what is the meaning of self respect in tiwari family

hi guys! good morning! in my pov this tiwari family has no self respect at all. our ms self respect tiwariji(sumu) what happened to her? she cannot stand up anymore and give bhashan about self respect? her family especially nanaji(who is the most disappointing character in the show now) wants ramnath to take the responsibility and expense on his granddaughters wedding. and our miss tiwari is keeping quit. what i learned fm all the serial that girls parents don't drink a glass of water to their inlaws.(which is so ridiculous) and now nanu is ready to take help fm ramu? guys explain to me this. i am really lost in this matter.😕 sometimes i wonder where sumu got this self respect crap fm who? her mother took money fm mama mami and now she is paying the price for that. father was a loser one no doubt. because sumu only talks about her mother not father. so what is the story here. what cvs really trying to feed us? its true cvs loves to degrade women character in every serial. when sumu is going to open her mouth, after shravan malhotra ends up in hospital and fight for his life? is she waiting for that? i am curious to watch how shravan come face to face with nirmala, and aditya. i won't be surprise if our ms tiwariji take aditya and nirmala's side. so far she did nothing besides make shravan miserable. and what about preeti and pushkar? do they have any feelings for shraman? they were the first one who noticed that shraman are more than friends. now they act like they have no clue about their relationship. shravan and kamini malhotra, go for it whatever your plan is. i am in your side. i don't feel sorry for sumu at all. in fact her cold shoulder making me angry. to me shravan looks orphan already. what will happen when his fathers truth reveals. your thoughts.