Aditya but he reacted impulsively, not thinking how it will hurt Sumo. She will be so hurt! But as you said this is what makes him human.

Again, in no way am I supporting his actions. He reacted impulsively, but he was wrong.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't even want to start on Nirmala, woman pisses me off like no other atm!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Understand Shravan's pain, the rage? Absolutely yes. My heart broke at the "Meri kya galti thi?" Felt totally pissed off at Adi's constant badgering.

Accept Shrava's statement about his relationship with Sumo? No. Even if it were true, I'd not have liked the fact that he was sharing such an intimate secret (bragging about it, literally) without Sumo's knowledge AND consent.

Yes, his sass game was rocking (that neck grab!) , but the horror I felt at his statement kind of made everything pale.

I don't know how Shravan will survive the mountain of guilt that he will find himself buried under once he realizes what he has done. In Sumo's shoes, it would be very difficult for me to forgive and forget. Let's just wait and see how she does it.

I love these two... And sure expect the world from them...


As for Nirmala: I just want to Ctrl+Alt+Del that memory!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nith125

Rosh ! Me first, I just finished watching the episode.

The scene when Suman smiles and immediately Adithya sees that Shravan is in the room. All three of them changed their expressions in an instant, very well done Namik,Nikki and Ronit. Then when Shravan has to go to Sumo's room to put the gifts there, we can see that he is clearly pained, as if the name on the mehendi was not enough.
I wish there had been a mini flashback of the scene where Shravan had seen the "S" on Sumo's hand. Would have been a nice touch, cliched but I missed it. The way he looks at the photo. He is shocked that Sumo still has the photo and it is where everyone else can see it even after everything Shravan said and did. He took that one minute, did you see him lower his head. I bet there were tears in his eyes which we couldn't see.

Nirmala mata I have never been able to understand. I don't know if it is her characterization or the limited abilities of my mind. But, did she have to do that and did she have to do that even after he asks what is my fault. This is the nearest Shravan has been to opening up. He actually asked her for an explanation and she refuses to understand him, worse still she is asking him for something he cannot give. For once, she could have said, I am sorry, I want to explain but no, no way. Infact Shravan uses the word "bheek maangna". Did she do this when Ramnath threatened her when she asked for Shravan's custody ? Why does she chose to do it ? Where do her loyalties lie ? Is this the media portrayal of an independant woman ? It sucks big time.

Adithya Shravan scenes are always a treat to watch, an acting contest really.
That too with Nirmala standing over there. It was kind of funny when Adithya said "I don't understand what you are trying to say". Exactly ! Adithya you have no idea, he has no idea what anyone is be it Nirmala, Shravan or Sumo.

Anyways, the party and the much talked about dialogue. Shravan is an adult and he is accountable for his actions. People can say what they want but how one responds is upto us. And always, we should respond and not react. Shravan Malhotra sat on a wall and Shravan Malhotra had a great fall. He is wrong, period. But this is his reaction. The response will come later and it is going to be a dark road ahead for him towards light.
This is his lowest and he can only rise from here. The tide will turn.
Adithya.. Adithya... I felt bad for him, they couldn't get him to break a mirror, teek hai, bottle hi sahi.
It would be unfair not to mention Nikki's performance, subtle, understated and elegant.

It is terrible that so many of us are fighing Sumo-Shravan wars again. Why ? Why fight about who is more at fault ? I don't know what difference it makes.

So Rosh, now that I have typed for half a page, all I want to actually say is that I agree with you as usual 🤗

Cheers !


Nith dear,
🤗
Yes you covered the whole episode...
So.. Let me come to it.. Nirmala, I have no words... What is she? Does she not feel Shravan's pain? The way he said what's his fault.. Man... I had tears (no!).. Yes you are right abut seeing the pic n lowering his head in pain, frustration.. The man has so much buried inside... He is a dormant volcano n it erupted today... Hopefully he has got it all out...
From now like we said... The journey towards light...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: PrincessAshVik

Can I just say I Love your posts? Not only this one, but I enjoy reading your POV esp with the way you put it across.

I was enjoying the episode till the point where he said he won't hurt his half brother, him saying they are like husband wife - I agree minus the physical relationship but he goes and says sab kuch and the way he says it. I was disappointed. I really wish he had not said it.
I understand his anger and frustration at Nirmala and Aditya but he reacted impulsively, not thinking how it will hurt Sumo. She will be so hurt! But as you said this is what makes him human.

Again, in no way am I supporting his actions. He reacted impulsively, but he was wrong.

What's your name? I don't know.. Sorry...
Thank you so much.. 😳
Yes his words can't be justified ...but it's a mistake n everyone is entitled to it... Like I said to err is human..

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