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Posted: 9 years ago
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love it! i enjoy aditya shravan scenes a lot more than aditya sumo because of the things you mentioned above. beautifully put, dear 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

He dont know a.thing about sumo.. Even her family.members.dont.know her.how will he... He is more interested in impressing her than.knowing her...

Aditya likes suman not sumo.. The pretty looking well behaved naive.girl.not the.bossy arrogant sumo.. As shravan said.she.will sell guy like aditya in the market 10time and.he wont be aware.of it... Only a.certain malhotra has the patentions and calmness to deal with it..
I.dont think aditya ia ever.gonna see the real sumo since she is.her true self only to people who.is.extremely close.to her.
Till date she has.only shown her.bossy arrogant attitude to preeta, pushkar and shravan only... They are the only people who have seen all colours.of sumo and understands her.inside out...


I agree with you on this. But I would not point it out as Aditya's fault. This is what happens in reality. A guy sees a good looking girl and makes efforts to impress her. Only after both agree to go out do they propoerly get to know each other. Aditya hardly has had the time or oppurtunity to know Suman. So from his pov he is doing what is necessary to impress her.

On the other hand, Shravan has known Suman over ages, through thicks and thins, through ups and downs, through the changes in each others characters and personalities. This is definitely a stronger relationship.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nancyrio90

Malika though I agree with u somewhat but not fully...from what I see is that Adi may b quick in trying to make relation but he might not b shallow! He is just full of life and that's how he wants the other person to b.. Just happy! He is guy of that moment and Shravan thinks too much into the future...

well that's the diff of upbringing they r trying to draw i feel one very thoughtful and invested in the future that's Shravan other man of the moment..happy go lucky and thinks lil about future..that's Adi..there r pros and cons on both these personality traits but how Cvs play these traits on both these guys whether positive or negative only time will tell! Just my thought


Absolutely to the point ! Aditya is quick in making relationships since he is an extrovert guy who is friendly and outgoing. He makes efforts to befriend people and quickly blends in with them, helping them whenever needed. His character is like that. But that would not mean he is shallow. Its also a well known fact, that behind such personalities are minds that are generally lonely.

Shravan on the other hand is apprehensive of every relationship due to his past experiences. He is a loner with Pushkar and Suman as his only friends. He has had a tough life with his mother leaving him, with Sumo being utterly selfish in his childhood, his chachi trying to demand Pushkar's rightful place and hence he thinks too much before building a new relationship.

The two are different types of personalities, and its better not be judgemental about either. Each has its flaws , each has its positives. Just like there are flaws in both Ramnath and Nirmala.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Hello people...I am back with my two cents on the episode, well took a leave from office today so got lucky to catch the 10 PM telecast. Coming to the post I feel this was a kind of epi you really can't decide if you like or not. Because as much as it contains all the right feelings, it also does it in all the wrong ways. But what I loved the most in the whole epi was the beautiful contrast drawn between Shravan and Aditya and between the relationship of ShraMan and equation of Sumo-Adi:


ShraMan's bond v/s Sumo-Adi's equation:

Well ShraMan have been together almost since more than a decade. It's obvious they know each and every detail about each other. Even something as small as how much sugar the other likes in their tea/coffee too. 😳 But honestly that's not the only test of any relationship. Its just not about if you know someone since years. What is equally important is that if even after all those years you still find so much love, so much depth, so much respect, so much emotion and so much passion in the same relationship as earlier. That's in my opinion the highest forms of love. When years of transformations or turns of time cannot even touch the flame of your passion for someone. And that's exactly the case with Shravan. Well the moment Shravan advises Daboo to make a good friend so that every day at school becomes a beautiful memory...Miss Tiwari's heart goes for a toss 😉 She is literally left breathless for a second. 😳 I mean damn dude! How can a girl even stop herself from loving a guy like him...*You have some real good control over yourself Miss Suman Tiwari* 😆 A man who not just remembers each moment spent with his woman but also cherishes it like something so precious...Its a rarity!! And an immensely beautiful one!! It's ovious Sumo couldn't control her heart in that moment. And on the other hand we got to see Adi. The guy is definitely sharp, too quick and a go-getter. Someone who doesn't wait for things to happen to him but goes for the kill. And thats where he faltered when it came to Sumo. Well the man doesn't know that this girl is not so simple and comes with a statutory warning which currently is not visible to him because honestly he is not even in that zone. 😆😉 He bought Sumo the lehenga by lying only because he wanted to see how hot/beautiful she looks in it 😆 Well he doesn't know what mess he is into as soon as Sumo comes to know of his lie.😆 That's the problem with Aditya. He is physically attracted to Sumo but doesn't care to know her a bit. He knows he likes her but doesn't care what she feels. So basically for him there is no need to create any bond with someone or knowing their real personality before you become so sure of them. Well I wish I could tell him that sadly Mr. guy next door you can be the worst kind of life partner for a girl like Sumo. To handle the stubborn independent badass mess she is, we need a keeper like our hero You havent seen even the bad of her, leave the worst, coz in case you did, you would run much quicker than you are going in this relationship.

