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Posted: 9 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: KatilanaMirchi

Much needed post Soup...can't agree more with u !🤗


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


She didn't insult him- Just reminded him how rude he had been to her, when he decided to gang up with Kamini. Come on, that was unacceptable. The ONLY PEOPLE who criticised her were Kamini's friends...everyone else found it wonderful. And he had really wanted to apologise, but it came out as if he was trivialising the entire fight he had started. She deserved an apology, especially after she showed him how to apologise and be nice.

As for going beyond..did you miss the part where Shravan said he didn't want Suman to ruin the Sangeet also for his precious Kamini Chachi. 😆 In this entire drama, doesn't it seem odd that Shravan is the only one supporting Kamini? Her husband and son just tell her to shut up.

She is not getting lost in Aditya. Aditya is moony over her..she is just looking for a support from a friend. She can't get close to Shravan who anyway criticises her for everything otherwise too..Pushkar is busy in his wedding...the guy genuinely offers her advice about her small business venture...if Shravan can't take a girl getting friendly with a guy who is not her husband/ lover...that is his problem.


Love you for the post and this reply.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jessicarh



@bold: point 👍🏼 can't agree more to that..well said😃
Who gave shravan the right to decide sumo's friend..until n unless he's his lover/husband 😕
I think shravan bhul gaya hai ki usne ab tak sumo se confess nahi kiya hai😆


Even if he confessed what is wrong with Sumo having a man as a friend? I think that was the base of Ramnaths problem.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss


Even if he confessed what is wrong with Sumo having a man as a friend? I think that was the base of Ramnaths problem.


Exactly.

It is scary to see Shravan turn himself into a Ramnath clone like this.
This is not who Shravan is. He is just being influenced..to the extent he can't even see what Pushkar is trying to tell him when he tells him not to interfere with Suman's plans...

But what is really scary is that Ramnath has succeeded in making a puppet out of Shravan.

Esp the way he REFUSED TO BELIEVE SUMAN DIDN'T KNOW THE GUY...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


Hahaha good one. Particularly @blue. If Shravan gets it we will all follow suit 😉
Edited by poppinss - 9 years ago

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


Thank U.

Yes, people forget. As easily as Shravan does.

Even now, I wish she hadn't covered up for him! What for? Let him make his own excuses! 😉


I think she covered for him due to her guilt. She is harsh with him to push him away from her. All thanks to Ramnath and that guilt makes her do what she did.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


Nothing like Suman is a mahaan devi.

For eg. What business did she have supporting and making excuses for Shravan?😡

Stop being a mahan devi, Suman! 😉😆

No one is saying Suman is without fault...but she is who she is, just like he is who he is...Let them sort it out together.

But right now, it would help if Shravan didn't constantly compare Suman to Ramnath's twisted version of his mother.

Who should Suman compare Shravan to, I wonder! 🥱



Who else but the villain 😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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loving your daily dose of post keep it up
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup


Malika,

Thanx for understanding what I was trying to say.

@ Blue- If it is not so, he should stop comparing Suman with Kamini, Preeti and Nirmala ..Right now, he is slotting her as her father wishes him to. It is downright unfair...and well, if a guy doe sthat to me, I'd say he doesn't deserve me, whether I am rude or not. This is WHERE HE NEEDS TO RESPECT HER JUST LIKE PUSHKAR RESPECTS PREETI.

@ Red- Shravan sees only that part..he doesn't SEE THE PAIN HE IS GIVING HER.

@ Purple: She tried to get him to understand what is meant by self respect, by getting him to connect with his mother...he denied her outright...Now she is in teh line of Ramnath's fire...and unless Shravan searches for the ROOTS OF THIS SELF RESPECT IN HIS MOTHER, he WILL NOT BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND SUMAN EITHER!

Woh bachha nahi hai. Khud ka doctor ban sakta hai.
High time Suman stopped nursing him too, IMO.

And perhaps, it will be the other way around...Shravan will understand Suman first, and then know why his mother did what she did.


Bingo Chick! You are on fire today and am loving every bit of it.

Disagree only with one point. Pushkar respecting Preeti 😉 we don't know that yet... do we?😆

On the one hand i guess some of us are too enamored of Namik that we end up being sorry for him and forget to look past Namik in Shravan 😊. On the other hand some of us are traditional and kind of go with old school of dos and donts. That sure would make Sumo look bad. But from a feminist perspective she is not wrong.

For someone who has lived in London for 10 years... Shravan sure sounds like a masochist... he was not this in his teens bk in india. London sure has not been all good for him 😉

On a serious note. He needs to grow up. He loves his chachi cause he thinks she is a better mother and has doubts about sumo as she does not fall easily into his plans. He is thus loaded with negativity today because of 2 ppl in his life, ramu and nimmy.

Till he is ready to look back he would never look forward. Neither would he have the peace and happiness that he really craves for...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Soup. Great post. I am out of town travelling so have not been able to watch the latest episode. I too think that until Shravan addresses the "Nirmala" issue, he can never move forward. That is why I wrote a story where he does just that. (I am yet to finish it, but I will soon). In my story now Sharvan and Nirmala have reunited and patched up.

Shravan has major trust issues! Ramnath is an ace jerk and is imposing HIS warped views of women and marriage in his son. He is poisoning his mind. He doesn't like Suman for Shravan coz she is independent and has a career. He thinks women like KAMINI are better? THAT is like the biggest joke ever! If he only knew what a terrible person she really is? How cunning and conniving and uncaring towards him and his son. How they are just a means to an end for her! A way to live a lifestyle that if not for him, would not be possible for her. Kamini is NOT from a posh background. (No offence but she doesn't even speak proper English). She is living off the glory of her brother in law. I despise her and her type. They never do a days work, but insult people who make their money themselves. Suman has more "Aukad" than she ever will. Suman has her OWN money? What does she have? But can Ramanath see though her fakeness? No! Shravan could. (He always knew she didn't care much for him). But now acts like her Fan, all thanks to his Dad's poisoning of his mind. We saw him at the start defer to her, mostly coz he thought she was a good Mother and understood her sentiments towards her children, and wanting them to have more in life. (Even at his expense). But now he actually acts like she is a good PERSON? He must be cracked and that is thanks to his Dad!


Sorry I know I went off tropic for sometime. But the fact is, I think the MAIN issue here is Shravan's warped view of women. His father has filled his head with ideas of how women "should" be, and how he should never marry a woman like his Mother, is the biggest hurdle to SHRAMAN. Shravan is just not "getting" it. I understand Suman takes the self respect thing too far sometimes and fails to understand where Shravan is coming from! But I GET her totally! I was actually just like her and still am. I will never let anyone bail me out of situations or try to "save" me. I would rather do it to the best of my abilities. In Suman's shoes I would also have refused to take Shravan's money or his help. (If like you said he had offered it more upfront about the hall, like the discount for people who are recommended) maybe Suman may have been more malleable. But when she realised Shravan had plotted with the hall guy, she was offended! But I understand why Shravan wanted the better place. He wanted Kameeni to keep her mouth shut and be happy for once!


Even I don't mind this guy as long as he is not forced down our throats and made into a permenent fixture like some characters become in shows who were supposed to be guest appearances or cameos. If he serves his purpose then I am OK with it. I have not seen his episode yet, but saw his intro. (Didn't like it). But I think he may still be a good addition to this already over complicated situation. He may just simplify it!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 9 years ago

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