Are we made for each other?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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(Suman):


I love you
And I know you care for me
But the question is,
Does that mean we are made for each other?
Isn't there?
Something called compatibility...
Which should ideally
Bridge the Gap.



How should I feel,
When you constantly doubt my abilities?
When it feels like,
You find fault with everything I do.

When you stand up,
Not beside me, but against!
When I fall short...
Over and over again.

TRUST, I call it.
And I find that lacking..
How can one survive,
If there is no trust?

(Shravan):



When you stand Unflinching,
Like a rock that refuses to budge.
Stay blind to the obvious,
That you cannot be the answer for it all.

I know your concern,
When you rush to me,
The fear of losing,
Someone you need.

What is this need,
If you refuse my help.
Draw a circle around,
And keep me out.

You want me,
Yet you do not want me.
Perhaps you want me,
Only when it suits you.


I love you
And I know you care for me.
But the question is,
Does that mean we are made for each other?
Isn't there?
Something called compatibility...
Which should ideally
Bridge the Gap.




Happy Friendship Day, everyone! 🤗

I want to concentrate on three words here...

Two significant questions being asked by the two friends..

Shravan has been searching for answers for EGO(his conversation with Pushkar)...and Suman is seeking TRUST.
Shravan's interpretation of Suman's ego is quite warped, considering Ramnath has been filling his mind with poison...

But Suman's query on TRUST...is very significant and valid...because that is what this entire story is based on.

At first he didn't trust her to be a good friend and kept her away.
Then he didn't trust her enough to know she meant well when she tried to reconcile him with his mother.
Now he doesn't trust her to do things the right way. According to him, all of Suman's actions are ruled by her ego and he fears she will ruin her life and destroy the happiness of her family and his, because of her ego.

So, here are the two words, ego and trust...and both seeking the answer to one question: Are we compatible?

That is the third word here- compatibility.

In any relationship, there will be ups and downs. And it is impossible that two people will agree on anything and everything...

But the Q is, how will they take their differences?

Are they going to fight about it constantly or accept each other with the faults they see in the other?

Truly made for each other couples learn to take their partners the way they are, without losing their own identity... They might be shaky and stormy as it starts...But they learn to do that on the way.

😊



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Brilliant post...can't agree more You said it all...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: agrawalrk

Brilliant post...can't agree more You said it all...


Thank U. 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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ACCEPTANCE is the key and that doesnt come easy..
Has Sumo accepted Shrav?
Has Shrav accepted Sumo?

Once that happens everything else falls in place

I think he accepts her but Ramnath is blinding him
She accepts him but again Ramnaths angle.

I am just waiting to see how this is resolved..
Edited by spshastr - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spshastr

ACCEPTANCE is the key and that doesnt come easy..

Has Sumo accepted Shrav?
Has Shrav accepted Sumo?

Once that happens everything else falls in place

I think he accepts her but Ramnath is blinding him
She accepts him but again Ramnaths angle.

I am just waiting to see how this is resolved..


And UNDERSTANDING.

Shravan still has not understood who Suman is...

He has not made an effort to understand her...He sticks on to his version and tries to build that up, twisting the good things others have raised...had he been fair and UNBIASED, by now he would have understood Suman the way Aditya has...or Pushkar does👍🏼...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


And UNDERSTANDING.

Shravan still has not understood who Suman is...

He has not made an effort to understand her...He sticks on to his version and tries to build that up, twisting the good things others have raised...had he been fair and UNBIASED, by now he would have understood Suman the way Aditya has...or Pushkar does👍🏼...



Yes and actually in real life if that understanding and acceptance does not come marriage will be a disaster
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Brilliant post, Chick!
Absolutely loved reading it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I love your post, Chick :) :)

Two people could share everything in common in terms of likes, interests, and personality...But, let sin enter the picture, and a seemingly compatible couple can quickly become the most incompatible pair...

Compatibility does not hinge on some personal inventory of traits. It is not something that you have. Instead it is something you make. Its a process - something that you negotiate as you go along - over and over again. Call it an attitude or a willingness to work...

Incompatibility can be beautiful too - it makes relationships stronger and more interesting despite the existing differences.

Simply put - compatibility is not the make or break issue of relationships...But, like you said the way one resolve their issues does make a difference...

Let's see how ShraMan resolve their conflict :)

Edited by idonkno - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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wow brilliant and very apt lines
awesome post👏👏

loved suman lines more bevoz fully agree with them

and happy frienship day to all
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post ,Brilliantly done 👏

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