Shravan v/s Aditya:


Once again a beautiful comparison drawn in the last scene.So Adi says that his mom has taught him to make relationships in a second and take a whole age to let go of them...ROFL what a hypocritical woman Nirmala! I wonder where this theory was when she broke her relationship with her son. 🤢Anyways I can definitely say Adi's personality speaks volumes about Nirmala's upbringing. He is short-sighted. Takes hasty un-thoughtful decisions. Well just like Nirmala. On one side he thinks whatever he did for buying the lehenga was to see Sumo's happiness but on the other hand talks about imagining her in the lehenga...Hypocrisy totally at Nirmala's level!! 😆While on the other hand Shravan's views reflect the rigidness of Ramnath but at the same time the persistence of his love for Sumo. Shravan says he feels making relationships should be a slow thoughtful process because otherwise you end up being with the wrong people. That thought process might be age old like his father, but has been nurtured by the reality and consistent persistence of his love. He has totally invested himself in the very few relationships of his life (Sumo to be precise) and that investment has always bore him some of the sweetest fruits. His love might not be demanding or too quick, but it is surely not short-sighted. He knows the worst of Sumo and still dies to handle her in all that mess. 😳

Honestly I couldnt have asked for a better self-explanatory episode on Shra v/s Adi. Would love to see more follow ups. Rest to all is fine though slightly boring. I wish they don't stretch it too much or even if they do I want to see Sumo literally struggling to stay away from him. I want her love to win over resistance this time. And Adi's constant attempts to pull her away from Shra will be of much help. Lets see how it infolds.




wonderful analysis..beautifully explained...

Agree with u100%

@bold: Bang on...loved those lines...👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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A wonderful post like always, Malika! How have you been 😊? What I gathered from the last episode and characterization of Aditya till now can be best described through a quote by Mason Cooley - "Romance is tempestuous. Love is Calm"... At the moment, Aditya is just infatuated with Suman whereas Shravan loves (cares very strongly and very deeply) Suman...Aditya's feelings towards Suman is merely an imaginary wishful thinking and is simply experiencing a hit of emotion which is fleeting in nature..ShraMan on the other hand share romantic profundity that is established through recognizing and accepting the rich, meaningful and complex nature of each other ...



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: idonkno

A wonderful post like always, Malika! How have you been 😊? What I gathered from the last episode and characterization of Aditya till now can be best described through a quote by Mason Cooley - "Romance is tempestuous. Love is Calm"... At the moment, Aditya is just infatuated with Suman whereas Shravan loves (cares very strongly and very deeply) Suman...Aditya's feelings towards Suman is merely an imaginary wishful thinking and is simply experiencing a hit of emotion which is fleeting in nature..ShraMan on the other hand share romantic profundity that is established through recognizing and accepting the rich, meaningful and complex nature of each other ...




agree with you preeti 👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What I gathered from the last episode and characterization of Aditya till now can be best described through a quote by Mason Cooley - "Romance is tempestuous. Love is Calm"... At the moment, Aditya is just infatuated with Suman whereas Shravan loves (cares very strongly and very deeply) Suman...Aditya's feelings towards Suman is merely an imaginary wishful thinking and is simply experiencing a hit of emotion which is fleeting in nature..ShraMan on the other hand share romantic profundity that is established through recognizing and accepting the rich, meaningful and complex nature of each other ...





@Malika : I beg to differ on your views about Nirmala. Aditya and Shravan are almost the same age. Nirmala moved out of Ramnath's home when Shravan was in his teens (late teens), so it's obvious that she walked into Aditya's life around the same time. What upbringing are we talking about? 😃 Shravan and Aditya are now professionals and hav their own distinct personality. Aditya is smitten with Sumo and she is least bothered whereas Shravan is what he has always been-protective and caring.

@idonkno : Very nice post. To continue from above, I share the same views. Aditya cleared from Sumo about her relationship quotient with Shravan and is then making all moves. He is fast paced and doesn't believe in waiting for things to happen. He wants to make them happen. 😃 I like this character a lot. He is adding the right amount of twist in this plot. He is smart and well-mannered. Trying to get into Sumo's good books. 👏 What he doesn't know is that Sumo is made of sterner stuff and only Shravan can tame her!

Shravan needs to take a lesson or two from Aditya. If you wait forever, someone else would steal Sumo away from right under his nose!! 😲 Shravan can bait Sumo by taunting that her self-respect is under a cloud as she took help from a new friend. While Sumo is baffled, he can outsmart her to check with the designer. Then Aditya would see a new Sumo. 😃

This is an interesting turning point in the serial, where Nirmala can make efforts to clear misunderstanding (she ran away before) while Aditya may bring the warring lovebirds together. Pushkar can also play a role here...



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: idonkno

A wonderful post like always, Malika! How have you been 😊? What I gathered from the last episode and characterization of Aditya till now can be best described through a quote by Mason Cooley - "Romance is tempestuous. Love is Calm"... At the moment, Aditya is just infatuated with Suman whereas Shravan loves (cares very strongly and very deeply) Suman...Aditya's feelings towards Suman is merely an imaginary wishful thinking and is simply experiencing a hit of emotion which is fleeting in nature..ShraMan on the other hand share romantic profundity that is established through recognizing and accepting the rich, meaningful and complex nature of each other ...





Hey preeti 🤗
I am actually amused to find so many Reporters buddies here 😊
And srsly whatever you said...WORD! I totally agree. Basically what Aditya is experiencing is a typical case of infatuation. May be he knows a thing or two about her from college days. Things like how she was a strong independent opinionated girl. Apart from that her beauty is mainly what drives him to her. And I am sure the fact that his mom also loves Sumo will add to his surety factor about her. But the biggest problem here is that probably both Aditya and Nirmala love the well-behaved good-natured forever sweet Suman. They are totally unaware of the real Sumo. And here is where our hero comes into place. 😳 Probably he is the only guy in Sumo's life who knows she will break his foot but still dies to dance with her 😆 He is the only one who knows how cold and stubborn she can be rather his father has warned him about it but the still cant stop himself from caring for her, for being possessive for her well-being...even something as simple as someone scolding her or praising her affects him os deeply 😳 So as they say its not about who only loves the best in you, its about who has seen the worst in you and still dreams to be with you 😳

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