beagleboy thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#1
WHY?
Why do we assume the role of grand jury and pass judgement on Love?

Why do we feel the need to quantify love? Suman loves Shravan more, Shravan loves Suman more.Sumo's love is deep, deeper, deepest. No, that would be Shravan's love.
Is it not enough that love, the forever kind, exists?

Why do we colour love? It is already enriched by hues of anger, jealousy and passion. Must we add more?

Why do we expect so much from Love? Is it not unconditional?

Why do we design convoluted pay-backs in Love? Is it not free, unencumbered and alien to ill feeling?

Why do we assign definitions to Love? Can you trap it in words?

Why do we look for metaphors and Similies in Love? Is it comparable?









Created

Last reply

Replies

9

Views

977

Users

9

Likes

31

Frequent Posters

EDKV_Ciara thumbnail
9th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#2
you deserve a round of applause for making such a post👏 !!!
orion23 thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 9 years ago
#3
👏 👏
Take a bow!
Love is love, unconditional, uncompromising, uncomparable, unjudged..
Hats off to your post!
poppinss thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#4
Great post beagle.

But... In this world is there such a thing as unconditional love at all times?

This is mostly seen in poetry, books and wishful thinking. But sadly in reality there is always conditions in love. The only love that comes close to being unconditional is a mothers love fur her child. But evn that to certain extent is conditional,.

Maybe that's why shravan is so angry with his mom and sumo cares so deeply for hers.

Between shraman too there are a lot of conditions. .. friend zone, self respect, longitivity, understanding and no Daal 😆

But that. .. is the beauty of love. Understanding and adjustments makes it last.
Edited by poppinss - 9 years ago
sheeluneelu thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#5
Love is unconditional .. nice post 👏
beagleboy thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#6

Originally posted by: poppinss

Great post beagle.

But... In this world is there such a thing as unconditional love at all times?

This is mostly seen in poetry, books and wishful thinking. But sadly in reality there is always conditions in love. The only love that comes close to being unconditional is a mothers love fur her child. But evn that to certain extent is conditional,.

Maybe that's why shravan is so angry with his mom and sumo cares so deeply for hers.

Between shraman too there are a lot of conditions. .. friend zone, self respect, longitivity, understanding and no Daal 😆

But that. .. is the beauty of love. Understanding and adjustments makes it last.


Hmmm... and are those conditions in love met, always?

If the conditions are not met, does it alter our love in any way?

I may have A MILLION expectations from the people I love, often these are not met. So, does it alter the intensity of my love? NO? It is as deep and as intense as ever.

And so, I find, cliched as it may sound, perhaps Love is unconditional, like in stories and books. Because, it ACTUALLY does not expect anything in return. It may politely ask, it may aggressively demand, but at the end of the day it is docile and accepting if those conditions are not met.


Edited by beagleboy - 9 years ago
noexcuse thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: beagleboy

WHY?

Why do we assume the role of grand jury and pass judgement on Love?

Why do we feel the need to quantify love? Suman loves Shravan more, Shravan loves Suman more.Sumo's love is deep, deeper, deepest. No, that would be Shravan's love.
Is it not enough that love, the forever kind, exists?

Why do we colour love? It is already enriched by hues of anger, jealousy and passion. Must we add more?

Why do we expect so much from Love? Is it not unconditional?

Why do we design convoluted pay-backs in Love? Is it not free, unencumbered and alien to ill feeling?

Why do we assign definitions to Love? Can you trap it in words?

Why do we look for metaphors and Similies in Love? Is it comparable?




👏
Deep thought on love. This might exist but not everyone is lucky to have it, I guess.
indranigupta thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 9 years ago
#8
@Beagle... thank you for this post🤗
Beautiful and sublime

Love makes the world go round. Love exists for me that is enough. I do not care for maintaining scores or paybacks. Love is not easy but it also never expects reward in return.
Agree with your problems with definition and comparisons. Definitions tend to enchain love, comparisons fails to embody its colours or hues.
Love grows, yet it does not alter. It values space and yet this same space allows one to look at each other with clarity. Not making that space to function as a void.

Love is walking together side by side... it might be one walks faster than the other, the other slower but they walk and continue to do so in bliss and sadness... always together
SleepyPsycho thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 9 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: indranigupta

@Beagle... thank you for this post🤗

Beautiful and sublime

Love makes the world go round. Love exists for me that is enough. I do not care for maintaining scores or paybacks. Love is not easy but it also never expects reward in return.
Agree with your problems with definition and comparisons. Definitions tend to enchain love, comparisons fails to embody its colours or hues.
Love grows, yet it does not alter. It values space and yet this same space allows one to look at each other with clarity. Not making that space to function as a void.

Love is walking together side by side... it might be one walks faster than the other, the other slower but they walk and continue to do so in bliss and sadness... always together


+1
sptrno thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 9 years ago
#10
Awww so beautiful & meaningful!


TFS


Love,
Spandana

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".